Please analyze this matter and what I should do

The relationship didn't get to that point. Of course it will be.

Didn't pay that much. But I want so many returns, don't dream.

Maybe she's just a little slower than you to enter the role, and everyone has a different personality from each person, and the views on love are also different.

Clearly, he doesn't understand you, and you're being left out, so make him understand you and nervous about you.

Since you have saved the emails of your correspondence, then don't be afraid, it means that you have fulfilled your duty of care, and even if you are liable, it is only a very small part, so even if you go to court, it will be difficult for him to win the case.

It's not very detailed, first of all, I don't know how your relationship is, in what capacity you communicated, and I don't know very well what basis he has to prove that the documents you gave him caused his computer to be poisoned, as you said, my personal one-sided view is that if he is your friend, then, such a friend is obviously not very sincere, first of all, the program was sent by him, and as a result, something happened but tried to let you take responsibility alone, which is inevitably unkind, and there is a suspicion of slander, if it is not a friend, It doesn't matter if you tear your face, ask him to talk with evidence, don't you have evidence, what are you afraid of, because I don't have a comprehensive understanding of your problem, a little thought, I hope it will help you.

"You have already killed the virus before sending it to him, and let him kill the virus himself after receiving it," it can be seen that you are more responsible and have fulfilled your duty of care. You have reservations about the correspondence between you, and if it says something about it, you should not be responsible. In the case that you have evidence (letters), it is also in vain for him to sue you.

Don't worry, whether his computer is poisoned or not should not be your business.

If all of the above is true, this is only the content of a civil act.

The most important point is, did you take his money?

If not, you are not liable if you are not willful and grossly negligent.

If so, first of all, you have to confirm that his damage occurred, is it because of your program? Secondly, if it is true, what is his loss? Be clear. It's not up to him to ask for a price. As for you, just pay a little bit.

Whew, your dad is so good. You know why? It's because you're too "filial", it's not that filial piety is bad, but our filial piety has a premise, that is, our parents loved us when they were young, yes, your parents gave birth to you very hard, but from your current point of view, your father has not taken on the responsibility of being a father to you at all, and 28 years of endurance is enough to repay his fertility to you.

Therefore, you have two ways now, first, it is not uncommon to sue relatives in a lawsuit, and you want your children and wife to live a quiet life in the future, you can consider this method, it is recommended that you read relevant law books or consult a lawyer. Second, it is to continue to be your "filial son", give the house to your father, and wander outside with your wife and children, but this will not solve the problem, you say that your father likes to gamble, he doesn't work, you give him more, and when he has no money, he will still reach out to you, or even rob it, because you like his "good son".

The last point is that you have to start to harden your attitude towards him, so that he can see clearly that you have grown up and are no longer a child who listens to your parents for everything, which is very important, and your father has always taken advantage of your shortcomings.

I hope you solve the problem as soon as possible, and the family is harmonious Oh yes, pay attention to your child's emotional problems, and let him learn to be strong and not too weak.

Friend, you are really a filial son, and I dare to say that in today's society you are a strong and brave man, very worthy of admiration, it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs, this kind of thing others can only give you advice, how to do it depends on your own mentality. It is advisable to give up the pursuit of your father, rather than a father and son who are deadlocked, it is better to stay with his wife and children and leave him, this kind of escape is not a nest, leave him, the farther away the better, let him squander, one day he will understand what an incompetent father he is.

It is not recommended that you fight, according to the ethics of the Wulun relationship, the younger generation and the elders can not fight for things, even if the elders make a big mistake, for the future, you should go out and start a new life, even if it is a little bitter, there must be a good future, you are fed up in this original family, and you don't have to talk about filial piety and do your son's duty, because you don't have enough ability and wisdom to do this filial piety, your father is now lost, psychologically he is no longer your father, It's just that he has a relationship with you in the name of his father, and your father only exists in the form of a physical body. His natural compassion and goodness were severely blinded by habit. Maybe he won't understand until he loses everything, and you have to grow on your own, and come back to save him when you have enough power and wisdom.

