How to have a better conversation with people of different ages

Updated on psychology 2024-07-08
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's not about age, it's about how you talk to them.

    Relatives are easy to get along with, they are all their own family, to change the status quo from here, you may not start a topic at first, it doesn't matter that the elders will care about the recent situation, don't have to be good and bad It's good to talk about as many details as possible to eliminate tension and estrangement. You can also ask rhetorical questions and care about it. Change their perception before.

    You can also participate in some discussions slowly. After that, you will feel that it is not difficult to talk to them In fact, the elders also want to communicate more, but maybe you have a feeling that you are not used to it, and you don't say much, and then they can't avoid you In the end, everyone stops talking.

    If you try to talk to other people, you won't feel uncomfortable.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You have to have a new understanding of what people of different ages care about, and then try to absorb as much common sense as possible about this kind of thing (you can understand it in general, you don't need to go deep), and that's what you need to talk about.

    Do well, or be useful.

    You'll be welcome too. Best wishes!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Mentality, don't you rush to talk about it.

    Generally, there is no common language for relatives at home, and if you really chat, he will ask you and answer, and you must be familiar with them, and there are not many contacts.

    I want to say that I should find your old watch.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Be sincere with others, respect the elderly, treat the elderly as your elders, your own brothers, learn to respect each other, remember: everyone has self-esteem and wants to be respected and recognized by others. When you first step into society, you must learn to respect others, this is too important.

    When I first stepped into society, I felt that I was very amazing, very arrogant, and didn't know how to respect others, and as a result, I ran into walls everywhere and was very isolated. In the end, I understood: in fact, I am nothing great, I am nothing, there is a sky outside the sky.

    Slowly, I learned that people are mutual, people's hearts are the same, and treat yourself and others well. Of course, you must also have your own principles of life. This is the lesson of my decades of grinding and ending.

    I hope you don't follow the path of my youth. Let yourself be happy to live and work in a new environment.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You have to have more contact with people your age or older and younger than you, and then talk to them.

    This way you can have a good conversation with them.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    First of all, you have to be sincere.,No one who is older likes monkey spiritsMonkey spirits can play tricks.。 Then it's about finding common topics, such as some social issues, work issues, and even house, car, and children's problems. Just take your time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First, learn to be respectful. Whether it is to your peers, or people who are older than you, or younger people, you must learn to respect, which is the basic principle of life. People who are older than ourselves should be more respectful, and they will not allow us to challenge their authority, so when we want to put forward our own suggestions, we must be tactful and subtle, and not have the meaning of confrontation.

    If it has the intention of confrontation, the result is often counterproductive, and they will not get a good response, and they will even have some radical behavior. For better communication, you must learn to respect them.

    Second, learn to listen. I don't know if you have ever had such an experience, that is, when you are with your elders, the elders like to talk about their own experiences and their experiences, so as to tell us how to avoid detours. As the saying goes, "If you don't listen to the elderly, you will suffer in front of you", and many people will have an impatient expression when they hear them say this.

    If you show that kind of expression at this time, it will definitely make them angry. So learn to listen, listen to their experiences, listen to everything they talk to you, and show some adoring expressions from time to time, they will be more willing to communicate with you.

    Furthermore, learn to be diligent. If you are not a diligent person, try to be as diligent as possible when interacting with them. Adults will not refuse diligent children will think that they are all good children, when you are with them, you can sweep the floor, wipe the table, or brush the dishes, they will see it, so that it is easier to get along and communicate with them.

    Finally, learn to be sweet in your mouth. The sweetness of the mouth here does not mean that you have to pat them on the back and praise them for how good they are, but that they should be very respectful and polite when communicating. You have to be polite to them, and when you're in front of them, try not to lie or swear, because adults hate swearing children.

    I know this very well because I learned some swear words from the people next to me when I was in school. When I'm at home, maybe I'll show a swear word from time to time when watching a certain movie, and if my parents hear it at this time, they will definitely scold, I will definitely say what my girl's family says swearing, and ask me to get rid of this bad habit.

    These are the ways to get along with people who are older than you, of course, these are some of the more basic and popular ways, and treating people who are older than you should also be different from person to person.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Summary. How to communicate with people of different ages?

