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The root of all troubles and sufferings is desire. If people can't control their desires, they will produce pain, so why people often say that they should have a good attitude, this is what they mean, think about everything, don't think so much, don't think about getting so much, life will be better.
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In life, half of our troubles and pains are the result of our own "irrational beliefs."
Instead of complaining about life in the constant attack of negative emotions, it is better to try to change your perception and learn to look at problems with dialectical thinking.
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The root of all afflictions and sufferings is self-grasping, and letting go of self-grasping means that you are free!
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I think it's just one word, greed. In any aspect, if you want less than you actually want, you will have trouble and suffering. For example, if you want to be richer, you need more power, etc.
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Your desires are higher than your actual life circumstances, the so-called life circumstances include our living environment, family income, parents' social status, and most importantly, your own abilities and various conditions do not match your desires, the greater the gap, the deeper the pain.
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thoughts, that is, not being able to control their own brains. The Buddha said, without all things, how can I have my eternal life, compare jealousy and hatred, is it because others are too rich, too beautiful, too wise? At the end of the day, it's your demons.
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Your own state of mind and state of mind.
No matter whether you are rich or poor, as long as you have a good attitude and a positive view, you will live a poor life, and there are many happy things to encourage and influence you.
Even if you are rich, if you have a bad heart, you will not stop worrying.
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The root of all troubles and pains lies in oneself, and one's own mentality determines one's attitude towards life.
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There is no money, Lu Xun once said that money can solve more than 90% of the troubles, so when we have money, we can solve more than 90% of the troubles.
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That is, the desire is not satisfied.
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I can't let go of the past and I can't see the future.
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Trouble is because there is desire, and there is something to ask for but not to ask! As long as you survive, there will be troubles, and the desire to live in a world without troubles is precisely the root of deep troubles! Don't treat your worries as baggage! Find ways to live your life to the fullest.
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The root of all afflictions and sufferings is the sentient beings
Confused and upside-down delusional zhi. All the DAO Dharma in the world is the answer to impermanence and corruption, birth and death, impermanence and change. Sentient beings are deceived by this illusion, recognize the false as true, cling to the Dharma of birth and death, and along with the cause and death of things, delusions such as greed, hatred, and ignorance arise, and the thoughts arise from the heart, creating boundless karma, and feeling pain and troubles with karmic retribution.
When you practice the Dharma, you will let everyone know that all things are impermanent, and that there are illusions of birth and death. By diligently cultivating the precepts and fixing wisdom, we can extinguish greed and hatred to eliminate the negative karma of sentient beings and attain ultimate liberation.
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In the world, in the world of flowers, as long as a person lives, he will have more or less troubles, and these troubles are different for each person, so the root will be different. Rich people have rich people's troubles, people with poor life also have their own troubles, men, women, adults, children have their own troubles, but no matter what, we have to face it! Life is like this, there will be ups and downs, only by facing it bravely, can you enrich yourself and experience yourself!
Life is perfect!
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That's animal behavior! Unless both parties are trying to solve their physiological needs, they don't have a good feeling for each other. If you can't help it, this thing is like gasoline, it's hard to extinguish it if you want to ignite it, how can you not contact it.
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The root cause of people's troubles is that they have troubles, so they have to be troubled, and as long as they think about their troubles, they will generate troubles, so it is better not to let them worry about themselves, so why bother if you don't have troubles.
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I want more, or my strength can't catch up with my desire!
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There are many troubles in life, as long as you don't think about it, as long as you want.
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Not confident in yourself, even a little inferior,
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It is recommended that you can read the Buddhist scriptures, and there is no broken Vajra Buddha in the south.
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People who think too much, think too much, things don't happen, and they are thinking about the afterlife.
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Everything is self-inflicted, and others can't help you. You can only come out on your own.
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The reason why people are troubled.
The root cause is often that you think too much and do too little.
The more a person tries to get rid of his troubles through thinking, the more he will be entangled in them and he will find it difficult to extricate himself. When people do not focus on the problems themselves, but replace them with practical and effective actions, the problems will slowly disappear in the course of action.
