Why am I not confident in my future and that of my boyfriend?

Speak to you from the heart.

Chat with you. **: If you continue your current image of 'career and family' are both 'decent', and you look for a husband, you will be inclined to: the right person. You will recognize each other and work together to 'maintain' your decent image.

I said, you just take the "beauty" of "family" and "career" and "pamper" yourself.

Specifically: you can change your image, like the career you said. You can turn down positions or roles that you are not happy about in your career.

At home, you take the initiative to care for yourself and reject your family's 'enthusiasm and care' for you that you don't need.

If you don't have a poor family, you can consider 'stopping your career' and pursuing your hobbies, so that your 'family status' may also change.

A man may pretend not to care about you on the surface, because some men just think that they are stronger and more powerful, so they don't easily show their love for you in front of you, but in fact, maybe sometimes it's a small moment. You may find out that he loves you and cares about you, marriage is not about talking about it, it is not for fun, if he doesn't love you, he decides that it is impossible to promise you to be with you.

In fact, you can go and talk about it, if it's not suitable, forget it.

Did you tell him what you thought? Didn't you say it would be nice to have personal guidance? Why aren't you this person?

I said to my boyfriend, I don't have confidence to be together, my boyfriend said he has confidence, he doesn't need me to have confidence, what do you mean.

Hello dear! I said to my boyfriend, I don't have the confidence to be together, my boyfriend said that he has confidence, he doesn't need me to have confidence, which means that if you promise to be his girlfriend, he will do his best to love you, even if you don't have the confidence to believe that you will have a good life in the future, but he is willing to give everything to take you forward! In fact, there can be a person who loves you so much, you must be caught, not for you, just because you like because you want to protect you and give you a better life, some people miss it for a lifetime!

You may not have confidence because you don't see hope for the future or don't trust your boyfriend, or it may be that your feelings for him are not to the point where they will not be separated, so you have no confidence.

This is because there is a relationship problem between the two of you, which is why such a situation has been created, and you must face it formally.

It may be that you are under pressure in your heart, so you think like this, or it may be that you don't love him at all.

Do you feel that you have given more than him because you have given up a lot, have you ever wondered why he didn't keep it, because he gave the same lot, and he endured your character for two years? Extroverted personality does not mean that you can be selfish, two people get along and fall in love, you only see your own pay, give up, do not see the other party's tolerance and tolerance, until you can't accept it, so long, you know your shortcomings, and you know that he cares about your shortcomings, but you haven't thought about how to solve this problem, restrain your temper, be gentle, change your shortcomings and have nothing at all, but you threaten to break up, implement, the result is counterproductive, have you thought about these? If you still live with this mentality, thinking that he has a negative attitude towards you, your next relationship is likely to end in failure.

Two people are in love, breaking up is definitely not the reason for one person, don't dwell on how much you pay, think about it, in this relationship, what you have gained, what to pay attention to in the future, in order to improve yourself, improve yourself, everyone has mistakes, don't blame all on one person, try to enlighten yourself when fate is over, go out for a walk, and start again. There are many hurdles in life, but you can always overcome them.

Time will heal everything, and long pain is better than short pain.

I understand this kind of person, they are more slow to heat, not good at expressing themselves, when they are at a loss, they face it with a cold expression, more steady, no matter how you turn the world upside down, vigorous He is unmoved, but his heart will more or less have some waves, as long as a person pays for a thing, he will have feelings, and the more he pays, the more feelings he has. In fact, after getting along for a long time, I just fell in love with a habit, I think you have fallen in love with the process of paying for him, always looking forward to the good, and then the gap in reality makes you unbearable, and then quarrels, then reconciled, and then continue to pay, etc., etc., etc., and so on. Remember, it only takes 21 days for a person to form a habit.