When studying is stressful, how can you restrain yourself from being angry with others?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-22
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    There are always ups and downs in people's emotions, and you need to pay attention to adjusting them. If you feel pressured to study, you should pay more attention to it.

    1. Put your studies aside and go outdoors to exercise. Running, walking, practicing yoga, swimming.

    New research has found that exercising before getting ready for something unpleasant can help people recover faster. 30 minutes of moderate-intensity exercise before a tragic movie is enough to help people regulate their emotions faster. This study could help scientists understand the intrinsic link between physical activity and overall happy mood and lower levels of depression incidence.

    Not only does exercise strengthen your body, but it also helps you maintain good mental health to cope with a variety of depressing situations. This may partly explain these beneficial effects of exercise in improving mood and avoiding depression.

    2. Choose something you like to do. Such as: drawing, listening, watching TV, shopping, watching movies, etc.

    When I'm in a bad mood myself, I listen to some soothing light**. Contemporary medical research has found that it can regulate changes in the cardiovascular system, respiratory system, gastrointestinal system and pupils, as well as changes in mood and behavior, and eliminate the "tension" caused by external mental and psychological factors. **The tune, rhythm and melody are different, and they can produce different degrees of excitement, sedation and antihypertensive effects on the human body.

    3. Communicate and communicate with family or friends. You can talk about things in your studies, you can also communicate things in life, or something that everyone is interested in, and it has just been released recently, or it is a new fruit, in short, it is a beautiful thing.

    The above suggestions are for reference.

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  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Nowadays, students are under increasing pressure, and the key is to learn to control their emotions.

    Face up to the pressure, clarify the goal, and turn the pressure into motivation. The schoolwork is very heavy, we will inevitably feel upset and irritable, you must know that this is normal, but you can't let yourself diverge this irritability, at this time you always remind yourself: I have my goals, I need to act, not to be impetuous here, think a few more times to calm yourself down.

    Focus on learning, do more and talk less. When you're stressed, you're in a bad mood, so sometimes you feel like you're not pleasing to the eye when you see something, and it's easy to get into a fight with others. When you realize that you have some bad emotions, you need to devote yourself to studying, do more questions or memorize more things, and try to avoid communication or contact with others, so that it is not easy to get angry with others.

    In the past, some students in the class began to pay attention to things other than learning because they couldn't learn by themselves, because they asked others questions and others couldn't do it, so they didn't teach themselves to get angry with others, and then they finally quarreled and made a lot of trouble. If you have a problem that you can't solve by yourself, try to ask the teacher so that there will be no unnecessary problems.

    Take the initiative to accept positive energy and let good emotions infect yourself. When you are under a lot of pressure and depressed, you should take the initiative to communicate with the class teacher or the teacher you like, let the teacher talk to you, give you some encouragement, or call your family to relieve some pressure. When we were in high school, we were also under a lot of pressure, and our Chinese teacher would often give us some encouragement to let us relax and get some encouragement at the same time, so that the atmosphere of learning would be very good.

    Understand each other and empathize. Everyone has a lot of study pressure, when you are angry with others, maybe others also have unspeakable grievances and unhappiness in their hearts, when others are angry with themselves, you have to think that others are not intentional, understand, don't be too careful, tolerate each other.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you are under pressure to study, then choose to do something relaxing to relieve the pressure on your body, and when you are happy, you will not be angry with others.

    If you are more introverted, then you can choose to relax yourself, go to some open places by yourself, take a look at the green mountains and green waters, you can choose to climb to the top of the mountain by yourself, you can also ride a bicycle, go to some places you want to go, it is best to make yourself tired, and then go back to home to sleep, don't think about learning, don't put pressure on yourself, give up all distractions, give yourself a kind of strength, cheer yourself, let yourself sleep quietly, and there will be no so much pressure after waking up.

    If you are more extroverted, then you can choose to chat with some of your bosom friends, eat together, sing songs, talk about the future together, talk about your dreams, talk about the things you like, and the facts of your imagination, although you can't achieve it now, but you can give yourself an encouragement, cheer each other up, and realize your ideals.

    You can also eat some of your favorite things, I sometimes do this, when I am unhappy or stressed, I want to eat my favorite food, but not too much, it will cause stomach problems, it will make you fat, it is best to eat more healthy food.

