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Personally, I feel that communication is a problem. Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, I think every parent loves their children, but sometimes their way may not be very good, or the wrong way, but we can't use an angry attitude to resist, the parents' generation, the knowledge is not as much as us, the knowledge is not as broad as ours, and the thinking is very different from us, at this point we have to understand them, I am talking about understanding, not agreeing. If you don't agree, you have to communicate with her in a very comfortable way!
You have to communicate with your mother in a calm way, and when you encounter something that disagrees with you, you must learn to affirm and deny, in fact, the older generation has more face than us, especially when facing your juniors, they need to get a kind of authority and respect. I think if you understand your mother with your heart, your mother will definitely be moved and understand you, but of course it takes a process. When you encounter a disagreement, don't resolve it in a noisy way, that will only make things worse!
Only when you understand will you have a common language, and your mother will slowly stand on your side. Finally, I hope that the relationship between mother and son is getting better and better!
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Every mother in the world loves her children, and they are all for our good. Sometimes the method is not right, or he restricts us with his own ideas. But that's also their experience.
You can sit down and talk to your mother calmly, and as for how to talk about everyone's own way, you also know your mother, and you can find the right way according to his personality.
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Don't think that others will change for you, it's impossible, your mother's personality has been like this for decades, if you can change it, you should change it a long time ago. Change yourself first, the force is mutual, you change, I believe her attitude towards you will change.
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She told me not to call her mother in the future, it is none of her business whether she lives or dies", I was ashamed to see this, because I also said such things to my son in middle school, but it was purely angry, I was angry with my son for only 2 days at most, we have to reconcile, and I often apologize to my son. Anyway, don't take it seriously, since your mother has already left in anger, then you should do it yourself first, not only to avoid arguing with her, but also to try to run the store well to prove yourself, don't rush it, go steady.
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Parents can never pay themselves back, they say there must be their reasons, you can talk to your parents well, communicate well.
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