Urgent! My boyfriend can t get along with me every day! What to do

He's because he likes you too much, so he hopes you can care more about him. In fact, you just need to send a simple message of greetings and he will be very happy... It's not that he can't get along with you, but he cares about you too much, maybe you don't want to take the initiative to find him because you can't let go of face.

But I think feelings are a matter of two people, and they should care for each other and communicate with each other... If you care more about him, you will feel that you are not neglected, if you have been indifferent to him, it will make him feel sad and hopeless, and feel that love has become only he is left to maintain... Respecting each other and loving each other is true love.

Love is equal, he holds you in the palm of his hand, and you also have to give him a little more care. If you still love him, give him a care, even if it is very prosaic, so that he can feel your presence. Don't torture each other like this anymore, open your heart, maybe as long as you gently take his hand, a shallow smile will fill his heart with sunshine.

Finally, I wish you all happiness.

In fact. It's the same for boyfriends and girlfriends or couples. After knowing it deeply, I realized that there are many unsuitable.

However, to be able to understand each other, that is true love. Although you're not used to initiating a text message to a boy or something. However, you can try to change your habits.

If you still love him. For example, QQ and the like. I really can't find a topic.

You can send him a few emojis. Then he will naturally get back to you. Then there will be a topic of conversation.

For example, mobile phones and the like. If you're not used to it, you can just text it. It's okay to copy some funny text messages and send them over.

Maybe your boyfriend cares too much about you, so he thinks you ignore him. After all, I care too much about one person's words. The days without that person are like years.

You have to understand him, huh

His values are different from yours

But he's very coquettish, and he doesn't mean to blame

It's not the same with you

In fact, it is a personality discord.

He likes his girlfriend clinging to him like a kitten

But you're not.

You are more introverted and autonomous.

Unless you're going to change for him

Because I see what he means, that is, he will never accept your current meaning, then you have nothing to do, call**, send a text message.

Not much effort will be wasted anyway.

Men sometimes have to be coaxed, too.

If you really care about him, then try to change yourself a little.

He will love you even more because of these changes in you.

Similarly, if you feel that he is not worth making any changes

Then have a showdown with him, "I'm like this, you don't care about it".

What he wants is not to enter married life too early, it can be seen that you are very virtuous, but you don't understand romance, Texting is really sweet, your partner needs a little romance in a boring life, you love him and should tolerate him, in fact, you can tell him, you have to go to work, spare a few seconds in the morning, send a text message, my husband is early, at noon, my husband misses me, I know, remember to eat, that's all, A text message will make your heart close again, enter married life too early, and there will be many decades in the future, Now don't rush into the life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, boring!

..It's really rare for a boy to feel like this.

It's all me messing with my boyfriend.

Maybe he cares too much about you.

You can be more accommodating if you still want to get along with him.

Or talk to him about whether he has a bad temper.

You also make him feel that you haven't forgotten him, and you think about him all the time.

He's not idle.

The best explanation for such a man is that it is not for you! You are also not suitable for him, there is no future, his character does not match yours, it is not a question of right or wrong, it is not a question of being suitable.

Such a person, it is useless to ask for all grievances, throw it away as soon as possible!

Care more.

Tell him that I've already called you now.

It's not that you're not right to you, you're like that.

So is my girlfriend.

I'll come to your question, just one sentence, weigh your own affairs, and your happiness is in your own hands.

Your boyfriend isn't mature enough! I guess it's because I don't have a career! Hehe, a bit like I used to be, encourage him more, if you know his interests and hobbies, ideals and ambitions, you encourage him to support him, motivate him to do what he is interested in, and a man will not be clingy when he has a career.

Aren't you encouraging college students to start their own businesses, and you are encouraging them too?

I used to be very bored, I had to stick to my girlfriend every day, I wanted to be with her all the time, I didn't seem to be interested in anything else, and she also passively accepted everything I gave her, so this is not good, so the man will be tired, and he will slowly feel that he is very wronged, and slowly you will lose the original selfless love.

You belong to the kind of girl who is a little cold, if you don't like him, don't really like him and break up, you may be suitable to find a boy with a career.

Do you want such a boyfriend? The dots don't respect you! Does he know what a boyfriend and girlfriend are?

Alas! You may be angry when I say this to her, but he is like this, you still beat the **, you go and explain it to him, do you have to be like a housekeeper, judge him at any time, that is a couple!

hjx.I'll tell you. You're not right, he's not right.

But his mistakes can be forgiven. He loves you so much. Now the problem is with you.

Do you really like him. If you don't like it, pull it down. over.

If you like it, then text him with grievances. Funny texting or asking him what he's doing... He was talking.

If you don't have it, say I'm speechless. Anyway, you greet him. He feels that you care about her.

If you don't like texting him, another way is to tell him directly, you are not used to texting, and you find texting childish... It's a good idea to tell the truth.

First, he is not good to you because he loves you, he just wants to have a girlfriend and does not want to lose.

Second, he has low self-esteem. I'm afraid that you don't pay attention to him, and deliberately find trouble so that you don't ignore him.

Third, you don't love him very much, but you just do your duty to be a girlfriend according to the standard, not out of your own intentions.

He likes you a lot.

You go with a general attitude and feel that it doesn't matter.

Maybe it's because of your personality.

Change and change, take the initiative when it's time to take the initiative.

Men will only pay what they don't get, once they get it. There is no paying. A man who really loves you is not like this, will pay attention to your feelings, and may not have confidence in you right now.

You're so beautiful. Afraid of losing your day. But get you when the time.

