What should a middle aged man do if he is unemployed and can t find a suitable job?

As a peer, I would like to say three things:

First, we must face up to reality. When people reach middle age, there are elderly people and children, and the loss of economic ** will make life very poor and fall into difficulties. But this is not the worst thing, what is even more terrible is that long-term unemployment can make a person become anxious, irritable, fall into deep self-doubt, wear down fighting spirit and self-confidence, and completely destroy a person.

I know an old battalion commander who has not been able to find a suitable job since he chose his own job, although he can receive a retirement pension every month and live a worry-free life. However, he has been separated from society for a long time, and his wife often complains, and his mental state is very poor, and people in their forties look like old men in their sixties. No one would have thought that he was once a high-spirited and heroic officer.

Therefore, it is necessary to avoid falling into a state of long-term unemployment as much as possible, and actively look for opportunities to find employment as soon as possible.

Second, be down-to-earth. The so-called can't find a suitable job is not high. You don't like the job you like, and you don't like the job you like. In other words, the heart is higher than the sky, and the life is thinner than paper.

The right job, not the job you want, but the best job you can find. In my opinion, if you don't have an ideal opportunity for the time being, you should start with the job you can find. It's really not good, try to send couriers and do driving.

The turnaround was not thought of, but found in the struggle.

Third, you still have to learn. My mother.

He is an authentic farmer. When I was in junior high school, my family moved from the countryside to the county seat. At that time, my father was not in good health and could not work, so my mother supported the family alone.

When she arrived in the county, she first worked in a restaurant, and then began to rent a stall to sell clothes, although she was an ordinary small trader, but she also supported her family and successfully let me go to college. For her, it is still very difficult to change from a farmer to a businessman, although it is not worth mentioning. I remember that at that time, she wrote down the names of the materials and ** of the clothes into a small book, and memorized them over and over again, which was very hard.

From her, I feel that as long as you are willing to work hard, people will have a great transformation.

Another piece of advice I have for the subject is: if possible, you still have to learn something, have a skill, and the next road will be much easier.

You can choose to open a breakfast shop, a flower shop, a stall, a bubble tea shop, you can choose to be a nurse, and you can learn a skill.

If you can't find a job that suits you, don't be discouraged, you can start a business with your friends, and now China's support for entrepreneurship is very large, you can choose an entrepreneurial activity that you are interested in, or choose a less risky entrepreneurial activity, which can open a different door for your life.

You may need to find a job that can afford the day-to-day expenses, and then after a while, you can get a better job.

Middle-aged unemployed men can choose to become educators, drivers, and of course, they can also choose to start their own businesses, which are all ways to make money.

First, practitioners in the education industry, now many young people or entrepreneurs think that many positions in the education industry are able to help everyone get a high salary, and we don't want to be eliminated because of the changes of the times, so more and more parents or practitioners and young people will apply for a variety of training courses and tutorial classes for their children's education. When you pass on the knowledge and experience of others, you will actually earn more and more bonuses.

Second, driving jobs, in fact, in the society is still more popular, now there are many practitioners in the unemployment after willing to be drivers, to be taxi drivers or online car-hailing drivers, through rich and skilled driving experience can help them reduce a lot of living costs, and can also get the most basic salary through this job more and more, young people actually know that this job is full of hardships and not easy after engaging in the driving industry, but we still have to start from the grassroots, Because you don't want to endure hardship, it is difficult to get a stable job in the industry, and you can't get additional rewards.

Third, self-employment, the most important thing to do is to do business on your own, that is, to engage in trading, so that there is strong flexibility and selectivity. Although it will be a little hard to worry a little bit, if you are lucky and have a good business, you can also make a lot of money, which is much better than a part-time job.

What is better for a middle-aged unemployed man? Middle-aged unemployed men can also work as truck drivers, open an optical store, start a small business and a street stall, and so on. When you are unemployed in middle age, if you find a job again, you should not consider a high salary and an easy job except to start your own business.

In many industries, if you have not risen to a management position at the age of 30-35, you can only wait for you to be "optimized" and "eliminated" again and again. When people reach middle age, even if you put down your dignity and start from scratch to compete with young people, I'm sorry, the company needs to train echelon cadres, and it is obvious that your age is outside the choice.

Of course, if you don't want to start your own business, you can also try to continue looking for a job, but you need to be mentally prepared. Some people have a strong "we are equal, two-way choices" in their heads, which causes their overall performance to be skewed in the interview process.

Of course, if you don't have any ability and no connections, you can only choose between these few jobs. One is security, this job, the age requirements are not strict, as long as you are in good health, even if you are sixty years old, there is no problem.

The second is cleaning, sweeping the road, cleaning the toilet, this job is not strict with age, as long as you are healthy.

At present, the e-commerce is booming and the express delivery industry is developed, so being a courier or takeaway is a good choice. Although the couriers and takeaways are mainly young people, there are also many people in their fifties, and the young people run more lists, and the older ones run less, and they still earn a lot of money a month, and there is no problem in supporting a family. Therefore, a 49-year-old unemployed person can consider this aspect, and it is no problem to support his family.

