My boyfriend always likes to drink, so what should we do if we always quarrel?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-01
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    First of all, you can talk to him when he's not drinking. Look at what he thinks about his drinking. He can be advised not to drink when he goes to work, and to go again when he has free time after work.

    Or ask him what if he gets hurt by drinking? You don't let him out drunk for his safety and don't want to worry. If he really doesn't need your care and worry, then you won't care about him in the future, and let him take care of the consequences.

    Communicate more, tell your inner thoughts and love for him, if he still insists on going his own way, let him go.

    You can set a rule with each other that you can't drink more than a certain amount at a time, and then slowly reduce it, and if you break the rules, you will be punished with a certain amount. If you still can't control it, you may only realize it after one or two problems. In short, excessive alcohol consumption is not good for your health, especially drunk driving, try to manage it as much as possible.

    <> drinking depends on the atmosphere, the drinking partner, and there are many people who love alcohol as much as their lives. But in general, drinking alcohol makes people especially relaxing, and especially happy after emotional catharsis. But after drinking, some people like to do things that they usually dare not do after drinking, a look like Lao Tzu is the first in the world, it is easy to have an accident, I have a cousin, usually very can't speak, and I also like to drink, once I drank to anger another drunkard, was seriously injured, and died of ineffective rescue!

    I used to drink a lot, and I have been injured by my motorcycle because of drinking, and I have also drunk unconscious, fell asleep on the side .........of the road, lost all the money in my wallet, and was carried home by drinking, and I didn't even know my motherBut since I went back to my hometown to get married, I have taken root here, because people here drink Sven, don't like to fight wine, and don't have any drinking friends, it's boring to drink by myself, and I don't know that my addiction to alcohol is gone. Occasionally, he drank wine, but he was not addicted, and he didn't drink much, everything went naturally, and when the body drank badly, he stopped drinking. Hope mine is helpful to you.

    When he is drunk and driving, you know the route home, and then call the police and let the police educate him, as if drunk driving.

    I have to be detained for 15 days, but it's okay, so he will have a good memory, but you have to think clearly, although this method may make your husband quit drinking, but it may also make your marriage come to an end, so no matter what ideas others give you, you have to think clearly about the consequences before doing it, so as not to get problems, you blame others for giving you bad ideas

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you don't want to quarrel all the time, and you can't accept the fact that he drinks, then I think you should choose to leave, or you have to continue to endure it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You should communicate with your boyfriend when she is sober, and tell her boyfriend that if you always drink like this and there will be quarrels, you will choose to give up the relationship, because quarrels hurt your feelings.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You negotiate, if he promises you to quit drinking, but you don't take action for a long time, and you often quarrel over this, then it means that you are not as important as alcohol in his eyes, so do you still keep such a person for the New Year?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If your boyfriend is arguing with you over drinking, you may consider the following steps:

    1.Open communication: Have an open conversation with your boyfriend and ask him if he is aware of his drinking problem with a split hand. Show that you care about him and tell him that these troublesome behaviors have had a negative impact on your relationship and your feelings.

    2.Listen to the other person's point of view: In communication, listen carefully to the other person's point of view and feelings. This will help build a relationship of mutual understanding and trust, and help to find a solution to the problem.

    3.Seeking solutions: In communication, work together to find possible solutions. This may include limiting the frequency or amount of alcohol he drinks, developing a common drinking policy, or seeking professional help to deal with his drinking problems.

    4.Consider the relationship: If you feel that the problem is serious enough to threaten your relationship, you may consider separating temporarily or seeking professional counseling. In this case, protecting your own health and safety is paramount.

    5.Be patient and understanding: Solving alcohol problems takes time and effort. Be patient and understanding, help him recognise the seriousness of his drinking problem, and support him in trying to change his behavior.

    Most importantly, your attitude should be rational, firm, and at the same time full of love and understanding. Have an open conversation with your boyfriend and find solutions together.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If your boyfriend fights with you because of drinking, it can be an unhealthy pattern. I advise you to talk to him about this and make it clear that you are dissatisfied with this behavior. You can tell him that you can't accept his irresponsible behavior because of his drinking.

    If he is reluctant to change, or if this problem persists, you may want to consider breaking up with him. Drinking alcohol is a serious problem, and if you can't control your own drinking, or aren't willing to try to fix it, it can be an unhealthy relationship.

    If he has a problem with alcoholism, it is advisable for him to seek professional help. He can consult a doctor for alcohol abstinence**. And coarse.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    1 Ignore him. Let him know that it's not right for him to drink and quarrel with you. 2 And when you are both at peace, tell him that it is not right.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Then take it seriously and quarrel, break up, and let him drink freely without taking the world's fingers.

    Since he already has that mind, you can't stop it.

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