Why are two people getting along more and more tired

Why do husband and wife get along with each other, the longer they live, the more tired women become? It is inseparable from these reasons.

In the face of this situation, we must learn to empathize, think more about each other, and give each other a little love, maybe the other party will be very happy, and you will become very happy, which will make each other live a very happy life, and you will not feel tired.

Communication, travel, etc. Because two people have an open heart exchange, which can promote each other's feelings; Go on a romantic trip to relax and add freshness.

Two people should communicate well, and also analyze the reasons for feeling tired, find the problem, and understand each other more, and run in well, so that you can change the status quo of two people.

First find out what the cause of tiredness is.

The reason why two people get along with each other is that they don't like each other enough, and on the other hand, they don't have a good personality, they are easy to be irritable, and they always have to blame each other for everything. To put it bluntly, it is low emotional intelligence. So it's not suitable to be together.

Out of sync, out of sync. It's hard.

After the two people fell in love, they were no longer as vigorous as when they were in love. On the contrary, one of the two people is not pleasing to the eye with the other, or neither is pleasing to the eye. This unpleasant feeling gradually turns into a kind of tiredness, and the more you try to change, the more tired you feel.

1. One party always wants to change the other, and the other party doesn't want to be changed, so be a person who just loves what I do. Or one party wants to cater to the other and has been catering for a long time, but the other party has turned a blind eye and feels that this kind of catering is too tiring. Or the feelings of two people are not on the same channel.

There are too many feelings that two people talk about. Every discussion adds to the exhaustion.

Second, two people feel very tired together. Try the following:

1.Both parties should calmly find time to communicate frankly, find out what makes the two people tired, and analyze whether this tired situation can be changed by resolving the conflict.

2.Heart disease still requires heart medication**. Tiredness must be a matter of affection between two people. Analyze whether it comes from an external cause or an internal cause between two people.

3.Give the other person some space, don't be too eager to change the status quo, and let time and space change the situation.

4.Less accusation, more empathy, put yourself in the other person's shoes, think about everything, think about what I would do and why the other person would do what they did.

5.Analyze the reason, if two people feel tired together, explain what is the problem, calm down and think about what caused the current situation, find out what the problem is, so as to make changes and solve the problem.

6.Communicate more, and after discovering the problem, the two of them will have a heart-to-heart exchange. If the problem can be changed, we should plan how to improve the relationship between the two people in the future. If the problem is difficult to change, we should also calm down and talk carefully about how to face it.

The beginning of any relationship is beautiful and romantic. Any relationship has periods of lull and exhaustion. When two people feel tired, it will always happen from time to time. When you feel tired, try the above methods to change the situation.

I think that if you want to change this situation, you need to sit down and have a good conversation, and everyone can say what is in your heart, so that you can find a way to solve some problems.

I think you two can go out for a trip when you're not busy at work, go shopping, go out to eat, and relax yourself.

1. Not enough trust.

Two people don't trust each other enough in this relationship. Maybe the other party just has something they don't want to say, which is related to self-esteem, but you will feel that you should tell you everything, and you should be honest with each other when you fall in love, and you shouldn't hide it from each other. Something happened at home and I don't want to tell you, so I reduce the time I spend with you, and you not only can't understand him, but you will also wonder why he is like this.

Instead of asking him directly, you complain to others, so that your problems will be known to everyone, and his name will be corrupted by you indirectly.

2. Didn't think about each other's future.

Two people are just falling in love together, but they have never thought about the future development, two people think that only love each other can be, but there are many practical factors to consider in the future. The two are in love with each other, but they are separated because of the material aspect. Two people graduated from college, and there is no shortage of people everywhere, not to mention that their academic qualifications are not outstanding in the application, and the two of them began to quarrel because of all aspects of their lives, and their feelings were consumed because of the broken future.

3. The family is opposed.

There is only this one in the girl's family, and the family loves it. Boys and girls are not people in the same place, boys have to go back to their homes after graduation, and they want girls to go back with him, but the girls' families are against it, and there is no way for girls to leave their homes, after all, there is only one in the family. But boys can't come to her, the house and car at home have been bought, and the job has been found for him.

Because neither of the two people wants to talk to anyone, and the family continues to exert pressure to express their opposition to them, and in the end, the personal feelings of the two sons can only end in breaking up.

Fourth, the character is still not suitable.

The two have gone through a long run-in, but they found that each other's personalities still don't get along. You like to be quiet, but he can't be quiet, he likes to be lively. You are willing to read a book at night, but he wants to go to the movie, and the temper of the two people is relatively stubborn, and they are unwilling to change because of each other.

Even though they tried to run in with each other, they still continued.