I like a girl, but she says she only needs friends at the moment, not feelings

She may be giving you a chance, you can see that she is a strong girl, your words: only need friends, no feelings. Since she wants a friend, you give her the warmth of her friend!

Besides, she didn't say what kind of friends she needed, it's not a hurry to fall in love, you're too anxious, try to give her some warmth, I feel that your success rate is more than 80%, this is an opportunity to show yourself. Try to comfort her, encourage her, help her indirectly, and when she knows everything, I think she will be moved.

Looking at your description, it's definitely understandable if this is your first love.

But this girl, I've already made it clear, I'm also a girl, I think she's rejected you a few times, and you don't have a lot of time alone.

Her affection for you may be limited to friends.

Persistence is a good attitude.

However, perseverance must also be optimistic about the road ahead.

Such a clear attitude.

Don't you understand...

Brother: Maybe she's not meant to be.

She doesn't like you.

Haha....What is a lover? Isn't it just a better friend than a good friend? So, become the best friend with her first.

Become an indispensable part of her, and then talk about feelings. Feelings are built bit by bit. The four most important words:

Be honest. Good luck.

When you used to hold other girls, your heartbeat was at stake, but now you hug her and hold hands with her and your heartbeat is not fast, I guess there may be two reasons, one is that you are more mature now and have experience in chasing girls, so you are not as nervous as before. The second is that you may know that she has no feelings for you, so you are still only in the initial stage of trying to pursue her, and you are too concerned about how to chase her, and her unsure attitude towards you, so that you feel that you have not yet reached any stage of development, and you will be less psychologically nervous.

I think the most important thing now is not whether she has feelings for you, but you have to confirm whether you really like her, the more some people can't chase after her, just to be competitive, there is a kind of idea that you have to conquer her, this kind of thinking is not good, it will hurt others and yourself, and waste time. If you think clearly that you like her, then you have the courage to chase, if she refuses to accept you, you should not let you hug her and hold her hand, I believe she said that she is willing to be friends, you still have a chance to develop.

You hug her, holding hands is not without a heartbeat, but you treat him very normally, I think, this can only show that you don't have too many feelings for her, as for your girlfriend, she may really not like you anymore, but you don't have to feel sorry for her, because happiness is for two people, not you alone is happy. I hope you will take my answer.

Maybe she just wants to try out what it's like to be with you, give a hug, hold a hand and that's it. As for your reaction, I don't know.

It's a question of your heart. Like a person just to be with her will feel your heart beat faster, looking at her, feeling that happiness is about to overflow from your fingers, holding hands and don't say goodbye, it may be that you liked her before, but now your heart doesn't like it, and you yourself don't want to believe it, remember: don't ...... your heart

Give up and don't do things that don't make sense

Let it go, I'm just like you, but in the end I still fail.

When you give too much, you can't extricate yourself. What you can't give up is no longer the person you like, but the person who pays silently. When you marvel at your efforts, the person you fall in love with is actually just yourself now.

In the end, in this one-man show, the only person who moves you is yourself.

The so-called sincerity, unhesitation, perseverance, and unreserved care can only reflect value when used on the right person, otherwise, it is useless and disgusting. Only when it is used on the right person can it be a feeling of liking, persistence, otherwise, it will only increase the trouble.

I know there are many people who, like your friends, are giving and never looking back without hitting the south wall. That's good, it's a compulsory lesson in youth, but it's important that you learn to walk away on your own one day, no longer look back, no longer be nostalgic, and no longer stop growing because of this.

I used to say that feelings are a matter of being willing to gamble and lose, you are willing to gamble for him, but you also have to learn to let go, not all feelings end together, there are many other endings. However, the only thing I know for sure is that sooner or later all stories will have an ending.

I hope that when you pay for that person, you must not be too reluctant, which will make both parties tired and even disgusted. Don't lose your self-esteem, there is only one you in the world, be kind to yourself. If he doesn't think of you as the whole world, at least you have to be worthy of yourself.

Finally, I want to say to that friend of yours, don't give him the opportunity to hurt you again and again, even if you love her. When the pain of holding on is greater than the pain of giving up, learn to walk away on your own. The person in front of you is not for you.

But you will eventually meet the one that makes you feel that meeting him is a blessed thing, because the person you are waiting for, she is also going through a lot and a lot of sad things to get better, and wait until you meet the best you at the right time.

You'd better leave it alone, love is a thing, no matter how good a buddy is, you can't interfere, your friend loves him so deeply, you persuade him to give up will only make him misunderstand you, understand him, people who fall in love are crazy. As long as you accompany him to drink when he is sad, that is enough.

Your friend likes a girl, and the girl doesn't like him, right? Is he going to do stupid things because of that girl now?