What to do if you are betrayed by your best friend

Updated on psychology 2024-07-14
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If you are betrayed by a friend, don't be rash at the moment, I hope you can calmly analyze the whole process of your conflict.

    If I am betrayed by a friend, first of all, I must learn to calm down, try not to be too impulsive, because too much rashness is likely to make the problem worse, in addition to calming, I will carefully analyze the whole process to see why things are like this!

    If you find out afterwards that it was your fault, you must sincerely apologize to the other person. Of course, if the other party is at fault first, then I will also choose a suitable time to find him calmly to talk, if he can admit his mistake or say something acceptable to me, then no problem, we are still friends! If not, then I'll take a fresh look at my friendship with him, and probably we'll just be it in the future'Ordinary'Friends!

    Also, if you can't save your face, you don't have to talk in person, and writing a note is also a good way to express your meaning!

    Do you get it? I hope it helps you, may you be happy, and still have a sincere friendship!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    What should be faced is still to be faced.

    When separating from a friend who betrayed you, you should reflect on yourself soberly. Think about why your friend betrayed you. Is there something wrong with you.

    If so, it will be exempted. If there is none, it will be changed. In this way, you will get along better with others in the rest of your life.

    Never again, believe that you are the best in your friend's heart.

    Good luck! Friend. Wish.. Thank you! ~

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I assumed it education.

    Hone it off. It's not easy to meet someone who cheats on you.

    Treat this friend as a bad friend.

    Believe that the true best friend is yet to come.

    Don't let one person despair of friendship.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Accept the facts. Bear everything.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Best friends are nothing more than what you define yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In the process of our growth, we will have a variety of relationships in the process of getting along with others, such as helping each other, cherishing each other, and being inseparable from each other, but sometimes in the process of getting along with others, we are also very likely to encounter betrayal by others, so when I encounter betrayal by others, usually I will not forgive the person who betrayed me.

    First of all, one of the most important prerequisites for friends and friends is to be loyal to each other and trust each other, and if you say that you treat your friends wholeheartedly and trust your friends completely, but if your friends betray you because of interest factors, then in this case it brings you not only sadness and disappointment, but also brings me a pain from the bottom of my heart, betrayed by my good friends will bring me psychological shadows, many times, When I put more effort and energy into my friends, but I didn't expect to be betrayed by my friends, this should be the biggest blow in my life.

    Although I understand that most people are seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages, and everyone is trying their best to get more benefits, but in the process of getting along with friends, I can tolerate the other party's avoidance of me, I can tolerate their misunderstanding and accusations against me, but if I have been betrayed by my friends, then I have completely recognized the true face of the other party, which also means that the friendship between the two of us is completely broken, and for a person who can betray even his own friends, Such a person is not worthy of being trusted by others, so I will never forgive someone who has betrayed me.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Look at the other party's attitude of admitting mistakes, and then decide whether to regain friendship, if the other party's mistakes are relatively small, and it is the first time that such a mistake occurs, the damage caused to you is not great, the other party's attitude of admitting mistakes is also very good, if you are sincere, you may as well give each other a chance to regain friendship.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't contact him again in the future, because the moment a good friend decides to betray you, he doesn't treat you as a good friend, so if you continue to be friends with him, you will suffer a lot.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Break off friendship, betrayal once may betray twice, and this incident will always be a thorn in your heart, and you can't be friends anymore.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Severance of diplomatic relations. No matter how precious the past friendship is, it has disappeared at the moment when he betrayed you. But if they cherish your friendship as much as you do, they will not do such a thing. So don't get in touch anymore.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You be yourself, believe in yourself, you don't have to be sad, he She is not worthy of your cherishment, there are still many friends in the world that you like, the world is so big, you might as well go out, make a few new friends, and no longer think about the moment you break off with him, think about the things that make you happy, you will be separated, forget each other, if you can't forget, then put it in your heart, youth does not leave regrets for yourself, come on.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Just recognize a person, don't be too uncomfortable, people who will betray themselves are definitely not suitable for long-term relationships, and it is not necessarily a good thing to find out earlier and break off friendship earlier.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you are betrayed by a good friend, you must ask him why he betrayed you, and you must die to understand, and don't get close to him in the future.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Cut off all contacts, friends should be honest with each other, not betrayal, once betrayed, they are not friends.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think you should be glad that you saw a person in time and didn't wait for him to fool you to the age of seventy or eighty.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If a good friend is willing to explain, give him a chance to explain, if he is not willing to explain, forget it, you may really not be on the same road.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You write him a letter anonymously ... Tell him that you are not right ... I have no friends in the future!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Problems between good friends should be actively solved, and communication is the most effective and thorough solution.

    There may be many reasons why a good friend has betrayed you, stay calm and be tolerant and kind. You should take the initiative to go to your friend and point out the fact that he has betrayed you, talk openly and honestly about your feelings, and ask why this is in the same way as a friend. With contradictions and problems, tolerance and kindness are one thing, but we must not ignore or avoid them, but we must actively seek to resolve and solve them, leave no problems, and avoid future interactions.

    In this way, the relationship will be smoother, and each other can be more trusting and honest.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If a friend just uses herself to get some kind of benefit, she is sorry for you, and you have a clear conscience, through this incident, let you see his personality clearly, which is a good thing, and it is also a warning to you to make friends in the future. Get along with her as if nothing happened on the surface, as before, show your generosity, and just guard against her psychologically.

    If it's because of some external complications, it's hard to say. Maybe he is unintentional, maybe he is sacrificing your personal interests so that everyone has interests, and he can only prove that some of his views are in conflict with most people, you have to see that you are wrong, review yourself, this kind of friend is not a betrayal but for your good. That's what you're really a friend for.

    Friends are like a mirror, if they are broken, there is definitely a reason to break them, don't treat them blindly, otherwise you are still at fault.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Seeing that the problem is not serious, if it is serious, I hope you don't complain too much, because he is your friend, and friends will not betray you easily!

    This is something that everyone has to face! So there's no need to be too sad! All you can say is that you have lost a friend who is not worth making! She had lost a friend who was worth befriending!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If there are extenuating circumstances, then, forgive them; If things break your boundaries and principles, then, be the stranger you know best.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    People can forgive themselves the most, if you can go back, please use this tolerant heart, to treat others, after all, it is not easy to meet people, and then it is your good friend.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Ignore him forever.

    Cut off all contact.

    It must be cut in two.

    Leave no stone unturned.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I'll turn around and leave in style! No matter how injured he or she is, he (her) can't see it!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Give up this man who betrayed you!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    See what the reason is, before drawing conclusions.

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