    Hello, I'm glad to answer for you If you want to burn dates and people of different ages, you first need to understand the daily life of people of that age and his preferences From this aspect, there are many imitation fighting topics.

    What keeps the topic going.

    First of all, you have to find common topics, and the more topics you have, the more things you can start with, so that we can go on and on.

    How to communicate with strangers.

    If you want to get to know him in depth, and if you want to talk about the topic all the time, you can start with his clothes, mobile phones, and other aspects to find the topic of big fiber from these aspects.

    How to communicate with friends.

    Friends, there is no such sentence to detect chaos, and how to communicate with friends, this sentence is really not easy to read, said so much, you still don't understand how to communicate with others in daily life, whether it is with strangers or friends, if you want to communicate all the time, you must first have a topic, and this topic is what the two of you have in common, so that the other party will also be willing to communicate with you, for example, with people who love to play games, exchange the glory of kings.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Summary. 6 years old and under 6 years old: 6 years old and under 6 years old belong to children, and this age group is in the cognitive period. It's very naïve and naïve, for this kind of child, to talk to them about candy and the like, they are very happy when it comes to candy.

    7 to 11 years old: These people are active and active, and they should talk to them more about extracurricular activities and computer games. People in this time period are very interested in the game, so you should talk to them about the game.

    Twelve to nineteen: These people are in junior high school and high school, these people are at the peak of their studies, and the topics that are easy to talk about with these people are studying.

    Twenty to twenty-five: Most of these people go to college or even are unemployed, going to work. These people have entered the stage of maturity, and the most popular topic about love at this age is caught in this topic, and it is easy to have a conversation.

    Twenty-six to thirty-five: These people are in the stage of work struggle, and it is best to talk to these people about the topic, around the work and future development.

    Thirty-six to fifty: After thirty-six, people are in the same career, this age is low, approaching fifty, most of them are retired, this part of the people is most concerned about the marriage of their children, so it is very appropriate to take this as a topic.

    After 50: Most of the children of people after 50 have families, and there is not much to worry about, this part of the people most want to be healthy and healthy, and they are very interested in longevity.

    How to communicate with people of different ages?

    Hello This is a very good question, I need a little time to answer, please be patient.

    6 years old and under 6 years old: 6 years old and under 6 years old belong to children, and this age group is in the cognitive period. It's very naïve and naïve, for this kind of child, to talk to them about candy and the like, they are very happy when it comes to candy.

    7 to 11 years old: These people are active and active, and they should talk to them more about extracurricular activities and computer games. I'm interested in the game for a while, so I should talk to them about the game.

    Twelve to nineteen: These people are in junior high school and high school, these people are at the peak of their studies, and the topics that are easy to talk about with these people are studying. Twenty to twenty-five:

    Most of these people go to college or even are unemployed and go to work. These people have entered the stage of maturity, and the most favorite and most concerned topic at this age is about love, and it is easy to have a conversation when you catch this topic. Twenty-six to thirty-five:

    These people are in the stage of struggle at work, and it is best to talk to these people about the topic, around the work and future development. Thirty-six to fifty: After thirty-six, the minifigure town returns to the same career, this age pursuit is low, close to fifty, most of them are retired, this part of the people are most concerned about the marriage of their children, so it is very appropriate to take this as a topic.

    After 50: Most of the children of people after 50 have families, and there is not much to worry about, this part of the people most want to be healthy and healthy, and they are very interested in longevity.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This way is also very good, because this allows us to learn to communicate freely, so that life will become more harmonious and pleasant, so communication and getting along need to do the following steps:

    1.Be optimistic.

    People who have an optimistic attitude are more likely to present a positive and enthusiastic side in life and work. No matter how big the difficulties are, they will try their best to solve them, such people are more comfortable at work and more interesting in life, while people who like to look at things around them with a pessimistic attitude often worry about the world before they even set off, and the sense of loss is increasing day by day, and life becomes less positive because of this. So, no matter what kind of predicament you are in right now, please remember to keep smiling and facing it positively, that is the way life should be.

    2.Have the courage to move forward.

    Every step we take requires courage, and this bravery comes from the conviction in our hearts. In real life, many people do not know how to face difficulties and setbacks when they encounter them, so they are depressed and lose the confidence and motivation they should have in life.

