My best friend has repeatedly broken her promises, which is a very important thing for me, what shou

I believe that friends must respect and trust each other. Although it is the best friend, if it deteriorates, it becomes a bad friend. Repeated disappointments and deception are deeply hurtful to friendships.

I think you're already very patient, the kind that doesn't care, and if you care about it once, you'll turn your face. Every time you forgive him, he does it every time, proving that he doesn't know how to cherish your friendship at all, and this kind of friend doesn't matter. I can't bear it, I don't need to endure it anymore.

My best friend also betrayed me, actually said that I had a bad temper, and said a lot of bad things about me, I helped him find a job, and still lived in my house for more than a month, never asked him for a penny and things, and slept in the same bed, never asked him to wash a bowl for dinner, and washed his clothes, just ask him to be sorry for him. I thank God for letting me really see his face clearly, and although I broke off my friendship with him, I have no regrets. Now that I don't know this person, I'm still doing well.

You tell him again, I won't forgive you next time, and if he's still like this, he's no longer a friend. Trust me, don't be too attached to everything, and when your friendship with him doesn't matter anymore, you don't need to miss anything.

Since you think of him as your best friend, don't worry about that. If it's really something that you think is important and he doesn't take it seriously, do you feel the need to treat him as your best friend? Is there a misunderstanding?

Could it be that you are more delicate, he is so arrogant that he doesn't realize that you care about this matter at all! In fact, everyone has different personalities, even if they are good friends, there will be disagreements, communicate it, maybe you will find that there is nothing!

Sit down and talk to her calmly, and if she still doesn't seem to care, then she doesn't treat you as a friend.

If you don't care about it now, maybe it will continue to happen, and one day she will not realize her mistake until she breaks you so badly, but then you may not dare to trust her anymore.

After he didn't keep his promise, he was indifferent, if he reflected on himself, then he could still be a friend in the future, otherwise he could only be a general acquaintance.

You should accommodate him. Or joking with him is to remind him to go down.。。

Do you know if he sees you as his best friend, whether it is worth it for you to regard him as his best friend, often if you are not careful, you will be doomed, because there are 3 types of people standing behind you, 1, relatives, 2, respected people, 3, your own intimate friends.

If a friend is not trustworthy, it depends on who he is for, and if he is trustworthy to others, he can make friends. If you don't keep your promises, you can't be called a friend, you don't have to make deep friends, you're embarrassed to break off friendship, and you can do things perfunctorily.

Of course, it won't be a deep friendship, and I don't think even a shallow friendship is religious, because this kind of friend can't be trusted. And you call making friends, not enemies, and even your friends don't keep their promises to you, in that case, if something happens to you in the future, then he may not even help you, and may even reverse to deal with you, so what's the use of making such friends? This kind of friend is not as good as a stranger, at least if some strangers suddenly deal with you, and then you ask someone to do something, they may also do it for you properly, so don't make friends like this.

If that friend really cares about you, then he will not be untrustworthy, and even he will be very trustworthy, and generally he will remember what you say, and then he will take action after a certain time, and even sometimes he will know what to do without you reminding him, such a person is a friend. A friend is the one who remembers you in his heart and can think about you, not the person who demolishes the stage for you. If something happens, and then you tell him what you want him to do, and in the end, he says that he can't go because of something, and then you haven't found someone else, doesn't that mean tearing down your platform?

If there is any activity, won't it make you lose face in front of your boss?

People like this who don't think about you, then don't have deep friendships. If you can't be a friend, don't force it. Anyway, it's better not to pay it if someone like this is paid, so don't make deep friends, I don't think it's worth it for this kind of person.

Besides, you don't have to have a lot of friends, just a few who can make friends. So if you already have a few friends you can make friends with, it doesn't matter if you have friends like this or not.

No. The most important thing between friends is mutual trust and mutual respect. If a friend makes a promise to you, and you believe that he will fulfill his promise, it means that you trust him.

But he did not keep his promise and did not keep his promises. So he is not worthy of your trust, or even worthy of being your friend.

