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Don't be too reluctant about feelings.
If you don't want to meet, just say "you don't want to see each other again."
I suggest that if you don't want to continue or decide that you can't be together, then at the moment, you just cut him off and don't have anything to do with him, and what happens in a few years, then wait until then.
He should know how to respect your feelings!
After leaving him completely, start a new life of your own
ps: I see that you added it too!
I really feel unfortunate for you to have feelings but not to be together, but such misfortune will definitely exist in your life in the future, so when you are powerless to change your life, learn to accept life first!
Bless you!
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If you still have feelings, then think carefully, don't do anything you regret, if you don't have feelings, even if you don't have feelings, even if you meet, it won't have any effect.
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Some losses are doomed, some fate will never bear fruit, you don't have to have someone to love, but you must cherish someone if you have one, don't wait until you hurt to beg for forgiveness, don't wait until you lose it to redeem it!
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Try to accept new male friends, you don't have to make that kind of friends, start with ordinary friends.
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When you like other people, you'll forget about your ex-boyfriend, don't worry.
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Time, wait for time to forget yourself!!
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I'm in the same situation as you, I'm also very distressed, look away...Get out for a walk.
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Can't we be together?
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Ha? Why can't we be together I don't understand.
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1. Break up decisively. Contact for the first time there is a second, a third, countless times, don't listen to his high-sounding excuses, when he first decided to contact you, he had already forgotten about you, did he think about you when he contacted?
From the moment he starts contacting, it means that you are not as important as your ex, and he would rather risk a breakup than contact his ex, and don't listen to him say things like "we are nothing, we can't, I can't be with her anymore".
Since it's impossible, why contact, isn't this a contradiction, it shows that he didn't let go of his heart, this kind of reason to deceive a three-year-old child, all the connections are for the revival of old feelings.
2. Understand your boyfriend's sincerity. If it's your boyfriend's ex who can't let go of the relationship and chooses your boyfriend again, then you have to understand what your boyfriend thinks? Is it a kind of pity to hurt the other party.
If your boyfriend is difficult to deal with, you can face it together and find a way to deal with it.
3. Don't be comcoming. If your boyfriend feels like he can't choose between you and his ex, he can't give up either side. Banquet branches, then you judge that you should not give in and accommodate, because this kind of love, no one will have results, tolerate and accommodate, and the final outcome will be painful for all three people.
4. Give each other a space to think. The first few days when things are exposed are when you and your boyfriend are at their lowest or most anxious, don't want to face it, can't accept it, are conflicted and painful, and don't know what to do. At this time, the best thing to do is to be separated from your boyfriend for a while, to give you and him a space to think calmly and sort out your emotions, you can go on vacation in Duxiang Town or find a place to stay alone for a while, to avoid making bad decisions on the spur of the moment.
In real life, there are many people like Zhang Ailing.
A man like Tong Zhenbao, the protagonist of the book, wants not only the beauty of his predecessor, but also the gentleness and thoughtfulness of his current one. On the one hand, they live a happy and sweet life with the current one, but from time to time they go to the life of their ex to leave some affection, and the reason for contact is nothing more than the pity and desire in their hearts.
is like Xu Lai in "Hong Kong Embarrassment".
I want to see Yang Yi so that I can complete that campus kiss; Like "Charlotte's Troubles".
Charlotte, can't get Qiuya.
The heart is restless, and the mind is not forgotten. In doing so, they are not responsible for the incumbent and cannot comfort the ex. On the contrary, the three of them were extremely embarrassed in this relationship. After all, in a relationship that is happy with each other, there can only be room for two people.
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Many women will be depressed or even grief-stricken because the man has been contacting his ex. Women will feel that they are not doing well enough, and even self-reflect. Then beg the man not to contact his ex, or to be explosive and irritable, to insult the other person like a shrew in front of the man, and to blame the other party for betraying him.
In fact, this is the behavior of a stupid woman.
A woman may be sad and sad for a while, but a wise woman is able to adjust herself in time. If your boyfriend keeps contacting his ex, being sad and sad will not solve anything, it will only make him look down on you, and you will lower your identity. A man who has been in contact with his ex is not worth the wait and forgiveness of any good woman.
If he encounters such a situation, he can't give a reasonable explanation, the woman should leave directly, don't drag the mud and water. Many women may feel that even if a man breaks ties with his ex, it is tolerable. Because the woman has become accustomed to the presence of a man, or rather, she has fallen deeply in love with this man.
How to solve the problem at this time?
It is definitely unrealistic to want a woman to let go all of a sudden, because women are emotional creatures after all, and their feelings for men cannot be cut off in a day or two. But you can control your emotions and keep yourself from being affected by these things. Then during this period, you have to try to become a better version of yourself first, and this is the right direction for you.
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If you find out that your ex is still disconnected from your boyfriend. Then guess it depends on whether your boyfriend is good to you under a big acacia, whether he really loves you, if he really loves you, then it can only be said that he is an amorous person. He can be forgiven.
If he is like you to leave you, then it means that he doesn't take you to heart at all, or he is a good hidden friend.