I might rather touch a pillow than touch you. ka！Let him be like this!

If you think it's too much, give it a little sweetness. Then I love you forever

You are excellent, he has low self-esteem and is afraid of losing.

Tell him clearly, such a strange person also roars. ，

First find out your own reasons, whether you have offended them, and then you can talk to your boyfriend, if he doesn't believe you, then there is no need to deal with them again.

I often drink my boyfriend to eat with his colleagues, remember to eat less and talk less many times, and give my boyfriend enough face outside. Don't forget.

Find them, explain your intentions, and get them to stop this hurt.

Since your boyfriend doesn't believe you and listen to your friend, it's your boyfriend's problem.

Ignore him, or it's endless!

Examine yourself to see if you are sometimes overdone! Personal experience!

Look at your boyfriend's attitude is the most important thing.

Oh? Then you don't have any problems with yourself? I'm very pertinent.

Problem one, it's not that he can't get over it, he feels insecure, and he cares about you very much, which is what most honest people think.

Question two, he may already be thinking about whether to break up, but the big reason for breaking up is not that he can't get along with you, but that he thinks that you can find a better one, and he will quit (stupid men, good men will think like this).

Question 3: You don't want this situation to go on forever, then you have to take the initiative to make it clear to him that what you like is him, and you can't ask the person who pursues you not to pursue you, but you must show that you will reject them (at least you have to do it to him when he is there, such as sending flowers, you can directly refuse, or take it and throw it away).

There are also people chasing you, one reason is that you are beautiful, and second, you usually do not stop friends with others to pursue you, and sometimes you still have to make it clear to the people who pursue you, if you don't like it, just tell them directly that I have a boyfriend, don't waste time on you.

Loyalty, the same for both men and women! If he cares about you, you care about him! Give him some time! You can also think calmly!

Everyone has self-esteem, and if you accept roses in front of him, of course it is very shameless!

At the same time, you're pretty sure he knows you have multiple choices, but does he know that you only choose him?

If you also like him, you should tell him about your choice to clear his doubts.

I'm angry, waiting for an explanation from you.

If it were you, and a girl who was much prettier than you gave him something, would you be angry, right?

Isn't it waiting for an explanation?

Your boyfriend's personality is very similar to mine, and he is still relatively self-centered. People like us are supported by their own strong self-confidence, and it seems that they can overcome any difficulty, but in fact, there is still a cowardly side in their hearts. In fact, if I want to rely on my girlfriend to get a chance to take a written test, I'm afraid I will also choose face under the choice of face and hope.

In addition, I feel that your relationship is really not enough, because you are probably the best person for him, or the best choice for him, but not love to forget everything. The root cause is that your boyfriend's personality is too strong to tolerate a little bit of weakness. Such people eat soft and not hard, maybe because they are the same people as me, so I feel it more deeply.

There will be the softest part of his heart. It only takes a little more tenderness to grab it. In fact, I just rejected a girl in Shenzhen who wanted to wait for me for three years, because I was going abroad, and I didn't know if I would come back.

But the most important thing must be because I don't care enough in my heart, and she also said that if I cared, how could she not go to Shenzhen. In fact, even if I don't go abroad, I will choose to develop in Tianjin, your boyfriend is a career-oriented person like me, and the person who can catch him the most must be the woman who gives him the greatest support in his career, rather than giving restrictions. Many times you just need to express your support and confidence in him, and ask him to solve it for you, and a man's vanity is very important.

Although you will give a lot in the short term, I believe that as long as you make this sacrifice, he will give you more rewards, after all, the future is important. The fact that he can come up with a buffer proves that at least he is a good person, which is good, otherwise there will be no shortage of women around a good man.

Well, if, according to your description, your love is normal under no special circumstances.

The problem should be on your boyfriend's pressure.

The separation of the two places is itself an ace killer in love, and no one can guarantee that they will not have a certain sense of strangeness to each other after a period of non-contact. The problem you have now is how to resolve the separation.

The boyfriend's personality should be very strong and ambitious, and under the pressure of society, there must be a backlog of anger in his heart due to not being able to do good grades, and an irrational quarrel will only destroy the relationship between you even more. In the face of strong men and strong women, your best choice is to relax your perspective and start from his ideas.

The subconscious of a man's self-esteem is to resist his girlfriend looking for a job for him, which makes him feel like he is eating soft rice, and he actually expects this job very much in his heart, so he can only use a doctorate as an excuse to hesitate when choosing.

If he is not determined to study for a doctorate, why don't you use the weight of time to persuade him, after all, it is easy for many things to happen during this time, and miss many opportunities, as long as he is ambitious, he will not be willing to let the opportunity slip away and continue his studies.

I don't know much about you, except for this little piece of advice.

He said that he broke up, what's the point of getting entangled again?

There is no grass at the end of the world, don't let others look down on you.

He's a man, he doesn't even dare to take this responsibility, you've worked hard to redeem it, and the rest will be as it is, why make yourself so uncomfortable.

For emotional problems, it is very troublesome, the landlord you have to feel it with your heart! If the situation is really as the landlord said, I personally suggest that you should give up or give up, and the twisted melon will not be sweet. There are not many excellent men in the world, but it doesn't mean that it is impossible to find another suitable one for you, be optimistic!

In today's society, some people with a high level of knowledge are more likely to feel the pressure of survival, and the burden on their hearts will be heavier. In your current situation, even if he doesn't continue his studies, it is very likely that he will end up breaking up. Beauty, youth is gone, take advantage of it.

People can't be responsible for other people, so take some responsibility for yourself. I wish you happiness!!