    When encountering any difficulties, please do not be arrogant, learn to face difficulties, always believe in yourself, and move forward bravely. The road is step by step, you just have to take a brave step, and the beauty of life will definitely meet you unexpectedly.

    3.Be focused in doing things.

    I want to do everything, but I often can't do anything well. The best thing to do is to find something that interests you and try to do it to the best of your ability. Maybe the process is lonely, but it can make you different.

    If you don't do it well the first time, it doesn't matter, take your time, try a few more times, and slow work can produce fine work. Those who are always in a hurry, are prone to failure.

    So, don't get by, do your best to do everything in your hands well. All your days accumulate and sooner or later you will become beyond the reach of others.

    4.Always have a zest for life.

    People like to stay in their comfort zone and get used to a comfortable life. Many times we stagnate, not because we are not strong enough, but because we lack a curiosity about new things.

    Only by always maintaining a love for life can we continuously improve our enthusiasm for life. Only by maintaining a sense of curiosity and an optimistic attitude can we continue to improve and improve.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    <> "Spike Peer Communication Styles."

    1. You don't need to talk about right and wrong when you communicate with old rollers, but learn to respect, keep humility and respect; 2. When you communicate with children, don't always preach, but inspire and encourage.

    3. When you communicate with a man, don't have feelings with other people, but pay attention to his logic.

    4. When you communicate with a woman, don't reason with her, but pay attention to her emotions.

    5. When you communicate with a rich man, don't praise him for being rich, but praise him for his courage and courage.

    6. When you communicate with the poor, don't talk about feelings with him, but directly talk to him about interests.

    7. When you communicate with the strong, your aura must be strong, and you must be full of confidence.

    8. When you communicate with the weak, you should politely give him enough face.

    9. When you communicate with the bottom of the rotten people, you should be more respectful, dig hard, and never ask for more.

    10. When you communicate with people who are in a sexual emergency, you have to be straightforward.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Simple people treat people sincerely, it is not easy to deceive me, and they will not be assassinated behind them. This kind of person coexists with people, which makes people feel very real in their hearts, and they have a strong sense of steadiness, and they can take off their armor and guard, and they don't have to be on guard against being injured all the time. Simple people are mostly kind-hearted, and there is no complicated way, and they don't talk about human length.

    Simple people are honest with friends, not easy to worry about when they live with lovers, and not easy to resent with friends. It's not easy to be desperate for money, and you won't hurt others for profit. Complex people are generally optimistic about rights and interests, and they try their best to calculate deeply, and friends, friends are just his chessboard.

    In fact, being a human being is like the water in this pond, the lighter and clearer it is, and the easier it is to be a human being, the happier it is. In the workplace, communication is an essential skill for everyone, and the essence of communication is: solving problems or transferring information.

    If you don't even know how to communicate, it's likely that you won't be able to deliver a clear message and work together to solve the problem. When you start your career, you are looking for efficiency and quick conclusions. Therefore, whether it is communicating with friends or reporting to the leader, you need to pay attention to "effective communication", and talk about work-related things during work time, without being verbose, because in the workplace, everyone is very busy, and no one wants you to talk a lot of empty words.

    Work hard, Xiang Xian regret is clear, there are plans and standards, can accept multiple proposals, once implemented, orderly, neat work, can always enhance your initiative, work only work, get off work and do not talk about work. When one person becomes dependent on another, the other person feels in their hearts that they are particularly superior. Naturally, there is a certain measure and familiarity of reliance here, otherwise it will cause others to get tired of you.

    Especially in terms of work, when you get along with a colleague, you will rely on him a little bit, which will make your friend have a certain degree of affection for you, which shows that he has a certain social status in your mind, at least he will think so.

    Therefore, in such a situation, it is not easy for everyone to get along with each other more and more jerky! In fact, getting along with colleagues is really not as difficult as everyone expects, as long as you get along with your colleagues seriously, let the other party see your sincerity, and find the similarities between you together, that is, personal hobbies, and even rights and interests, it will make the communication between you more and more relaxed. This is the way to get along with colleagues, there is no need for these bells and whistles personal behavior, most of the people who are known for the present have the ability to work against cheating, the more bells and whistles your behavior is, the more people will reject and resist you, will it be more conducive to coexistence with others?

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