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If you find that your boyfriend has not broken off with your ex, you can break up with him decisively.
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If you love him very much, you can ask him: The purpose of your conversation with her is to love her, or do you want to break up with me and be with her, or because you care or because you can't accept the deletion of Yunfan all of a sudden. Then the former cultivator can break up directly, if it's the last one, you don't care, don't ask, wait for them to talk slowly, and you have to be independent and don't devote yourself to him.
Time will tell.
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Hello. It is recommended that you communicate with him in person and ask him what is going on. If he really wants to be with you, then he should be blind and disconnected from his ex.
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This situation mainly depends on what you think, and I personally feel that if it is just a normal contact, it is better, if there is still a relationship between men and women, then break up.
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You have to have a good talk with your boyfriend Gaichang about this, because this determines the direction of your relationship in the future. We must talk about it and settle the previous relationship. Otherwise, there will always be a stupid obstacle in your future relationship.
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What should I do if my boyfriend and his ex haven't been broken off? If that's the case, it means that your boyfriend is too irresponsible, so you have to think about it, whether you want to continue or let him make a choice. Potato fiber.
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Then cut it off with your boyfriend!
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Hello. Have a good talk with your boyfriend.
Let him break with his ex.
Otherwise, you'll be clean with him.
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If you find that your boyfriend and your ex are not severed, you can explain it directly to him.
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If he wants to rekindle his old feelings, you break them off.
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This kind of man who has two boats on his feet is immoral, and you should break up decisively.
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I think since you have made up your mind that you don't want to get back together with your ex-boyfriend, then you should reject the other party harshly, instead of being afraid that the other party will be angry or something, and you should persuade each other with good words, the more you are like this, the more stupid the luck will make the other party feel more hopeful, so since you don't want to give him another chance, then delete and block the other party, and don't contact again.
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Like this kind of sensitive and slow bending situation, you must find a boyfriend to make your ex-boyfriend die, your former boyfriend is too scary, you have to find a man to be able to feel safe, otherwise it is easy to have an accident.
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Typical of being loved, there is no fear, and only when you lose it does you know that you cherish it, maybe you don't know how to cherish it, but you just feel dumped and want to get back face. Such a boy is not worth continuing. If you are afraid of his retaliation, it is best to treat it coldly, that is, to deal with it as a stranger, and never be ambiguous.
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If you let your ex-boyfriend never give up and scold you all day long, I will take the black and black words, you can directly block him, don't let him pay attention to your dynamics, don't contact him again.
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Your ex-boyfriend has not given up because he saw that you didn't have a boyfriend, so he didn't pester you directly, you only had to find a male god who disliked his friend, so that he couldn't see hope, and he let go.
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You can talk about it and say that you don't have any feelings with him. Let him stop pestering himself like this. After all, no one wants to start a new life with Su Hui, and if he quietly answers and ignores it, he can only avoid him.
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Now it's interesting to bend and don't give up, then you let him die, you make a new friend, let him see that you live a very happy life, so he sees that you are happy and returns to your reputation, and you will die and be happy.
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Hello. In the same situation, you should make it clear to him, if you love, say love, if you don't love, be accurate with him, don't drag the mud and water, and tell him directly that you don't love him. Thank you, thank you!
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Hello. 1.A high-profile summon will only make the other party more disgusted with you.
Some people will not find problems from themselves after a breakup, but will blame all the faults on the other party to wash themselves away, always showing a high-minded posture. How can a long-term love that has been in an unbalanced relationship last long, and everyone will do it after a long time. Thanks!
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Your ex-boyfriend Blind Spine Silver has been pestering you and you want to break up. And then the other party can be wild and funny, but is he too willing? You two really don't suit you too much, and the feeling for him now may be more of a fear of suffering.
Hate each other. Maybe you can find a new relationship. Or make it clear to the other person.
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As long as you don't mean to get back together, then don't give the other party a chance and let your boyfriend retreat.
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Such a persistent boy, when he meets someone he likes, he will know how to protect each other better and love each other!
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After a breakup, if your ex-boyfriend is still in touch, it may be because he still has feelings for you or hasn't come out of the shadow of the breakup. To get your ex-boyfriend back, first identify his thoughts and feelings. Communicate openly with him, let him know how you feel and think about him, and listen to his feedback.
If he is willing to communicate with you, it means that he is still interested in being with you. However, be careful not to put too much pressure on him and give him some time to process his own feelings.
In addition to communicating openly, you can also start with yourself and improve your charm. Pay attention to your appearance and inside, maintain a healthy lifestyle, and increase your self-confidence and positivity. Not only will this make you more attractive, but it will also improve your sense of well-being and self-worth.
Finally, respect your ex-boyfriend's decision. If he decides to get back together with you, then make the most of this opportunity and make each other happier. If he decides that he doesn't want to be with you, respect his choice as well and give each other some time and space to process feelings and emotions.
In conclusion, it takes a certain amount of patience and effort to get back an ex-boyfriend. It is necessary to start from the three aspects of honest communication, improving one's own charm and respecting the other person's decision, and believe that as long as you put in the effort, it is possible to rekindle the spark of love and get back together.
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