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Your roommates make fun of you, of course they are wrong, this time can be stopped, usually, normal people will not do it again.
But it can also be a problem with your own mental thoughts. Maybe they're not making fun of you, just kidding, maybe. If it's a joke, you don't want to care too much about it, in fact, all this mainly depends on your own thoughts, and your own thoughts are the most important, that is, the mentality.
And when you first enter university, your heart will be a little more fragile, and you must learn to be strong first. It was the same when I first entered college. It's normal to be a little sensitive when you arrive in a new environment. You have to learn to overcome it, and when you live for a long time, it's good to get used to it.
Not to say that it is customary to "make fun". It's that after getting used to those lives, you won't be so sensitive.
I think you should have some little inferiority. Be sure to build self-confidence, self-confidence is really important in college. Don't look down on yourself. And be optimistic, don't feel like you have endless grudges...
Anyway, life is your own, not someone else's. Take care of yourself and learn to be stronger.
Hope you can solve your own problems.
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This kind of thing is very common in college, I had the same situation with you at the beginning, especially when someone scolds my parents, I will not hesitate to do it, but then I found out that sometimes it is people's local speaking habits, it's okay, you should relax and talk to them, their Kenny jokes, you can also laugh and scold them, there is no need to block yourself, or it will be difficult for you to teach your friends in the future, college is just a small society, after going to society, everything in the university is a bit of a small thing! Open your mind and I'm sure you'll make a lot of friends!
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If your roommate respects you, you think like this is too stingy, in college career, classmates joke with each other, especially between roommates, teasing is right, but it seems that you have a more tacit understanding and harmony between you, you should learn to face it happily.
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Classmates, I don't know what your roommates are talking to you about. Sometimes it's just a joke, they don't think too much about it, and young people like to joke, don't take it personally. If they don't seem to be joking, you can politely ask them not to make such jokes, and they will get along more, good luck!
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It's normal to make jokes and enhance your relationship.
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Treat it with a normal heart, on the contrary, and treat others in the way of others.
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No matter what kind of joke it is, it should be moderate. You may need to be serious about your ideas when everyone is around. Deception may be fun once or twice, but trust will be lost over time, that's for sure.
Judging by your description, teasing you has become a daily pleasure for my roommate, and I can't help but suspect that my roommate is so deliberately suspicious of you. A good temper is a good quality, at least for me who doesn't have a good temper. But you should get angry when necessary, after all, some people are not self-aware, and they don't realize that their actions will cause distress to others.
A good temper does not mean that you blindly endure it, it is precisely because you have a good temper that your roommate will make such unscrupulous jokes about you.
I think patience is the best solution, when they say you, you don't refute, just keep silent, it's not that you're easy to be bullied, but those people don't deserve to argue at all, right?
I don't think we can talk about it if we can't play together, and don't contact each other in the future, but now we think a little more about getting along for a few more years, so we keep silent, because they joke about you just for fun, and if you don't react, it's boring to laugh at yourself.
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If he doesn't joke too much, you can ignore it, and if he laughs at you too much, you have to learn to protect yourself and resist him once to let him know that you are not a bully.
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If your roommates keep making fun of you, it's disrespectful to you. If this goes on for a long time, you must find a roommate to have a good conversation. Use your wisdom to solve these solutions, and they will respect you later.
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If you don't like your roommate doing this to you, you can just say what you think to your roommate, and I think your roommate will definitely respect you very much, and will definitely stop making fun of you, and you won't have this confusion.
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If it were me, the next time my roommate made a joke about me, I would choose to make a joke of him, and if he was annoyed, I would just kick him.
Meet someone who makes fun of other people's jokes like this. He should be taught a big lesson so that he will never dare to joke again.
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Talk to her about your troubles, and if you still don't correct them, try to contact her as little as possible.
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This is very normal, the relationship between roommates is the best and deepest, and often jokes are just to promote the relationship, just don't take it too seriously.
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For this disrespectful roommate, you can only go and fight back. If you put up with her again and again, she will only be more arrogant?
