How do you think you can let go of someone who loves you deeply and hurts you?

Think more about the harm he once did to himself, and stop thinking about the time when he was good to him before.

Love hurts people, that's for sure, and every love can't be only happy and without tears. But a good relationship must be more happy than sad. If the person you love still loves you, and this relationship is so straight that you continue to give, he or she must be reluctant to always make you sad and cry.

Therefore, when your sadness turns into hypocrisy in the eyes of the other person, you should give up.

If you can't put it down, try again. When I broke up with my first love, I knew that the other party didn't love each other, so I continued to entangle because I couldn't let go. I begged him to go on one last trip with me, and he agreed.

On the way to travel, two people with their own hearts are not happy, and every minute together is a torment for those who refuse to let go. When you have the hope of redemption and only gain a heart-piercing sense of loss, you will believe that the other party is really not in love.

When we were together, I must have taken a lot of **, and the other party will definitely give me a lot of gifts. Whenever you see each other's gifts or group photos, do you remember what the other person said to you at the time, do you think that the memory is so good, there is really no way to forget, so you are still thinking about the other person? It's a manifestation of seeing things and thinking about people, but it doesn't do any good for forgetting and letting go of the other person.

The other party gives him a gift, throw it away, or sell it on the idle fish, don't let yourself see it again, so as not to be sad and sad. It's a ritual, a breakup ritual. When you do this, you will find that you can accept the other party's departure, you can slowly let go of the other party, and you can say goodbye to your past in this way.

If you can't forget, it's not long enough, or the new love isn't good enough. It can take a long time to forget a loved one. You can find friends to eat with a set time each day, and ask friends not to mention each other in front of you.

These meal times, find friends to replace your ex so that you don't always have an ex while eating. At the same time, when you have free time, it's time to find something to do. You can go to a training class, go to class at a fixed time every day, and focus your time and energy on this matter, and you won't have time to think about sad people and things.

In fact, sometimes you can easily put it down after you want to open it, and the most important thing is to play with the old spine more by yourself, and you won't think of this person to talk about infiltration after seeing more fluid.

You can go on a trip and relax your mind during the trip. You can also start a new relationship, so that you can slowly accompany Yu to forget about Shiliang's previous affairs and find chaos and forgiveness, and your heart can also get **.

You can start living in a new city again, put all your energy into work, and make your life full, and you can forget about this person.

You can divert your attention, you can also get in touch with some new things, you can choose to travel, and you can meet some new people.

Summary. I can't let go because I'm unwilling, and I just can't accept this fact. On the one hand, I have to let myself accept this fact and tell myself that now that this has happened, I can only accept it, and on the other hand, I can only deal with myself, and on the other hand, I have a view of this matter in my heart to resolve my unwillingness.

And by doing something else, you can divert your attention from this matter and reduce the negative thoughts you generate.

Hello, I have seen your question and am sorting out the answer, please wait for a while I can't put it down because I am unwilling, and I just can't accept this fact. On the one hand, I have to let myself accept this fact to tell myself, now that this has happened, I can only accept it, and on the other hand, I can only deal with the argument and not turn my own turn, and I have a view on this matter in my heart, and I am unwilling to accept it. And by doing something else, you can divert your attention from this matter and reduce the negative thoughts you generate.

Don't be obsessed with this thing every day, you have to divide your energy to do something else, my request at that time was to do one thing to make yourself happy every day, such as buying a lipstick that I like very much, and eating a cake that I really want to eat, I guess you will find out in two weeks that there is nothing without him, and I have a better life.

You have to tell yourself that it's not that you're bad, it's that he doesn't love you anymore. Some people are very lucky, they can find a lifelong partner as soon as they find it, and some people are very unlucky, although they find the result or divorce, but more people are looking for it to meet true love, but this does not prevent them from living every day happily, you are great and excellent, you are the baby of your parents, there is no need to give up yourself because of a person who does not love you, come on, it will be fine.

Strive to improve yourself, such as learning financial management, quality of life, and there are good shadows everywhere. There are people who appear in your life force just to teach you a lesson. When the class is over, his mission is over, and the rest is up to you to digest and absorb the lessons of life.

Time is the best medicine. Find the joy that is truly your own.

When the damage happens, it happens, and it is basically impossible to empty everything at once and forget it, we can only accept it, and then slowly forget and let go. Delete everything you can, release your emotions, and don't push yourself too hard. You're right, it's him who hurts you, and it's more about him who can't think about it, don't punish yourself with other people's faults, don't embarrass yourself.

Such people do not love you and recognize the facts. It's not that you're not good, but everyone has love that they can't get. No amount of force will help. Love yourself. You deserve to be loved.

Think about how that person let go of you, focus on yourself and live well, there is a lot of beauty in the world. Go see Mr. Love, make yourself better, and it's up to you whether you can let go or not. If you love him deeply, you will be hurt by it, if you don't love it, you won't be hurt, or if you are hurt, you won't love it, and if you don't love it, you will let it go.

You should let yourself out of this failed relationship, and at the same time, you should adjust your mentality, give yourself the right psychological guidance, divert your attention, hang out with friends, and also do something meaningful, so that you can gradually let go of him.

The first is to divert attention, and you must strengthen your psychology, and you must enrich your life, for example, you can choose to chat with friends, and then you can also choose to travel, or eat something you like to eat, and then you can also choose to exercise if you come to impact.

Stop thinking about some of the better memories between two people, you should try to get out, you can go out with your good friends and you can let go, or you can start a new relationship.

Summary. Now that it's over, let it pass, stretch out your arms and embrace the breeze to feel the spring, summer, autumn and winter.

Cheer up and welcome a new day, you just don't have a chance with her on the road of life, there will be people who are destined for you to walk through the road of life with you.

Take a break for a while. Make the most of this time and do what you want. If you think it's right, do it.

If you talk to your close friends, you will naturally feel better. Usually, you should often decompress yourself, and when you have troubles, don't drill the horns of the bull and think about the benefits. Slowly, the knots in my heart melted.

Don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she has left in your heart should be relatively deep, deliberately forget, will remember deeper, let everything tend to be dull, what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget.

Since the fate is over, let it pass, stretch out your arms, embrace the breeze, feel the spring, summer, autumn and winter, cheer up and welcome the new day, you just have no chance with her on the road of life, there will be people who are destined with you to walk through the road of life with you. Take a break for a while. Make the most of this time and do what you want.

If you think it's right, do it. If you talk to your close friends, you will naturally feel better. Usually, you should often decompress yourself, and when you have troubles, don't drill the horns of the bull and think about the benefits.

Slowly, the knots in my heart melted. Don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she has left in your heart should be relatively deep, deliberately forget, will remember deeper, let everything tend to be dull, what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget.