The feelings that are reluctant and can t let go are very bitter, is it necessary to persevere?

There is no need to persist at all, because such feelings will not bring any joy and happiness to both parties, but will only make both parties miserable, and it will be meaningless to persevere.

There is definitely no need to insist, such a relationship will not be happy in many cases, and in the face of such feelings in real life, it is better to give up decisively.

I think it's necessary to stick to the relationship that you can't let go of, because you can't let go of the other party, so you have to treat this relationship well.

There is no need. Let go of the past, why embarrass yourself, as the saying goes, a good horse doesn't eat back grass, since it's bitter, it's better to give up.

Cutting off the love thread is a life path that is often experienced.

It's hard to choose to leave a perfect love that has lasted for many days, but that's all you can do anyway.

In fact, daily life is not necessarily this kind of uncaring attachment, there is nothing that cannot be given up, everyone feels that it cannot be cleared, but everyone feels wishful thinking, giving up loving you In fact, there is no unquestionable response in this world, just like the truth that ancient soldiers can crush needles, only want to not want to, and think about the determination to tolerate.

Leave it to time to figure it out. If you are very tired, focus on yourself, go to books, vacation, exercise, etc., enrich yourself, and put your feelings aside. Secondly, when it comes to tiredness, from my own experience, there are two situations, one is that the other party has the upper hand in this relationship, and the people who are at the bottom are too excessive and insecure;

The other is that people have the upper hand and the other party is insecure and controlling. If your tiredness is the former, then I maintain the original proposal, enrich yourself, don't lose trust in the other party emotionally, and at the same time don't have too many imaginary enemies, so that you can be more subordinate and tolerant, in fact, if you spend all your time enriching yourself, you don't have much time to doubt, to miss, to wait for ......If your tiredness is the latter, then I suggest you talk openly and honestly with the other party about your thoughts. At the beginning, my husband and I were in this kind of situation, whenever I wanted to move forward, he and his parents, they pulled me back, hoping that I would be stable and not have to "toss" and <

Due to the difference in our diplomas, economic development and the gap between the rich and the poor, etc., I have been in the upper hand, he is too insecure, and then I found an opportunity to talk to him, he understood my thoughts, and said that he would never let me work again, and at the same time moderately put forward suggestions, and when I agreed, I also cheered and cheered, at the same time, because I gave him a sense of belonging, so that he participated in every management decision I made, and discussed every thought of mine with him, in fact, I already had a conclusion in my heart, and I only valued him. Involve him in my daily life when I am alone.

Choose to leave Xuejing and abandon the canopy, bury yesterday in my heart, and leave a good memory. It's not easy to walk all the way home, slowly pull out your hand and say goodbye, give up your love you don't have to let yourself suffer a deeper harm. Feelings are a questionnaire without answers, and the perfectionist who has gone through hardships cannot make daily life more complete, and perhaps a little confusion and a little sadness will make this exam paper more very, very worth storing.

The Creator has closed your door, and will surely let you open a window.

I have a good friend who has been with his girlfriend for almost two years, the girl is five years older than the boy, and belongs to the kind of sibling love, the boy is a native of the countryside, and the girl is a girl in the city.

In the view of the traditional concept of the fathers, the family environment is different, the door is not appropriate, the household is wrong, and the boy must be older than the girl to be suitable, but they still chose to be together because of love.

Last year, he met with the township civil servants in the neighboring county, and they worked very hard for each other. The boy also applied for the training course, but the result was that the girl was admitted, but the boy was not on the list.

But the girls have not given up and have been encouraging the boys to work hard again this year.

Later, because the girl's job was stable, her friends were already married, and the family also urged the girl to get married. The boy's family conditions are relatively poor, and he is really powerless to deal with the practical problems raised by the girl's family, such as the house, car, and bride price, and then they quarreled again and again.

Marriage, after all, is a matter of two families. Even if they love each other so much, they still can't resist the reality, they can't love each other, and they can't give up, which may be the biggest sorrow.

Because of their affairs, I talked to him many times and told him: If you can't change it, then you can only accept it, and you can't be emotional. Later, after I encountered something similar, I began to reflect on myself.

Many times, we will always use the great truth to enlighten others, but when things happen to ourselves, you may not be able to be truly free and easy, we are only mortals after all, and the understanding of the mind and the real experience are two different things.

I can't ask for it, I can't put it down, I can't see through it. I hope that a lover will eventually become a family!