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This is also a very normal phenomenon, some roommates always like to joke, I feel that everyone is more familiar with each other, joking, I feel that everyone is comparative, relaxed and casual, go with the flow, it doesn't matter.
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You can also joke the other way around, in fact, this is a very common way to communicate in the dormitory, and usually roommates are always joking in the dormitory, as a way to liven up the atmosphere.
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Your roommate is not malicious in joking with you, but he has hurt you by doing so, you have to let him know that you are dissatisfied, and he will not joke with you like this in the future.
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If there is such a situation next time, you should be tough and say to the other party, if you say this again, I will be really angry, and if I don't say it, it doesn't mean that I will always let you.
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Then you have to muster up the courage to tell him that you can't be bullied by others casually
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Your roommate always makes jokes about you, which proves that your roommate likes you very much, and it is also good that he makes some kind jokes to you, which can enhance each other's feelings and make life happy.
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1.The first aspect: always speak the other person's accent.
I don't think it's okay for people to have accents, but if you keep grabbing other people's accents, it's not particularly good to joke about this! Everyone will have their own self-esteem, and after talking too much, others will become less and less confident. When I was in high school, I was joking about my accent problem every day by the people in the class, and I actually knew it myself, and I tried to change it, but Li Sanqiao said it when it came to his mouth!
I can't help it myself, I need a process.
2.The second aspect: I have been talking about my body shape.
My high school roommate would say how big my calf muscles were every time, and at first I thought it was nothing, just say it, and then I heard her joke in the class that my calf muscles were a bit like something, and my heart was hurt, and I felt irreparable!
3.The third aspect: hairstyle problems!
I thinkJokes need a degree, and there is no need to joke all the time, and do not pay attention to the occasion and frequency. When I was in high school, my roommate cut my bangs, and then I just started it, and then when I went to class, someone said that this hairstyle didn't suit me or something, and then kept saying something like something, and every time I saw me, I would say a word, and I didn't think it was necessary.
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1.In fact, I think this kind of person is very bad, because everyone's appearance is innate, and if he deliberately laughs at other people's looks and others, then his character and character are problematic. And the appearance is not necessarily, some people think that he is ugly, he is ugly, it may just not reach his aesthetic point of view, so it is not necessarily what everyone says, it depends on some of their own circumstances.
2.If I meet such a roommate, I generally don't care about him, and then I won't intersect with him in ordinary life and so on, and I don't have to care about him because of this kind of person's character and character, it must be too pleasing to be cautious and blind, so you don't have to care about him, sometimes we can take care of ourselves, our appearance is fixed, of course, it may also be changed through some of the acquired dressing and dressing, this is not fixed.
3.But blatantly ridiculing or ridiculing other people's looks, whether you understand this kind of roommate's words, there is no possibility of bananas at all, and I think you don't have to worry about it, because everyone's personality is different, since this magnetic field is incompatible or the personality is incompatible, you don't have to worry about him. This kind of person's words will definitely be unpleasant in the future, and waiting for him to develop like this will be a kind of revenge, and others will also have that feeling of hitting on cotton.
4.If you don't care about him, it will make others feel scratchy, so you don't have to worry about him, just wait for him to say that he will develop this kind of character by himself, and then he will be more disliked in the future, and so on, and he will be even less of a friend, because this kind of person is too arrogant, or too bad at talking.
Everyone has their own characteristics, don't worry about him, you are the best, the most beautiful, I wish you a happy life!
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I think first of all, you have to change your mentality and learn to accept yourself, your appearance is not determined by yourself (referring to congenital), there are very few beautiful people in the world, and most people are ordinary.
You can learn to change your makeup, which is a palliative treatment.
When someone rumors about you, you should actually stand up and make your voice heard as soon as possible. It can be dismissed in a tactful or joking way, such as: Ah!
I have a boyfriend, why don't I know Hengshan, don't you hate him? Why don't you pay so much attention Anyway, if you get angry, just say, oops, it's just a joke, didn't you just make fun of me!
People must learn to resist, do not blindly please and do not think that it is good to be themselves in the slippery way, and learn to be kind to themselves. If you swallow your anger and please others, you are clearing the dark clouds for others and creating heavy rain for yourself.
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