Even if the most undesirable situation is that he can't wait for you to have the ability to save and dies, this is also his karma, and it has nothing to do with you, at the moment, you should be independent first, and then go to the underworld to save him when you have the ability and wisdom.

After the Taiping War, the wealth of the southeast was severely damaged, and Anqing, Suzhou, and Hangzhou all declined as a result. These people died or fled, and their only destination was Shanghai, which quickly developed from an ordinary coastal county into a modern metropolis due to the Taiping Rebellion, and replaced Suzhou and Hangzhou as the new central city in the south of the Yangtze River and the leader of the social and economic development of the Yangtze River Delta region. In 1860, Li Xiucheng attacked Shanghai three times, but all of them returned without success.

The Taiping Heavenly Kingdom once occupied the area around Shanghai, but never occupied Shanghai. But unintentionally, the Taiping Rebellion made Shanghai prosperous.

During this period, the foreign powers could not manage the city because of the Qing Dynasty, so they took the opportunity to expand the concession in Shanghai, and after several expansions, the total area of the Anglo-American and French concession in Shanghai was about 10 kilometers, and it was known as the "ten-mile foreign field". As the saying goes, there is a world for people, and the number of Chinese living in the concession has skyrocketed. Especially after 1860, the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom captured the middle and lower reaches of the Yangtze River, causing a great exodus of the **, gentry and common people, and the routes of the common people were almost the same:

From Nanjing, Zhenjiang, Changzhou, Wuxi, Suzhou, Shanghai, and then from Shanghai and the surrounding counties of Shanghai to flee to the concession, Shanghai makes people feel safe because of the presence of foreigners, and the concession in Shanghai is even more safe because it is a "country within a country".

As a result, the Shanghai Concession swelled dramatically in a short period of time, and the population of the Shanghai Concession surged to 300,000 in 1860, to 500,000 in 1862, and to more than 700,000 at one point. As a result of the flight of refugees, a large amount of capital from Zhejiang and southern Jiangsu accumulated and precipitated in the Shanghai concession, and in just two years from 1860 to 1862, at least 6.5 million silver dollars of Chinese capital flowed into the concession. The refugees accepted by the Shanghai Concession and the funds and wisdom they brought to Shanghai's economic development have brought tremendous vitality.

Since then, Shanghai has entered a period of extraordinary development, and has rapidly surpassed Ningbo, Fuzhou, Xiamen and other coastal cities and prospered.

The Taiping Heavenly Kingdom attacked three battles of Shanghai, but they were unsuccessful, and after one military incident, the concession prospered once. Finally, the foundation was laid for becoming a century-scale megacity.

At that time, Shanghai was the most prosperous in China, and Anhui and Zhejiang were not as developed and developing as coastal cities, and the Kuomintang did not complete Sun Yat-sen's revolution at that time, and it had a certain relationship with the revolution, and the people could not get it.

Because Shanghai was a coastal area, and Shanghai was a semi-colony at that time, many foreigners were doing business there or something, so it was very prosperous.

Shanghai is a coastal city, and it is the United Kingdom, France, etc., and the Lend-Lease must be prosperous, the whole of China was the most prosperous in Shanghai at that time, Anhui and Zhejiang are not as developed as coastal cities, and the rapid development of freight is not complete, at that time the Kuomintang did not complete Sun Yat-sen's revolution, but also has a certain relationship with the revolution, the people are not protected and liberated, when in 1937 Japan all-out war of aggression against China, resulting in sluggish development, not the United States and the Soviet Union material and human support may now be small Japan!

The main reason is that Shanghai is a coastal area, and it is the middle of the eastern coastline, and ocean shipping is very convenient, so it attracted many foreign powers at that time, and the business and trade exchanges were very busy, which also created Shanghai, an oriental metropolis.

Because Shanghai's geographical location is suitable for development, it is a convenient city for water, land and air development, so it is relatively prosperous.

The times are evolving, and there was nothing in ancient times.

Brother, you say, are you looking for a periphery?

Something to do with the policy at the time, right?