At any time, people who do not keep their promises will not be respected by others, and for such people, we don't need to have dealings with them, let alone be friends, even if they become friends, we can't make deep friends. Because the deeper you are, the greater the loss you will suffer, and the greater the damage you will suffer, so why should you?

To choose a friend, you must choose an honest and honest person to be a friend, don't choose a person who does not keep his promises to be a friend, and with such a person, you may also be considered a person who does not keep his promises. No good for yourself.

Keeping promises is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and those who do not keep their promises will be looked down upon. If your friend doesn't keep his promises, then it is estimated that he may have other bad characteristics, such as Laipi, taking advantage of small advantages, etc., so this person's shortcomings should still be many. Associating with this kind of person with shortcomings will do more harm than good, and it will be good for you to break off contact as soon as possible.

Friends must be honest and trustworthy, if there is no trust between friends, then why be friends, untrustworthy friends do not need to have deep friendship, you and his deep friendship will harm yourself, I have this experience.

I remember when I was a freshman in high school, there was no one I knew in the class, and I changed schools, so I didn't know anyone well, so I made a friend, he was very good to me at the beginning, and I was a person who would be better to others as long as they were good to me, so I regarded him as my best friend.

After a semester, he lied to me more and more, he didn't take me seriously, and finally we broke up like this, I really can't stand him like this, and although I am sad to break up with him, I will never be hurt like this again.

It is better not to have a close friendship with an untrustworthy friend, and you must find a way to distance yourself from him.

It's hard to find a soulmate, and it's really hard to find a deep friend. I also know this very well. There will be a lot of conflicts between friends.

If you handle it well, you will reap a sincere friendship. If you don't handle it well, maybe you'll have a hard time finding your bosom friend. Any relationship needs to be managed.

First of all, you have to make it clear that no matter what kind of friend you are, it is impossible to be unconditionally good to you. If you think of him as your bosom friend. You also need to tolerate some of his shortcomings.

Breaking one's word is indeed a very bad behavior. Honesty is the basic principle of communication. But no one is perfect, and nothing can be perfect.

If your friend is very untrustworthy, first of all, as a friend, you should kindly remind him. He can't be allowed to be wrong again and again. Of course, this also needs to be done in a certain way.

It is necessary to pay attention to a certain method. The most important thing is not to embarrass him. If you find out that he often does not keep his word.

and immediately cut off contact with him. Then you may also miss out on a good friendship.

If you remind him, you also clearly feel that he has realized his mistake. But he still doesn't think so, and he doesn't correct his mistakes. Well, I think it's good that you don't have a deep friendship with him and just associate with him as an ordinary friend.

If, after your reminder, he is gradually trying to correct his mistakes, then I think such friends can still be deeply acquainted. Because he will correct himself for you. He is also managing this friendship, and at this time you don't have to hold your own little emotions, you should treat each other with sincerity and become friends with him.

Friends rely on each other in addition to sharing with each other. It is also a relationship of mutual help and mutual promotion. Therefore, when your friends often do not keep their promises.

As a friend, you should take the initiative to help him and correct his mistakes. If she can't accept it for a while, then, time will prove to him. He was wrong, very completely wrong!

On this issue, personally, I think that as a friend, you should first kindly remind her. As for whether you want to have a deep friendship with him, you can decide for yourself.

What are the friends who don't keep their promises going to do, and if they don't throw it away, do they want to keep it for the New Year?

I don't know what your definition of a friend is, I think keeping promises is an indispensable part of a person's character, making friends we often make is character, a person who does not keep promises, I don't know what other advantages he can have.

To take the simplest example, if you meet your friend at 3 p.m. on Sunday, and you wait there for your friend for more than an hour, and then you don't wait for your friend to come, if you exclude other factors, just because he didn't keep his word and didn't show up on time, can you feel happy?

When friends are together, what they want most is to feel comfortable and happy with each other, when facing a friend who does not keep their promises, where does your pleasure come from? Will you be able to continue to bear his untrustworthiness in the future?

Let's not talk about friends, let's just say that people who have a very ordinary relationship with you, when the two of you get along and work together, if this person does not keep his promise, how will you feel? If you are a very untrustworthy person, do you think others will want to work with you? Would you be willing to be your friend?

