How can I get to the bottom of a girl s mind!

Updated on psychology 2024-07-24
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Be bold, take the initiative, the reserved and arrogant appearance of girls is often just a shell used to protect themselves, as long as you are polite and generous, they will not refuse you a friendly greeting and a sunny smile, which may be your first step towards love.

    Don't be afraid of rejection. It's definitely not your fault that a girl doesn't appreciate you, just as it's not her fault that you don't appreciate a girl. It doesn't matter if you have been rejected by a hundred girls, being rejected does not reduce your character and quality, and all you need is one success, one time, it is enough.

    There are also times when a girl appreciates that you like you but doesn't love you, which makes you fall into the pain of unrequited love, but take a step back and think, let go of the relationship, and keep a confidant, isn't it also good and rare?

    Don't be full of thoughts about falling in love as soon as you date a girl, and create a nervous atmosphere for yourself. Be calm, start with friends, and go with the flow, so that you can have the best performance and the greatest opportunity. There is a saying that chasing girls "if you are not sincere", it is not unreasonable, (it is not to say that you are insincere, but to have a normal heart).

    There is no clear line between appreciation, liking and love, and girls themselves often can't figure it out, boys should be patient and give girls enough room for ambiguity. Women sometimes like and even revel in this ambiguity, which is a good time for a man who is a veteran of the love scene to play hazy and emotional games, but for an honest boy, he can't help but be in a hurry. Another secret you need to know is:

    A woman's love is actually very much like a turtle, when she feels that there is danger and is afraid of being caught, she will tighten it in a hard shell, and the more she knocks, the tighter she will be, and only when she feels that there is no danger will she come out and shake her head and dance with her hands. This is the origin of the so-called "desire to catch and indulge", and what is needed is patience.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Actually, this kind of thing will never be figured out, because you can never be him.

    Even if you think you've figured it out, that's not necessarily true.

    Mind, this kind of thing, I think it's very subtle, no, it's thorough.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Summary. Hello dear, happy to answer for you! The first thing to know about her is to understand her personality, and the formation of her personality begins with observing her career, family, and choosing friends.

    Because a person often determines a person's speech and behavior. An extroverted girl is generally lively and cheerful, outspoken, and efficient, and basically what she says is what she really thinks. Introverted girls are more introverted, and may have to put a little effort into dating, so they can only work hard from her preferences and dress, this kind of girl generally expresses herself more implicitly, and what she says may not be consistent with what she thinks.

    Hello dear, happy to answer for you! The first thing to know about her is to understand her personality, and the formation of her personality begins with observing her career, family, and choosing friends. Because of the lack of dismantling for a person, it often determines a person's speech and behavior.

    Extroverted girls are generally lively and cheerful, outspoken, and efficient in handling books, and basically what she says is what she really thinks. Introverted girls are more introverted, and they may have to think a little bit when they are handed over to the state, and they can only work hard from her preferences and dress, this kind of girl generally expresses herself more implicitly, and what she says and thinks may not be the same.

    Kiss and then think from the perspective of feeling in the emotion Men always like to understand and ask this Pei Ying question according to rigorous logical thinking, so that the results of the Tong test are often prone to deviations, not to mention that it is useless to reason with the female forest Cong people in the relationship in most cases, and the more you talk about the two of you. Women are emotional animals, and the key is to speculate on her current mood with a sensitive thinking mode, and to learn to empathize.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Tell you, girl, it's actually very simple, as long as you're really good to her, rest assured, as long as she likes you, spend more thought, coax her, do some romance is the thing, it's ok fun! ~

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you can't read it, ask it. Don't guess, speculate, or be self-righteous.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The minds of girls are really difficult to understand

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There's no right answer here! ~

    If you want to know what's going on in that girl's mind, the best way is to get in touch with her more and try to think about things from her point of view.

    Otherwise, it's just to ask her.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You don't have to understand their minds, but it's not good to understand.

    As long as you love them with all your heart and respect them.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Many times, women's words and actions are inconsistent, such as when a person says that he wants to **, he has snacks and milk tea in his hand; When the woman said she was sleepy, she suddenly posted another circle of friends in the middle of the night.

    Therefore, if we want to guess a woman's mind, we can't just listen to what she says, but look at what she does, and understand what she wants to express from her body language.

    For example, when a woman says she is fat, you can't just tell the truth: "You're really too fat", "You're really ugly today", "Your hairstyle is not good". It's about showing praise and appreciation.

    After all, women have the vanity of loving beauty, and she actually wants to get attention, recognition, and praise when she says this, and wants to test your opinion and attitude towards her.

    2. Don't try to convince women logically.

    Women are emotional, they are born with emotional brains that are more developed than logical brains, so their emotional changes are quite fast, they may be still giggling one second, and the next second they will be sad because of a trivial matter.

    Therefore, if you want to guess a woman's mind, don't try to use men's logic to persuade women, just know that changing a woman's mood is much more important than changing logic.

    For example, when a woman is unhappy, don't try to convince the girl logically, but start with her emotions, you can say "If you want to be ugly, just sulk all the time", "Who is so angry and makes my little cutie angry", "You are a fairy, is it not worth being angry with people like me", ......

    As the saying goes, "men conquer the world, women conquer men", women like to be conquered by their own strong men, if you can be domineering and gentle in love, and have your own sense of boundaries, women will be deeply attracted to you.

    Let's take an analogy, let's say you and a girl are out and play, and then you pass by a bubble tea shop, and then you ask him, do you like milk tea or lemonade? In this case, she will have a choice, 10 more

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