    Finally, I would like to say that learning is gradual, it takes a long time to get started, don't keep thinking about how many points I have to score, you have to go through the knowledge points little by little, and after mastering each knowledge point, then you will have nothing to fear. In this process, you must not give up, you must calm down and study hard, and you will definitely gain something.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    First of all, you have to calm down yourself, let go of all stress, and empty your heart. It's a lot of pressure and it's going to be very uncomfortable, we can't let study not put pressure on us, but we can reduce the pressure, calm down, don't think about studying every day, don't think about why I'm so bad at studying, why I have problems with why everyone else will have problems, and other people can do it right, then you're done, every day you are immersed in pressure, immersed in sadness, your negative emotions will continue to accumulate, then you want to vent out, so you will be angry with others.

    Secondly, you can choose some ways to restrain yourself from venting, for example, you can go to climb the mountain, climb to the top of the mountain and shout, go to see the green mountains and green waters, to breathe fresh air, and give the whole body a relaxation. You can also go by bicycle, you can find a few friends to go with, or you can go on your own, go to some places where there are fewer people but the scenery is more beautiful, so that you can feel better, which can also reduce stress. You can also ride to some places to have some afternoon tea to relieve stress.

    There is a lot of pressure to study, you can find classmates to study and discuss, their grades are higher than yours, there must be their learning methods, you must learn to learn from each other, learn from each other's strengths, study and study your problems, ask them seriously, they will analyze patiently, and you can also discuss their problems together, so that you can work together and make progress together. If you keep doing this, you will gradually reduce the pressure of studying and you will not be angry with others.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The best thing to do is to stop studying first, to relax your mood, so that when you are in a better mood, it may not only not affect others, but also make yourself more efficient in learning.

    Maybe we all have this situation, that is, when we are under pressure to study, we may indeed take our pressure out on others, sometimes we really don't mean it, but in that case, under that kind of pressure, we may not be emotionally affected by ourselves, when we meet someone to disturb ourselves, or when we make ourselves angry, we will be angry, and we can't help our temper at all, in fact, it is a very normal phenomenon, especially under the pressure of the college entrance examination, high school students are more likely to be like this. When I was in high school, I had two classmates who had a particularly serious situation, and whenever they started to do something, no matter what situation they used to disturb him, or asked him to do something, or asked him to do something, they would keep their emotions and shout to make them not bother themselves, and I myself had this situation.

    Whenever I have this situation, I will choose to stop studying, read a book, or study other subjects, put aside those stressful study subjects or exercises that are easy to break down, and then go back to study or solve problems when I am relaxed. Going out is a good way, you can learn other subjects first or go out for a run, or listen to songs, talk to someone, relax and relax, anything that makes your mood relax on self-study can be done, this can relieve your mood. The second is to reduce their own pressure, but also to improve their efficiency, to be honest, long-term under a lot of pressure will not do anything good, not only can not write their own but also more irritable, therefore, this time relaxation is the best choice.

    Therefore, if you encounter this situation, or your classmates encounter this situation, you can persuade them to stop studying first and relax, I believe it will be useful.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Try your best to keep a calm mind and not affect your mood.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The first thing we have to learn is to decompress ourselves, we can selectively divert our attention and release our pressure, secondly, no one is our punching bag, think more when you are in a bad mood, don't be impulsive, and finally, have an optimistic and positive attitude and turn pressure into motivation.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can go out for a run alone to relax yourself, and try not to communicate with people more when you feel uncomfortable.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In the face of excessive pressure, there are several ways to reduce pressure: 1. First of all, we must maintain a good attitude, actively face problems, and correctly understand ourselves: we must be self-aware of our physical fitness, knowledge and ability, social adaptability, etc., and try to avoid doing things that are beyond our power and causing unnecessary pressure.

    2. If the pressure is too much, you can learn to self-regulate and strengthen your self-cultivation. Vent your inner unhappiness and depression in an appropriate way to relieve psychological depression and mental tension. Good at self-regulation, there is tension and relaxation.

    3. You can do specific things that you are interested in, such as watching movies, traveling, chatting, listening, and releasing pressure. Or find a place where no one is and shout loudly.

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