。The first year of junior high school fell out of love. What am I going to do.

Updated on psychology 2024-07-08
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Since he chooses to be with someone else, then you have to learn to let go even if you love him again, if you forgive him, then he will have a second chance to betray you, you have to learn to protect yourself, you love him, then some of the things you do are voluntary, since it happened, don't think about it, it will be fine after a while. Remember, the favorites are always next. Love yourself more, one chance is enough to see a person clearly.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Who hasn't talked about it in the first year of junior high school! But what you say is a bit too much! You're not at the right age to be in a relationship.

    You don't even know what love is now! Your so-called love, so-called love, is just a momentary impulse. Time will quickly unravel all of this!

    When I was in junior high school, I went from the first year of junior high school to the third year of junior high school, and finally broke up! I was depressed for half a year! Later, I wanted to start all over again from the beginning!

    You also have to learn to give up! Learn to laugh at life.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's only the first year of junior high school, and it's still early.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Love is not the final word, instead of asking yourself how much you love her, you should ask yourself how much you can do for her. You are still young, and your future life experience will tell you what it means to grow.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain, this is growth, now let yourself calm down, think and think, the age is a little young.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's okay to talk about it, but if you can't come together, let it go, time will tell, and I believe that there is nothing wrong with it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    That, you add me.

    It's not interesting.,I just want to make friends.,But,It's not good to fall in love.、I'm also in junior high school.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Forehead. It's as if you're still a student.

    In fact, you may be because she chose him, and you have a strong sense of loss. Just like some people, when some things are there, we don't care at all, we don't cherish them, when we lose them, we regret it, we are so upset, but there is no way.

    If you want to get rid of this emotion now, just go for exercise, and then go out for a walk, and slowly time will fade to calm your mood.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Life is your own life, you live because of responsibility, you are too selfish, too narrow-minded! After all, the closest people in life are always the parents who gave birth to us and raised us!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Your sister. What are the children doing together? Read well.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Talk to your parents and study hard.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I'm 19 years old.

    What I want to say to you is not only the advice of the big sister, but also the consolation of your peers.

    I know that he has taken up 99% of your heart, and you can't help but feel for him.

    First, I want to say that high school is really a very important stage, try to imagine that the feeling of failing in college is 10,000 times more painful than the loss of love you are now, so you have to get rid of it as soon as possible, don't let this relationship tie you must go to college, and strive to surpass him.

    Second, since the is so determined to separate you two, and she is still threatening, I don't think she is actually a good mother, maybe your boyfriend is also forced by your mother to separate from you, not his intention. There were things he couldn't talk about. If this is the case after you entangle and don't let go, then it won't be good for you, at the very least, you make it difficult for him.

    Thirdly, no matter how sweet the candy is, it will expire one day, and you are looking for a glass of wine, not a tempting delicacy.

    I know that first love is very important for a person, however, the facts cannot be changed, all you have to do is to change yourself, find something you like to enrich yourself, so that you don't have time to think about him. You have a long future ahead of you, and you will find better ones.

    What you have to do is not look like you are looking for something to hide yourself when you meet in the future, you have to smile at him naturally and walk over gracefully as if nothing happened. Maybe you will have your own boyfriend and girlfriend again soon, just remember, first love is just an experience.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's really a process, do you believe in fate? Maybe it's not a bad thing that you lost him, maybe there is a better object waiting for you again, it's still a long time, just take this first love as a memory, I suggest you listen to Liu Xijun's "I'm Happy".

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Falling out of love is a very painful thing, no one can help you solve it, only you can do it yourself, this must take time to dissolve, in this time of confusion and pain, choose some things that you often do, but don't go to some places you often go to and talk about things often.

    Relax and get up every morning to go for a run, and set a plan for yourself to do each day.

    Once you have a higher pursuit, then your brilliance will be more brilliant and sunny, and you will also find a better, higher pursuit, if you do it, then I should be reluctant to follow a group of handsome guys behind you in the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Most first loves end in failure, people often say that first love is the sweetest and most painful, first love failure is just the beginning, just the first step on the road to love in your life.

    Keep your first love in your heart! After this stage, you will mature a lot, leaving your true love to someone who truly loves you who can stand the test.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    At that time, love was impossible, because I had to go through college, my classmates and friends told me that college is a small society, and after entering high school, people will change, so don't talk about love in high school, study in high school is the most important, and you will understand when you go to college.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Every first love is an inevitable problem for some people! First love is just the beginning of love, don't be so sad, put this thing down, hide it, don't think about him anymore.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you want to open it, you will find that it is boring now.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The flowers are similar every year, and the people are different every year!Don't say that you have no chance in this life and wait for the next life; Don't say that the tears are dry and the heart is broken; Don't say that we can't tell the sun from dawn. I'm afraid, I'm afraid, when you don't come, handsome is no more, spirituality is gone, I am already soaked in red dust and condensed into frost for you.

    Sigh year after year, hate the years and years of parting, and the words fall into a sad freehand. The words of the heart turned into smoke and clouds, and it took a thousand kinds of lovesickness. I'm lonely, how can I sigh alone!

    Remember that the dream of this life will not be ruined......(I wrote it, but is it useful?) Does anyone know? )

    "Long Love" came to the night and suddenly returned home, and the heart was moved and sad.

    Knowing that the love in the world is difficult to grow, why bother with each side of the world?

    Shurong is not old and waiting for the flowers to fall, and the rhyme water often flows like frost.

    If the crockpot is not broken from the well, the general will inevitably die in battle.

    Raise a glass in your hand and sigh at the past, passing by the clouds and smoke.

