How to master the proper proportion of speech and make the language more vivid?

I feel that the proportions of what you say depend on the situation you are in, and the identity of you and the person you are going to speak to determines how you should speak. Let me give you a few examples.

One. If you are an employee of a company first, and now your boss wants to talk to you, then you should not speak very casually now, you should try to get to the point, don't talk too much nonsense, judge how you should be rational according to what your boss says, and speak out with affection.

Two. If you want to speak in a different way than yourself, you should try to use Mandarin to communicate with him, avoid some local dialects in your hometown, so as not to cause unnecessary misunderstandings, try not to swear, and listen carefully to others, which is a kind of respect for others. , and then extract the key points from what he said and then use some allusions or others to explain to him, which is easier to understand.

Three. If it's with a good friend who plays with you, it's all a joke, but it's just not too much, after all, people always have a limit, and you can't go too far. If it's too much, brothers will quarrel with each other, just don't touch the bottom line.

When you really speak, you should also grasp your own proportions, and be sure to let yourself say different topics on different occasions.

If you want to talk about different topics, you must let yourself have a lot of knowledge, and this kind of knowledge cannot increase much by reading alone, and you must let yourself have a verbal expression.

The real speech should be measured, do not say the knowledge learned word for word, and must add your own inner expression with emotion in order to play this paragraph very well.

This is a very vivid expression, with its own relevance and its own knowledge, so that you can master the right to speak, and you can make others listen to it very comfortably.

But when you speak, you must not exaggerate, so that you lack the way to express yourself, and you also make your character lower a lot, and lose real confidence in the hearts of others.

Especially when speaking, there are some words that must be clicked to the end, so as to show their true concepts, and also let others get real recognition, which is the most reasonable and in place of speech.

You should also be humble when you speak, so that you can grasp the other party's topic and use it reasonably, and you can conform to the other party's point of view, so that you can fully express your intentions and let others get real approval.

If you really want to master this kind of proportion, let yourself continue to learn every day, continue to work hard, and use every bit of life in the language of speaking, so that you can get great benefits.

This is to communicate more with children, take children out to contact with other children, communicate more with others, listen to what others say, and slow children will have their own proportions.

The words stop at the point, without too many words, and if you talk too much, you will lose your true proportion.