How often do I have trouble with myself, what s wrong with me?

Hello, what you said, I think, may be more due to the fact that you have a strong psychology of pursuing perfection in your heart. This is a negative state of mind, because of practical reasons, so that you have not been effectively resolved, so that you are prone to have a sense of yourself and your past, which is closely related to your personal growth experience. If you feel that this is more in line with your actual situation, then I suggest that you need to consider seeking professional psychological counseling services in personal growth that I provide for you, so that you can further improve your personality traits, so that you can more effectively eliminate the psychological factors that lead to your strong pursuit of perfection, so as to help you return to normal life and mental state as soon as possible.

It sounds like you may have a tendency towards self-denial, self-doubt, or self-aggression. This condition can be due to stress, excessive self-demand, lack of self-confidence, etc. If you often feel that this situation is affecting your daily life and work, it is recommended that you seek professional psychological counseling to understand and solve your problems.

At the same time, you can try some self-regulation methods, such as thinking positively, setting reasonable goals, focusing on your strengths and achievements, etc. Believe that you can overcome this situation and become more confident and positive.

Personally, I think that in this case, I should still let myself be open-minded, as much as possible not to stick to those things in the past, and think more about the future.

1. The spirit of self-criticism.

2. Low self-esteem. Whether it's your fault or not, you love to take your mistakes on yourself, and you can't get along with yourself.

3. Everyone has their own way of life, in your opinion, this is not going to get along with themselves, but in the eyes of those people, this is the best, I am one of them, almost, I don't understand you, and I don't want to understand, I think it's as good as it is.

Hello, I am happy to serve you who often have trouble with themselves, most of them are perfectionists, they pursue perfection in everything, and whenever something goes wrong, they will show self-blame, inferiority, chagrin, regret, anxiety, and uneasiness. This kind of person is not able to see himself correctly in life, nor is he able to accept others rationally.

Summary. Hello, I can't get along with myself, which is a mental activity that is too strict with oneself and too self-discipline. It is also an ambivalent psychology, a little paranoid, such a character has a detrimental effect on oneself, and it is best to change it.

What is the psychology of not being able to get along with yourself?

Hello, I can't get along with myself, which is a mental activity that is too strict with oneself and too self-discipline. It is also an ambivalent psychology, a little paranoid, such a character has a detrimental effect on oneself, and it is best to change it.

It is a very bad habit to get along with oneself and constantly deny oneself, and it is also a manifestation of lack of self-confidence, and even some psychological states of inferiority, which must be overcome to a certain extent in later life.

Summary. Dear, you can't get along with yourself every day, so do you hide a lot of things in your heart, or do you like to punish yourself with other people's mistakes?

Dear, you can't get along with yourself every day, so do you hide a lot of things in your heart, or do you like to punish yourself with other people's mistakes?

Dear, if you always can't get along with yourself, if you continue like this for a long time, the mental internal friction will be serious, and it will bring you a lot of harm.

You don't have to pursue perfection, in fact, everyone has shortcomings You don't have to be too yourself, everyone will make mistakes You don't have to please others, just do your own thing, life is your own, and the most important thing is to be open-minded

Can you tell us what happened?

1. Proper exercise can not only promote physical health, but also vent and drive away low emotions. 2. Put on headphones, block all the noisy sounds around you, listen to the wonderful **, and see the interesting** oozing hu, which can also relieve your mood 3. Don't stay up late often 4. When you have troubles, it is best to talk to friends or family members, or you can write a diary and other methods, in short, you should vent the emotions in your heart through appropriate methods. 5. Give yourself a positive heart and shout a clue, tell yourself that everything is the best arrangement, everything can be solved, and imply that you are not worse than others.

Summary. If you often think that others can't get along with you, it's because you think too much and care too much about other people's opinions, as long as you eliminate these, you won't feel that others can't get along with you.

I often think that others can't get along with me.

Hello, dear, friend, what emotional or psychological problems have you encountered? Please talk to the teacher, the teacher will help you analyze and provide you with the best help.

If you often think that others can't get along with you, it's because you think too much and care too much about other people's opinions, as long as you eliminate these, you won't feel that others can't get along with you.

Often this kind of person is too heavy-minded and imagines others to be different from themselves.

It is to impose one's own ideas on others, thinking that one's own ideas are other people's thoughts. Putting too much value on what others think of you.

If we encounter this kind of mentality, we must do the following:

1. Relax your mentality, don't care so much, the more you care, the more you care about what others think. Clause.

2. Don't live in the eyes of others, what kind of life you live is your own, and you don't need to care about others. Clause.

3. What you think is not necessarily true, and you have to have solid evidence to be true.

Therefore, no matter whether others really can't get by, you must understand it clearly, because many things are not real, just your own imagination, and don't affect the friendship between two people because of your own crankiness.

There is also that you should be broad-minded, generous, and responsible, so that you will not be so tired of living.

Don't blindly think that the other party can't get along with yourself, in fact, this is not necessarily the other party's problem, you may also have problems.

So we need to be optimistic and look at the problem.

When we are honored, our hearts rejoice; When you are despised, you lose your heart. Actually, it's nothing. What about being respectful and admiring, disrespectful and slanderous? If you have merit, it is useless for others to slander you. If you don't have merit, it's useless for others to praise you.

Don't worry about that, because it's all unreliable. The people around us evaluate us according to their own ideas and their own feelings. When he is in a good mood, he praises, and when he is in a bad mood, he slanders; If you think it's good, you will praise it, and if you think it's bad, you will slander.

If you are kind to him, he will be happy, and he will praise you for how good you are; Tomorrow you are a little less than he wants, and he will be unhappy and will start slandering again.

This is only based on his own feelings and thoughts, not according to the truth. What is there to be happy about? What is there to be sad about slandering you?

It's all changing. He begins to praise you today when he is happy, and tomorrow when he is unhappy he begins to slander you again. He's not happy to slander you today, don't care, he'll praise you when he's happy in a few days, don't be obsessed!

Now you are just too concerned about these things, attached to these things, especially about other people's views and attitudes. Demand that you do a good job, and you are afraid of others talking about it. Discussion is discussion, what is there?

There are those who admire, and there are those who slander; There is slander, and there is praise. It is impossible for everyone to praise you, and it is impossible for everyone to slander you. Shakyamuni Buddha's merits are complete, and there is no way to make all people admire and be satisfied, which no one can do.

So, don't put pressure on yourself, live a little more freely, and be a little free! Why can't you get along with yourself?