    Pain is inevitably hidden in the heart, so why not let it go?

    It is difficult for two lovers to become pairs, and the right way in the world is the vicissitudes of life.

    If the moon is full without hatred, where is there no mandarin duck in the world?

    It is inseparable and finally empty, and he returns to a smiling and lover.

    Friend: I want to tell you a lot, maybe you can't forget the person who hurt you for a while, but do you understand? Memories are always good, because whether the process of reminiscing is a painful journey or a happy time; That's all a kind of experience, life is walking slowly, and people are growing up under heavy experiences.

    Do you know why people always praise the moon and don't care much about the sun that shines on us every day? Because the sun is always shining, incomparable, and the moon is round and missing, if it has the same invincible brilliance as the red sun, then people will not pay attention to the goddess who has no change and twists and turns, only the cloudy and sunny round and missing, is the real bright moon, life and love are the same, only the life full of frustrations will become gorgeous, only have a frustrated love, in the future life career and marriage have a lesson from the past, Maybe that broken love is also a past worth thinking about and recalling, the butterfly does not fly high, but her gentleness and beauty are beyond the reach of the eagle who spreads her wings, so she can attract everyone's attention, love is the same, not every bit of affection must have a beginning and an end, miss, maybe it is an unprecedented beauty, regret is also a kind of beauty, it can make your future become full of pride, so that you will never give up your beautiful life.

    This life is empty and sad, and the next life will continue to be unfinished. Maybe a lot of times sadness is always inevitable, every time in the dead of night you will always have an unprecedented thought, disturbing your empty heart, when love has come to an end, if you do no more useless retention, then you will fall into the abyss for a relationship that is not worth following you... When love is closer, what you should do is to firmly grasp the happiness in front of you, because there is only one life, happiness is a lifetime, and depression is also a lifetime, what is the period of life?

    It's worth it for the end, and this life is not in vain!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The last few words you said were what I wanted to say, "You must get into the state, you must catch up with the study."

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The first love is not important, the last love is important.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Flowers bloom and fall, and the sky is sunny after the rain; Even our precious life has life and death; What about an immature relationship?

    After a few years, you may feel the same feeling when you think about it yourself.

    It's not a big deal, it's just the forgetfulness of the forgetting.

    Turn grief into strength, study hard, take the path you want to take, and there is a bigger and bluer sky ahead for you to soar!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Do you know what my current girlfriend regrets the most? It's because she didn't study well when she was in school and had a puppy love?

    lz Like you, you don't need to be sad First love is just what people have to go through When you're in your 20s, you'll understand what true love is, Love like yours I don't think you should shed tears because those tears are not worth it

    But it's really innocent and rare to have a relationship like yours, and I wish I could go back to school

    If you really like him, be bold to love him, boldly go to him, be with him, or you will regret it later

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Fortunately, you are a freshman in high school, not a junior in high school Now that you are delayed, you don't have to worry too much about it It's still in time It's important that you accept this fact You're no longer together It's not nice to say that your relationship is too fragile He has given up You are working hard in vain Besides, he shouldn't like you so much Otherwise, how can you give up You should wake up Try to find something to do for yourself Keep yourself busy Forget about him Change back to the original favorite you Let him regret it Little sister Don't be too involved in love The deeper the love, the more serious the hurt Besides, for the sake of your own future, it's better to study well first and then think about other things.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Fortunately, it was good that it was not broken.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    As women in the new era, we must first be self-reliant! Enrich yourself! First do a good job of learning (after all, learning is our task) With capital, are you afraid that no one will chase you, hahaha (laughing) remember not to stick to the present, don't always think that the current is always the best, there are many more that we haven't encountered.

    Moreover, after this blow, you should understand not to be too casual. Some decisions should be made carefully, otherwise you will hurt yourself. If you can't forget it for the time being, keep yourself busy, people can only think about one thing at a time, at least during this time, you will be a little more relaxed.

    Comrade, I wish you a speedy **!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Most people's first love ends in a breakup... This is the only way to go in life.

    There are external factors that you cannot afford and cannot solve.

    Learn to love yourself more ...

    Let everything run its course.

    Time will help you heal.

    Let you slowly forget all this ...

    Believe in yourself ...

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Love is beautiful, since it is going to end, let it be, rational is good, after all, when you are not mature enough, you don't understand the cumbersomeness of marriage, since you didn't think of getting married, you should accept the end of breaking up, it's just a matter of sooner or later, I have always believed that things are fortunate to stop abruptly when they have not deteriorated, and when it is really unbearable, there is no meaning.

    Keep a good start and keep a good end. Make yourself more elegant in elegance

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    First love is mostly a failure, and the reason is mostly that the two parties in love are not mature enough (mental and social conditions).

    The failure of first love is very painful, it is the first emotional investment failure in life, and at this time we should pay attention to adjusting our mentality and emotions. Because at this time you lack the right measures to deal with it. It is easy to go astray and go to extremes.

    For example, if you have a question, it is recommended that you first clarify one thing. That's your first love. It was once beautiful as a flower, but now it is withered. Blooming and withering are normal. Your life goes on.

    Then you can cultivate some healthy interests for yourself. For example, reading books, doing sports, watching movies, embroidering cross-stitch, etc.

    Send emptiness and don't give yourself too much time to reminisce about past romances. You can also walk around more with familiar classmates.

    In short, avoid dwelling on nostalgia and pain.

    Then you need to plan for your future life, and you are now a student. In the future, he must become a social person. So you need to know what you want to do early? What can be done? How to do it.

    I wish and believe that you can get out of the haze as soon as possible and welcome a bright future.

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