Now, we all pay attention to our inner feelings, and prefer to fill the whole day with a pleasant mood, if being with someone will always make you feel less comfortable, not so happy, why hold on? I always feel that some things some people still have to give, as the saying goes, if you are willing to give, you can only get if you are willing to give, go to find a friend who is really destined.

A man must eat a peck of salt with his friend before he knows him. So in my opinion, integrity is particularly important. A trustworthy person will get the favor of others, and he will feel that this person is down-to-earth and reliable, so he likes to associate with this kind of person.

If my friends don't keep their word and often play with me, I don't think everyone has to play. I don't like intrigue every day, I think it's nice to keep it simple.

In the past, I always thought that friends were an indispensable part of life, but now, I have slowly seen through some things, which have given me a different definition of "friends", and I think some friends really don't need to make deep friends, because those "friends" will leave you sooner or later, and their purpose of being friends with you is not so simple. Breaking promises is a mistake that everyone can make, but if he makes mistakes repeatedly, and the degree is very deep, it is his problem, and I don't think there is any need to make deep friends with such friends.

She shows us how much money she makes while borrowing money from us, hundreds at a time, hundreds at a time, dozens of dollars when there are no hundreds, I really don't understand what she is doing this, is it so fun to show off her wealth, or is it a momentary hurry? It's okay to borrow money to show off your wealth, you can come how you want, now she borrows money every time she comes to me, the first and second time I am very happy to lend her money, slowly she comes to me almost every two days to borrow money, of course it is okay to borrow money between friends, but it can't be like this, keep borrowing, borrowing and showing off how good they are.

I asked him about the money because of the lack of money recently, and she said that it would be repaid in a few days, and then I waited for half a month, and I didn't remember it if I didn't ask it cheekily, and this star could see that he didn't take borrowing money seriously. So I really don't have confidence in my friends who don't keep my word now. Every time you lend you money, you are the boss, you want it when you open your mouth, and when you repay the money, you are also the boss, and if you don't ask for it, you won't give it.

Of course, a good friend is not defined by not paying back the money, but talking about money hurts feelings, at least you have to know the matter of borrowing money to repay the money, and you can't have the mentality of not paying it back. A friend is a heart hidden in two bodies, and a true friend will not make you so angry.

I don't think it's worth making friends like this.

In today's society, "friends don't ask for more, they only ask for fine", and friends care about themselves all the time, including themselves, who know these small details. And these friends do not include wine and meat friends, it may be that when you have money, he will associate with you, but when you have no money, he will leave you, or directly take your things for himself, thinking that this thing is his, so when he comes to you to borrow money, he is a grandson, but when you ask him for money, he is an uncle.

I am very reluctant to associate with a person who does not keep my promises, it is possible that because there is such a person around me, it will not only lower the opinion of other people about me, but also may lead me to make friends in the future, others just don't want to get along with a person like me, he will think I am blind!

Friends are by your side, he slowly developed from friends to good friends and then to girlfriends, if these two words can't be achieved at the beginning, then this kind of friend will only feel more and more pit after deep friendship, and like this kind of friend, I think there is no need for deep friendship to be able to directly block and break off with him.

Social work is all about credit, which is very important for many people, if he can't do it well in this step, then I think maybe what I told him earlier, he may tell others later, or he told me that the borrowed money will suddenly not be repaid tomorrow!

I have such a friend by my side, I used to have a colleague relationship with him, and the friends got along quite well at that time. At that time, he borrowed money from me and said that I would borrow your money today and pay it back tomorrow, and the next day when it didn't happen, he would pay me back when I asked him for it on the third day, and then we didn't contact each other for a long time because we both changed jobs.

Two days ago, he told me that he was going to get married next month, and I wondered why this person suddenly talked to me? Then he said, "I've been a little tight on money for the past two days, can you lend me a thousand dollars?"

I said I'm sorry, I can't borrow money for a trip next month, in fact, I can borrow money, but I don't want to, because I think you were very untrustworthy some time ago, so why should I borrow money from you?