A 49-year-old unemployed person could consider working as a security guard and janitor. Community security guards, the age is basically concentrated in about 50 years old, although the salary is not high, but it is also a job, at least the requirements for people are not very high, do not require high-intensity physical work, do not need any professional skills, in addition to take care of the family, this is also a very good job choice.

This kind of work is mostly concentrated in some logistics companies, when the goods come to need special people to load and unload, high-intensity work, there is work to do, no work to rest, a month down is not a lot of money. A 49-year-old unemployed, if you have good physical strength, stevedores can also try it, this kind of work is also high-income, but it is harder, and you have to choose according to the actual physical situation.

Middle-aged unemployed men who are looking for a job give priority to their professional strengths, and their career direction remains the same. If you are not good at other jobs, and you don't do a good job, your salary will be low.

Middle-aged men have a wide range of employment directions, experience and knowledge accumulation over the years, do good work, and play their expertise in related industries. This is the most scarf-in-demand talent in the workplace.

Middle-aged men have high gold content, especially in their own jobs, practice makes perfect, and old horses know the way. It can also be used to maximize the benefits of working in a new position. If you look for another job, you will not be able to exert your maximum energy because of your own shortcomings.

And to do your own work, you can do your own work better, stronger and bigger. It is recommended that middle-aged unemployed men should never change the direction of their work and stick to their sincere original intention in order to be comfortable in the workplace.

It depends on your own preferences, such as what kind of security guard or courier takeaway, etc., to open a store or set up a stall to do business.

As the saying goes: a gentleman loves money, but he must take it in the right way, and now there are many middle-aged people who are always opportunistic when they are doing business or working, and finally bring a lot of troubles to themselves. In fact, many middle-aged people must not make bad ideas after entering the society.

Because when you work with customers or compete with peers, you will find that if you always make a lot of wrong judgments when doing business, or when performing tasks, you are not willing to cooperate with others in a friendly manner, then you will be isolated by everyone, there are too many middle-aged people who can't control their desires, and finally make money with a clear conscience, and indeed will not get a better ending.

Doing business or working as a security guard. It's all okay. There's a lot of work that can be done. It's up to you. Is it bitter? So.

Middle-aged unemployed men can do it themselves, now as long as you work hard, as long as you are not afraid of hardship, not afraid of tiredness, you will not starve to death, the work is, it depends on your own likes and willingness to do, unwilling to do, there are property security guards with less money, earn a little more money, and it is very hard work to express delivery.

This situation still depends on the specific situation.

The first is what skills you have and what you are good at.

Then see what connections you have and how much you have in savings.

You can continue to work part-time, or you can start your own business.

It is necessary to decide according to your own situation.

As a middle-aged man, in fact, it is not too easy to learn without technology, and you must create it appropriately according to your previous work, so that it will slowly get better.

Warehouse keeper If you have a license, you can be a shuttle driver for a large supermarket, either open a small restaurant with private dishes, or contact some units to deliver noon working meals, depending on what you are willing to do.

There is no way, it is impossible for the general company to ask for it anymore, unless it is a manager or technician, and he can only do it alone.

Didi, or go to food delivery, this is not required anything, as long as you work hard.

The middle and senior decision-makers of many companies are still middle-aged, because they have experience and energy, and they have accumulated a lot of hard work in the workplace over the years; But there are also a large number of middle-aged people who are unemployed, don't know what they are suitable for, can't find the job they are good at, and are very panicked. Although I feel at a loss now, there is still a chance, because middle-aged people are at the age of struggle, as long as they can recognize the reality and face themselves, then it is not too late to start again.

Middle-aged people in the workplace, many people ask him for help every day, once unemployed, a bunch of people reach out to the olive branch, and there is no need to submit resumes or go to interviews. Many middle-aged people have unstable jobs and may be fired at any point. That's why I've always advised professionals to have their own second career.

The so-called second career is what you cultivate daily, with a stable income, when the first career can not break through yourself, you can choose the second career to transition, it is not easy to find a job, especially the middle-aged people who have no accumulation, but also by many companies dislike, because if there is no skill, it is not comparable to those born in the 90s, too realistic, too cruel.

As a middle-aged person in the workplace, it is also necessary to lower your posture appropriately, look at the new job with a learning mentality, abandon the previous arrogance, abandon the workplace problems that you are accustomed to, re-understand yourself, and face the future again, so that you will definitely be able to find a position that suits you. It is necessary to put aside the strengths and weaknesses of the personality itself and face up to your heart: whether you like a stable life or a challenging and tossy life.

The mistake that middle-aged people tend to make is to be too ambitious and at a loss. Many middle-aged people always feel that although they have many years of work experience, they don't know what they are good at; There are also many middle-aged people who always feel that they can do everything and can't do anything well, which is the result of not analyzing their real professional knowledge and ability.

If you can't find a job, you can change jobs and give it a try, because there is no room for breakthroughs in this industry, and other industries may have a turnaround.

If you can't find a suitable job, you should pay attention to your strengths, the first point is to see what kind of job you are suitable for to find a job, and the second point is to see what you like and then find a job.

In such a situation, you should work hard to adjust your state, you can clarify your correct development direction, you can consult more experienced friends, and you can also participate in more social activities, so as to effectively expand your circle of friends.

After a middle-aged man loses his job, he should immediately find his position, find a job that suits him again, and stick to his job.