How to distinguish between psychological comfort and true feelings, and what is psychological comfor

Looks like you're a girl, aren't you?

From the information you provided, you are in love with him, which is why you have this thought and feeling. The reason for being embarrassed is that you haven't figured out whether he likes you or not, so you feel that it is difficult. I always want to text him, but I'm afraid that I will lose touch with him, but every time I text I don't know what to say, or after sending a few words of concern to each other, I don't know how to continue to send it, right?

Based on your current thoughts, I don't think you need to be so nervous, I think maybe you just know each other, or maybe you've known each other for a long time and aren't very familiar, and you just like him, that's your trouble. But there's no problem, I'll show you a way.

If you still follow your current method, you will never be with her, because people who are in love are like this, and often the more familiar they are, the less they will be together.

You can try to find your friends to help you, create some time for yourself that you can play together, and then create opportunities for the two of you to be alone, you can test his heart, or ask your friends to help you ask, it's okay, just know what he thinks, the rest will be easy to do, then it's up to you.

Like is a faint love, love is a deep like, don't hide it if you have feelings, don't force it if you don't have feelings!

If you feel okay, I suggest you don't try to make it so clear, after all, it's not a bad thing for any of you now, sometimes, some things, it's better not to understand, I think so.

True affection is not for everyone, comfort does not distinguish between objects.

The mood is understandable, in fact, everyone has encountered similar things, and some people have said: you can't control what happens, and how to face and deal with it is what you have to do. It's already a loss to lose something, and if you get angry because of this, you'll lose twice.

It's easy to say, but it's not hard to do if you figure it out.

Let me tell you a little story: A friend went to a friend to run an errand, and ended up waiting for the train at the station and lost his bag, mobile phone, cash, and all his documents. I couldn't do it, and I was angry, and my friend refunded the ticket and went home, and the more I thought about it, the more angry I became, but I couldn't help it.

There is no other way but to be heartfelt. At night, his friend hit the ** home, and the first thing he said was are you okay, right? He said I picked you up at the station, waited for an hour and didn't arrive, your mobile phone was also turned off, just asked the station, they said that the car you were sitting in had an accident halfway, and there were people **.

In fact, there are many such things in life, and if you are like this friend, you lost something but escaped it, isn't it a good thing? For example, if you develop an aversion to the game and focus on your studies, believing that you will soon make great progress, you will be a blessing in disguise!

Seon lost his horse, how do you know if it's a blessing?