I remember one year, I went to an English training camp, and there were a lot of people with me. After class, everyone gathered around the lecturer to confide in their confusion about learning, and only a few students were still practicing their pronunciation.
A teacher next to him whispered: In the end, the people who can learn English well and use it in their work must be these people who are still practicing pronunciation. Because people who really work hard will take the initiative to find problems and find ways to solve them.
Sure enough. Three years later, among the students who still kept in touch, those who were still practicing hard after class at that time were finally able to communicate fluently in English. And those who complain, their hardship remains.
For those who want to be thinner, if they have been thinking about getting thinner, but have not been on a scientific diet and exercise, this desire to be thinner will become their trouble;
For those who want to learn English well, if they just plan how many words to memorize and how many spoken words they will learn every day, but fail to put this plan into action, the desire to learn the language well will become a problem for them.
Those who are constantly busy with their dreams will always have a sense of fulfillment in their hearts, and this sense of fulfillment can eliminate anxiety. Psychologically speaking: action is the best medicine for troubles. In fact, it means that those who are busy don't have time to think nonsense.
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Buddha Shakyamuni said that people have eight sufferings, which are birth, old age, sickness, death, resentment, love and separation, five yin and blazing, and unwanted. Birth, old age, sickness, and death are natural physiological sufferings; Resentment, love and parting, five yin blazing and unbelievable, are mental pain. Resentment will be with people or things that are resentful and hated, and it is impossible to get rid of it, which is a kind of pain; It is a pain to love to part, to be separated from one's dear ones; The five yin are blazing and bitter.
The five yin is the color of the desire to know. 'Fiery', fiery also. Sheng, many also.
Shade, obscuration, too. It means that these five dharmas can obscure our people's original enlightenment and sincerity, so that they cannot be revealed. I can't ask for it, but I can't get what I want, and it's a pain.
To live, to have to live (not to live or to die); old, can't ask for youth; sickness, not seeking health; Death, not eternal life; Love parting, begging for reunion; Resentment will be, and there will be no liberation; The five aggregates are blazing, and they can't be clear. Seeking is desire. If you can't ask for it, you will be distressed.
Birth, old age, sickness and death are inevitable in the world, but the suffering of "not being able to ask for it" should be exempted by subjective will. The strange thing is that throughout the ages, from high-ranking officials and dignitaries to ordinary people, most of them have tortured themselves on this "unbelievable". or tried their best, or tried their tricks, or exhausted the organs, or fought openly and secretly, and in the end it was "against Qingqing's life".
The things that I originally longed for can only be seen from afar, and cannot be approached, or even observed, but can only be put in the bottom of my heart. I can't stop, I can't ask for it. Emotions are inevitably sad, anxious and remorseful.
People can't understand the truth, wrong thoughts and behaviors will inevitably lead to troubles and pains, suffering comes from confusion, happiness comes from enlightenment, can see through, can let go, there will not be so much suffering.
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The root of the troubles is, Zhu Bajie.
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Humorous and funny, it makes people happy, as long as it makes sense, others are easy to accept, and they are very happy to accept, they can be remembered at any time, and the language that will always be recorded is the humorous language, a humorous performance, which will not disappear with the passage of time, just like the comedy stars in real life, such as Song Dandan, and a passage from Zhao Benshan, always remember, ah, Baiyun! Ah, black earth! Like Xiaoshenyang, it is not bad for money, and the humorous language of the city has a deep impression in people's minds, and there is no need for deliberate memory!
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The reason why people are troubled is because what they want in their hearts cannot be realized in reality. But people have thoughts, and they can't control their yearning for a better life. So what does a good life really look like? Different people have different standards.
Sanmao, a homeless child, his good life is to be well fed and clothed, and to have the love of his relatives. In this way, more than 90 percent of children should be happy now. But modern children eating hamburgers and watching movies often say, "I'm so hard!" ”
Grandma Liu, her good life is to tease her grandson, not hungry, and occasionally go to Jiafu to fight the autumn breeze. In this way, Jia's mother is happy, with fine clothes and fine food, children and grandchildren around her knees, sick and treated, and buried after death. But she never lived as poor her mother-in-law, Grandma Liu.
