Forgave him after being betrayed by her husband, can you still live well in the future after marriag

Updated on psychology 2024-07-27
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    betrayed and forgave him, can you live the rest of your life? It depends on how much you love him. Some people can, but some people will never be able to cross this hurdle.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    No, your husband has already betrayed you, you will have a crisis of trust in him, and the two of you will quarrel in the future, and the relationship will not return to the way it was before.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think it's okay, but as a woman, you must tolerate it, you can't always poke her sore spots, and you must give him face outside.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think there are two reasons for this problem, one is the relationship between the two, and the other is that it takes time to prove. If the betrayed party sincerely repents and never makes similar mistakes, and the other party sincerely accepts it, then the marriage can be completely happy. If the betraying party still does not respect himself in the future, then the marriage can only end there, and the party at fault wants to face the problem carefully.

    The most unbearable thing in a marriage is the betrayal of the partner, and the pain caused by this betrayal will follow the innocent party for a lifetime, leaving a strong shadow on the psyche. If your partner betrays you, the other party can forgive you, then I think the first reason is that he loves you very much, even if there is no bottom line, he can tolerate and regress, it can be seen that your status in his heart is so high. The second reason lies in the family with children, in order not to break up the family and prevent the children from losing their father's and mother's love, he chose to back down.

    If you want this marriage to continue, then the party at fault should not touch the other party's bottom line again, since you can forgive you and prove that you still have a place in his heart. You might as well care and understand each other more, create some little romance and surprises, be more gentle and considerate, and after a long time, the relationship between the husband and wife will naturally release their previous suspicions and get along with each other. As the party at fault, don't blame and slander the other party or take a lukewarm attitude, if so, the final result can only be a parting of ways.

    Although the other party has forgiven you, this shadow will still linger in his heart, and even become a soldier, and the individual is very sensitive to your affairs, and the trust will naturally decline. For example: you go out to socialize normally, sing and party with friends, etc., these will inevitably be thought about by the other party, you may wish to go anywhere to inform each other in advance, and you can use **** to eliminate each other's doubts, in short, whether this marriage can continue depends entirely on each other's efforts, trust and care.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    No, even if two people are reconciled and two people live again, there will be some estrangement, and this is also an emotional rift in life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Personally, I think it's not good, two people have a psychological existence, and a person who feels guilty has become particularly sensitive, and will no longer trust each other, and there will be a lot of problems in the future.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    No, because there will be a certain knot between two people, and there will be a certain estrangement, and they can't be reconciled at all.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't forgive the other person, because I have emotional cleanliness in the relationship, so I can't accept the betrayal of my other half.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    He will not forgive, because since he will betray the first time, he will betray the second time, and after forgiving once, the relationship between our husband and wife will not be good.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Undoubtedly, then I will never forgive a person who betrays me, because if he does this kind of thing, then it is unforgivable, even if he has a last resort, then I understand the other party, but it is absolutely impossible to forgive, just like the mirror is broken, then there is still a crack where there is, then there must be a gap in the heart, forgiveness is basically impossible to forgive, if you understand, then it is possible to understand, but forgiveness is impossible.

    Unforgivable. If this kind of thing is done, then it is basically a thing that cannot be forgiven, because many times although we will encounter something that we have to do, but this does not mean that we can forgive the other party, because if we do this kind of thing, then we have done this kind of thing, then we cannot be forgiven for any reason, after all, what we have done is what we have done, and things have happened, so it is basically unforgivable, because betrayal is the most hateful thing.

    Understandable. Of course, there are many times when betrayal is due to some unavoidable reasons, then I can understand the other party, but basically I can't forgive the other party, I believe that anyone who is in some unavoidable reasons, then will do this kind of thing to betray things, but it can't be forgiven, because some things can be forgiven, but betrayal is a thing that can never be forgiven.

    From the point of view of a person who betrayed me, then his behavior has made me very cold, so let this kind of behavior appear is an act that can be understood, but can never be forgiven, betrayal is absolutely not able or enough to be seen.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I can't forgive him.

    Before the betrayal happened, I would trust him wholeheartedly, and I believe that his feelings for me are also wholehearted. But when I found out that he was hiding something from me, having an affair with someone else, and betraying the family, my heart had completely lost trust in him at that moment.

    When I am with him, I will think of him having affairs with others, I will think of his various behaviors, and I will think that he is very disgusting. Seeing him is like eating a fly, and I want to swallow but can't swallow it.

    The other party betrayed him, and it was very difficult to forgive him. Even if he repeatedly promised that he would not make the same mistake again and that he would be single-minded with me, I would never trust him again, and if he was single-minded with me, how could he do those things.

    When you are with a person who betrays you, your relationship can't be as good as ever, and there is already a thorn in your heart.

    I think he didn't take me to heart by doing that, and even though he did well later, I would remember those things.

    These things will be a thorn in my heart, and when I think of them, I will have a dull pain in my heart, and I can't trust him anymore. I think that in such a state, it is impossible for two people to trust each other, and it is impossible to be sincere with each other, so why should they be with each other, it is better to separate early, and to separate early is to liberate each other and liberate themselves.

    Besides, the subject betrayed himself, and after betraying, he may do the same thing again and again, and you will be the victim in the end.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Since there is no need to forgive if you betray, you can't forgive what violates the bottom line.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Undoubtedly, then I will never forgive a person who betrays me, because if he does this kind of thing, then it is unforgivable, even if he has a last resort, then I understand the other party, but it is absolutely impossible to forgive, just like the mirror is broken, then there is still a crack where there is a crack, then there must be a gap in the heart, forgiveness is basically impossible to forgive, if you understand, then it is possible to understand, but forgiveness is impossible.

    Unforgivable. If you do this kind of thing, then it is basically something that cannot be forgiven, <>

    Because many times although we will encounter some forced things, but this does not mean that we can forgive the other party, because we have done this kind of thing, then we have done this kind of thing, then it cannot be forgiven for any reason, after all, what we do is to do things, and things have happened, then it is basically unforgivable, because betrayal is the most hateful thing.

    Understandable. Of course, there are many times when betrayal is because of some unavoidable reasons, then I can understand the other party, but basically I can't forgive the other party, I believe that anyone who is in some unavoidable reasons, then will do this kind of rude things to betray things, but can not be forgiven, because some things can be forgiven, but betrayal is a thing that can never be forgiven.

    From the point of view of a person who betrayed me, then his behavior has made me very cold, so let this kind of behavior appear is an act that can be understood, but can never be forgiven, betrayal can never be seen.

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