How painful is it to fall in love or to give up on someone?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-24
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    When you no longer love me, when loving you has become a burden to you, when loving each other has become a pain, then I choose to give up.

    I gave up on you because I loved you. Because I love you, I don't want to see you unhappy; Because I love you, I don't want to see you endure the inner struggle; Because I love you, I don't want to see your reluctant smile; Because I love you, I am willing to let you go.

    When love is a thing of the past, why bother to pursue it? Forcing will not get happiness, forcing can only widen the rift between you and me, and can only deepen the pain of you and me. If you really want to go, I have no words but to let you go.

    I used to think you were a kite, I held that string in my hand, no matter where you fly, I ended up being your belonging. Now I finally understand that in fact, if I love you, I shouldn't bind you.

    When is the spring flower and autumn moon, and how much do you know about the past? "The past is like the wind, it's better to let it go with the wind. When everything is empty, only memories accompany me. Time can dilute everything, including the heart I love you.

    I don't want you to see my tears, because I'm afraid you'll be soft-hearted, but you won't be happy. Because I love you, I won't force it with tears, so I let you go. Your heart is gone, why should I leave your people?

    I aspire to last forever, but if it's just a luxury, then I might as well just have it. Once had your love, that's enough. Because there is a love, which is called renunciation.

    Giving up is not selfless giving. Giving up on you is not only a love for you, but also a care for myself. I am sad to give up on you, but I will not regret it.

    You are made to disappear from my life because "long pain is better than short pain". When my beard is white and I am dying, I still don't regret it. Because I once loved you.

    Because I love you, I want you to be happy.

    It has been said that there will be no eternal love in this world. Between you and me, if even short-term love can't exist, it's better to let go of each other. If you love you, you will be allowed to pursue your happiness. As long as you are happy, I will be happy.

    Because of everything about you, I care.

    If you were to leave me, I wouldn't blame you, only myself, and I would love you too much. Maybe it's my excessive spoiling that makes you accustomed to calm, maybe it's my excessive indulgence that makes you irresponsible, maybe it's my excessive love and pity that makes you stressed, maybe it's love for her beautiful face that makes you lose your way. It's only to blame you and me.

    When you want to leave, please leave me alone, you just tell me that you don't love me anymore and you have to go. I will let you go, and I will not beg you to stay, even if I hear the sound of my own heart breaking. When you're gone, don't look back.

    Turning back is a mistake, and turning back is an injustice to you and me. If you go, don't regret it.

    Because I love you, I should let you go.

    Because I know that there is a kind of love called giving up, and that is the deepest love for you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It was as if my heart was about to burst. Every time I think about it, I feel regretful, but I have to wake myself up, it's all in the past, how can there be a happy ending. As soon as I am free, I will fantasize that if we were still together, would it be my life of weaving mulberry and farming.

    But the slap of reality will always wake you up, ridiculous life, ridiculous girl. Infatuation is nothing more than that. Sometimes a small and inconspicuous thing can evoke your thoughts about the past, and the memories kill your enthusiasm and expectations for the second half of your life, and you often fall into the long river of memories and want to drown yourself in it.

    That kind of heart-rending pain is a pain that can be described in a word. I regret my arrogance and rudeness, my willfulness, and my shamelessness. But no matter how much you regret it, it's all in the past.

    How to make up for it, how to reminisce, how to embrace the future. Everything is unknown. All I have to do is make good use of the present, but telling myself countless times, countless times, is not going to make any difference.

    I felt like a failure, a lonely person, and an innocent person. But what can it be, just like a loved one who has passed away, no matter how much you miss it, it won't help. But knowing that I can't help but miss, fantasize, and long, even if it is a momentary comfort, it is also a moment of happiness.

    Later, slowly, I accepted the reality and knew that he was a passing streamer and would never look back. I only hope that he can merge into the sea, flow into the free and vast tide of life, and realize his self-worth. As for me, it would be nice to meet someone similar to him, but I have been looking forward to it for a long time, but it is just wishful thinking.

    In the end, I also accepted the reality, and used my past regrets to irrigate my heart, hoping to come up with a sun called hope to illuminate my future life.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Pick up your phone and be afraid of missing a message.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Yes, it is not painful to give up a person who loves you, because the person who loves you is just a wishful will, just as it will be painful for you to give up a person you love very much, it is the same reason, you love him very much, so you will be hurt! Just look at it, there is no problem in the world that cannot be solved!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    When you know that the person you love has a new love, and you still love him, what you can make yourself not sad is to learn to let go and bless him. You may be wronged, you will cry, but giving up is really your only choice, don't worry about what will happen to your relationship in the future, you still have a long way to go in your future life, don't just lock your eyes on that person. In fact, if the person you love really loves you, he will also hope that you will live well, he will silently bless you, people's hearts are warm, maybe because of one reason or another, in the end you just can't get together.

    Giving up on someone you love so much, feeling like you can't breathe, the whole world turns gray. If a person regards the relationship that he once had as more important than his own life, and is willing to spend his life for it, then such a person should really be cherished and worthy of love. But in real life, no one can guarantee him, and sometimes he even takes the initiative to doubt himself.

    Therefore, he and fate will still miss her who loved her the most at that time.

    In this long life, people will not only be in love, believe in yourself, and it will be fine in the future, so now you need to wipe away your tears and live well. But don't be too upset, it's normal for you to feel temporarily empty inside. If you are sad and sad, to the point of pain, you might as well ask yourself, do you need to be sad?

    I asked this question at the time, and I was stunned to ask myself, and I asked myself the second question, do you love yourself well? That's how I slowly came out.

    Love can make a man mature and steady, and support his beloved woman, and love can make a woman gentle and lovely. Love allows us to fade the green edges and corners of our bodies, through the surging crowds, and embrace each other with the gentlest and hottest love, I know that everything in this world is fickle, but seriously, this person in front of me, he makes me believe forever. Along the way, you will meet many passers-by and experience some touching and unforgettable things.

    There are always some people who have missed out before they can fall in love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Pick up your phone and be afraid of missing a message.

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