Lin Daiyu, what she wants is free love, independent marriage, no one to hinder her, and she lost her life for this. In this way, how happy young people should be today. The two can enter into marriage if they are happy, but how many couples can join hands to grow old?
Everyone is alive and worried, often contrasting reality with fantasy. It's a lot more than that, and I can't figure out why life is always against myself, so I am depressed and autistic.
Therefore, the root of troubles is nothing more than the cultivation of the heart. A little less desire, a little more action, less leisure, more busyness, and there will be nowhere to settle for your troubles!
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Is the root of our troubles ourselves? Because you are angry, it is because you are not generous enough; Depressed because you are not open-minded enough; Anxiety is because you are not calm enough;
Sadness is because you are not strong enough; melancholy, because you are not sunny enough; Jealousy is because you are not good enough ......
If you think about it, isn't the root cause of all these problems within ourselves?
Let us control our desires, let ourselves learn to look down on everything, no longer be troubled and troubled by everything in the world, and our hearts will gradually become stronger. At that time, when you can look at all this with a normal mind, compassion, and a tolerant heart, how can you be troubled? The troubles are gone, the anxiety is gone, and the root of all the troubles and anxieties is actually in oneself.
The Buddha said: Troubles have no root, do not pick up nature, confusion has no source, and do not investigate self-ease. The things of this world are just a thought.
Let go of it freely, cling to troubles, life is a passing by, red stripes come and go, can't bring a trace of dust, can't take away a cloud. Look down, everything is a passing cloud, so why bother about it.
Therefore, annoyance is anxiety, as long as the attitude is good, it is guaranteed that there is no annoyance.
In such a society, there are fewer and fewer people who can rely on people who can live like an acre.
We don't trust many people anymore, and there are fewer and fewer people we can trust; And then others don't believe in us anymore, less and less believe in us, we don't believe in each other.
In this case, there is no real friend. When there are no real friends, everyone has to face loneliness and loneliness, which are the main causes of anxiety and depression.
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All human pain is essentially anger at one's own impotence.
Depression is because of one's own incompetence, because of incompetence, so worried, helpless in the face of difficulties, so worried and afraid;
The trouble is that the desire is not satisfied, and the root cause is to want to get it, but it can't be obtained, and the surplus is overwhelmed.
Unable to do anything in the face of desire, so confused and confused, irritable because he was anxious, he could neither control the situation nor clean up the mess, so he jumped like thunder;
All pain is anger at one's own incompetence!
The root of all incompetence lies in oneself!
In fact, it is laziness, which makes people incompetent, lazy and sloppy, loose and indulgent, and what they get is temporary comfort, and in the long run, overdraft the future;
In fact, it is not seeking progress, making people become incompetent, not thinking about change, getting by with everything, not wanting to face it, delaying and evading in case of trouble, self-limiting, cowering in doing things, and hindering progress is not external forces, but themselves.
All pain is anger at one's own incompetence!
The most painful thing is not that I can't do it, it's that I could!
No matter how incompetent you are, some people will treat you like a treasure, but you can't be incompetent all the time, or you will fail them to do your good.
If you don't take the initiative to change yourself, you will be changed by the environment.
If you don't take the initiative to work hard, you will be abandoned by the times.
Anyway, whether you work hard or not, time will not wait for you!
The root of all suffering is oneself, and self-discipline is the fundamental way to solve the pain, the battle of life, the most tenacious "enemy" is oneself, and the most difficult to defeat is always oneself!
Don't just complain about the pain, and stop living in a mess.
Take the courage to face difficulties, learn to adjust your mentality, change yourself, and continue to strengthen and grow yourself in the midst of pain!
The process of growing up has always been to heal oneself while being injured.
Don't live up to the suffering you have suffered in the past, and don't let down the "could" self!
All the pain is reminding us to make changes, all the pain is training us to be stronger, and may all the painful experiences in the past be an excellent foreshadowing in 2021!
In the new year, meet a better self!
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