I feel like I ve lost something... What to do???

Time can slowly get rid of the habit of relying on him, don't let him affect your usual life, since he has already taken the relationship between you lightly, why should you take it too seriously? The Internet is really illusory, online dating is pure entertainment, don't take it seriously, otherwise you will make yourself very painful, when you go through this step and look back at the so-called online dating, you will feel ridiculous, I have also had this experience, every night and a woman who has never met all night**, at the beginning I felt that each other was all of each other, but later, or just strangers, no return on investment to pay for their own feelings, time, energy, and even money, but what you get is distress, remorse, self-deprecation, look at it, Put your mind on studying, divert your attention, and slowly you will forget about him, you are just passers-by in each other's lives, and there is no future, come on.

Feelings in the virtual are hidden from time to time, real and false, false and true. It depends on how you feel, you have to understand the truth of love over time, although he is not in front of you, he may be true to you. There is no reason for a person to like someone, you find it difficult, in fact, we also feel difficult, as long as you feel that you like him, then you have to accept him.

It is better to ask God and Buddha than to seek true immortals, you have to ask your heart, what is wrong with you? If you can go directly, don't detour, decisiveness is better than indecisiveness, and it is a reflection of hitting the nail on the head in solving problems. In short, to grasp him, you must also control yourself.

You lack a true friend to talk to. It felt a little lonely. You should come out of reality.

In the face of a friend who has never been face-to-face, and who met on the Internet. Don't report too many illusions. Life is not acting in a TV series.

You should communicate more with your friends.

Find a man in reality, he's too virtual. Maybe he's a master at playing emotional games. Maybe he's trying to get away with it.

After a long time, it's fine. Smart people, look at reality rationally.

Feeling like you've lost something + looking back and thinking about nothing, you've never had anything.

1.This sentence means that the other party is now in a very anxious state, feeling that he has lost something, which makes him very uncomfortable, but if he thinks about it seriously from the beginning, he seems to have never owned this thing, so it is not a loss. <>

2.The Sun Pai will get a lot of things in their lives, but there are some things that they don't have no matter how hard they try. The things you get belong to you, but the things you don't get, no matter how hard you try, you still can't touch them. <>

You have not lost anything, everything you have lost does not matter to you, because you are still on your own, no matter what you have experienced, it is a broken love, at least your dignity is still maintaining your dignity. Select Forget.

We sometimes want to forget someone, especially after a relationship ends, we want to forget, but it is often difficult to forget, which is probably "raising a glass to eliminate sorrow". Some people say that time will make us forget our pain and troubles, and time can heal everything.

Forgetting is selective. The Peters principle states that the emotional factor has to do with whether people forget something easily. Things we don't care about are easy to forget quickly, and on the contrary, we can't forget things that can cause strong emotional reactions.

Not only that, but whether an event is easily forgotten or not is also related to the number of events that preceded it, the degree of emotional arousal, the duration, and the physical state. A few suggestions from a psychological point of view:

1. Don't blame yourself excessively.

Even if you can't forget it, you don't have to blame yourself. According to the theory of cognitive psychology, people evaluate the past, explain the present, and the future. The process of repeated evaluation, explanation, and anticipation affects people's emotions and behaviors, so it is a natural phenomenon that no one will not be affected by people and events in the past, and it is normal to be difficult to forget.

No matter what happens, don't worry about yourself too much.

2. Be brave enough to accept the facts.

Unfinished Events" found that people are more likely to forget things that are not done. Extended to love, although many people have broken up, they still have small expectations in their hearts, thinking that something may happen in the future and that the two people may still be related. In fact, not necessarily, some things are over when they are over, and some people will not come back if they leave.

Tell yourself that it's over and accept it. With an ending and an end, it will become a thing of the past, and it will be easy to forget.

3. Start a happy new life.

Behavioural psychologistism states that old habits can be reawakened, as can feelings. If you have been with a person for a long time, you will unconsciously form a habit and get used to having another person by your side. To abandon old habits and establish new ones, we can try to get in touch with new people and things, so as to weaken the awakening of old emotional states, thinking and behavior patterns.

I struggled for a long, long time to get rid of the pain of that absurdity. What is loss, only if you have it, there will be a real loss! If you don't have anything, you can't talk about what you've lost.

I didn't have anything, so I didn't lose anything, and I had no reason to suffer. I just missed it, missed the opportunity that could have been a lot of things, just the opportunity. Even if you take advantage of that opportunity that you might have a lot, will you really have a lot?

So I should be glad that I didn't have it, and I wouldn't have the pain of losing. There are only regrets of missing out, only regrets! If you talk about feelings, what you have, what you lose, or what you miss, let's use it as a song, "When Love Is a Thing of the Past" is a real possession, and a pain that is indeed lost after possession.

And "Infatuation Absolutely" was missed, never owned, just a pity.

When it comes to life decisions, every choice is destined to have something and give it up. If you want to have tomorrow, you have to give up the stars; If you only want to enjoy the spring flowers, then you have to give up the autumn fruits. Life is not perfect, what you have, what you lose, what you miss, and what you meet, you can't choose only one of them.

Since you have it, you can afford the joy, and if you lose it, you should bear the pain; If you meet, you can withstand surprises and cheers, and if you miss it, you should calmly face regrets and sighs.

I can't grasp my life, everything is unknown to me, and I don't know when the edges and corners will form. For the sake of this formed edges and corners, you can only work yourself!