Shanghai is located on the coast, in 1936, the Western powers have set up the British and American public concessions in Shanghai, the French concession, etc., Shanghai at that time has been quite prosperous, the foreign powers have advanced technology, advanced management mode, advanced architectural style to Shanghai, its prosperity at that time not to mention Anhui and Zhejiang can not be compared, even the foreign countries that dominated the world at that time are not comparable.

After reading your question, I realized that you don't know much about the history of Chinese society that has passed. But it doesn't matter. If you have time, you can read more books on modern Chinese history. There are also history books such as the history of China's industrial development and commercial development.

Shanghai is the first place where the West entered China, just like China's earliest coastal cities in the Special Economic Zone.

During this period, the foreign powers could not manage the city because of the Qing Dynasty, so they took the opportunity to expand the concession in Shanghai, and after several expansions, the total area of the Anglo-American and French concession in Shanghai was about 10 kilometers, and it was known as the "ten-mile foreign field". As the saying goes, there is a world for people, and the number of Chinese living in the concession has skyrocketed. Especially after 1860, the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom captured the middle and lower reaches of the Yangtze River, causing a great exodus of the **, gentry and common people, and the routes of the common people were almost the same:

From Nanjing, Zhenjiang, Changzhou, Wuxi, Suzhou, Shanghai, and then from Shanghai and the surrounding counties of Shanghai to flee to the concession, Shanghai makes people feel safe because of the presence of foreigners, and the concession in Shanghai is even more safe because it is a "country within a country". During this period, the foreign powers could not manage the city because of the Qing Dynasty, so they took the opportunity to expand the concession in Shanghai, and after several expansions, the total area of the Anglo-American and French concession in Shanghai was about 10 kilometers, and it was known as the "ten-mile foreign field". As the saying goes, there is a world for people, and the number of Chinese living in the concession has skyrocketed.

Especially after 1860, the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom captured the middle and lower reaches of the Yangtze River, causing a great exodus of the gentry and the common people, and the route of the common people was almost the same: from Nanjing, Zhenjiang, Changzhou, Wuxi, Suzhou, Shanghai, and then from Shanghai and the surrounding counties of Shanghai to flee to the concession. During this period, the foreign powers could not manage the city because of the Qing Dynasty, so they took the opportunity to expand the concession in Shanghai, and after several expansions, the total area of the Anglo-American and French concession in Shanghai was about 10 kilometers, and it was known as the "ten-mile foreign field".

As the saying goes, there is a world for people, and the number of Chinese living in the concession has skyrocketed. Especially after 1860, the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom captured the middle and lower reaches of the Yangtze River, causing a great exodus of the gentry and the common people, and the route of the common people was almost the same: from Nanjing, Zhenjiang, Changzhou, Wuxi, Suzhou, Shanghai, and then from Shanghai and the surrounding counties of Shanghai to flee to the concession.

The car navigation date can't change what's going on.

Seeing what you said above, I don't think you need to blame yourself too much, and being able to know that you have done something wrong is in itself an indication that you are changing and improving. It would be even better if you could understand some methods and principles for dealing with people.

The family's efforts are to give you more support and motivation, you are now in a critical period of learning, and your studies are the things that should be handled well, so don't be obsessed with some things in the past, you must grasp the things that need to be grasped most at present, study hard, and show your growth with excellent results, which is the happiest thing for your relatives.

In fact, everyone will regret the wrong things they did in the past, but people can't always think about the things they didn't do well in the past, and they still have to live the current days. From another point of view, you have to enlighten yourself, you are stupid, always regret those things that can no longer be changed and then make yourself sad, this kind of thankless work is only done by fools.

Youth, always a little willful, everyone has the same troubles and problems as you, the difference is, you are not a smart enough person.

As for you saying that you don't get along well with your grandmother, to be honest, I don't get along very well with my grandmother. The reason is that the generation gap is huge. After all, the cross-generation is just too far away.

All I can tell you is that you should think about what to do next, rather than just going back in time. It's useless. Sometimes, when I am angry with my grandmother, I think that she is also good for you, as a junior, let the old man be filial piety.