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I agree with this statement because the process of renunciation is the process of saying goodbye to the past life, and you can throw away your useless things in time, so that you can improve your enthusiasm for life.
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The best way to live is to give up, this sentence is very profound, because in life you want to completely let go of a person The best way is to cut off contact with him, only by giving up can there be gains.
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My understanding is not to hoard things that you don't need, but to remove these items regularly so that your home can be more tidy and spacey.
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I very much agree that life is actually about subtraction, subtracting a lot of things that you don't need, and not caring about a lot of things.
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Know not to hoard unwanted equipment, and to remove these items regularly so that your home can be more tidy and spacey.
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Giving up is cultivating our ability to resist risk and deal with uncertainty. Necessary precautions are needed, but in the world, the world is impermanent, and it is impossible to predict everything in advance, which requires us to have the courage to face the future without fear of worry. So the best way to live is to give up, how do you understand this?
"Renunciation" can improve your quality of life, change your way of life, and make your life look new. During the school period, since the dormitory is likely to move into a new roommate, in order to better free up some indoor space for her, I carried out the removal of my belongings, which is what everyone calls "breaking away" today.
When I removed some things, I thought that my indoor space became larger, my mood became better, and I felt that I could keep everything before, but after "breaking away", I realized that I actually had so many things that I didn't use, and this kind of "breaking away" also made me understand what things are suitable for me, which things are not suitable for me, and then I don't have to buy anything, I have reduced the frequency of my own shopping, ** less online shopping, clothes, pants, objects, etc. It can be said that it has improved my quality of life at a very large level, and now I can feel that things are not too much, but "fine", and it can be said that my life has completely changed.
After carrying out the "disconnection" of objects, I gradually considered that my social circle, my own interpersonal communication, and even my future work also need to carry out "disconnection", that is, from complexity to simplification. In your own social relationships, avoid these that make you emotionally lower and make you very sad, this kind of person does not need to get along with each other at all, and must make up his mind to "break up"; In terms of work, I think "breaking away" is also a very good habit, all the work does not have to be complicated, it is made in a very simple form, and the requirements are immediately achieved, which will be better, and it can also cultivate a clear understanding ability.
For what is said today, everyone has different opinions and ideas, you can leave a message to discuss together, looking forward to your reply! If you liked this article, don't forget to help like, comment, ** and bookmark.
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I'm telling you, I don't want at all!
Because living with these three words is like boiled water, without any fun.
People live for a lifetime, and it should be a little colorful to be meaningful!
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Personally, I prefer to live in a way that is self-sacrificing, mainly for the following reasons:
First of all, each of us will encounter a lot of involuntary or powerless things in life, for such things, if we are too persistent, too much consumption of our time and energy, in the end we will find that we are more than worth the loss, so in the encounter with such a problem, we use the way of disconnection to deal with, but it will make us more relieved.
Secondly, not all of us are worthy of our cherishing and giving, when we have the object of admiration, go all out to pursue each other, but can never get the other party's approval, then in this case, our efforts are humble, but also a meaningless, rather than continue like this, it is better to use the way of breaking away to make a complete farewell to this relationship, which will also make our life more meaningful.
As we continue to grow older, we feel the preciousness of time more and more, so in the following days, we should think about what we really care about, which is the most meaningful for our whole life, and for those things and people that will only consume time and consume too much of our energy and materials, we must give up in time and say goodbye completely in the way of abandonment.
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I don't want to, it's not that the leaner the life, the more regular it is, and some things are inseparable once they are contaminated with memories. Blindly pursuing renunciation, it is easy to lose oneself in the end.
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Yes, because there are trade-offs in life, people's storage and cognitive space is also limited, some people, or things should be forgotten, so that there can be a new beginning!
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I am willing, no one will sleep with us all the time, even couples may part ways because of some small friction, the longest time with us is their own parents, however, the years are not forgiving, wrinkles have also brought to our parents over time, the future is ......unknownTake life well, come on 0
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Last year, when I was on Double 12, I bought a lot of books. Among them, there is a very hot book "Breaking Away". I bought it and looked at the title, and I thought that the content was nothing more than that: cut off, discard
Leave. Eighty percent of buying it was fooled by the festive atmosphere and the leaderboards. After all, there are too many books now, and the title is all, and there is no inner spirit at all.
However, on an extremely impetuous afternoon, I was attracted by its title. If you want to save yourself, you have to give yourself a chance. I opened the book.
This era is an era of rampant materialism and serious comparisons, and it is easy for people to fall into the shopping trap of merchants, or to fall into the cycle of comparison that the more the better, the more expensive, the better. We buy a lot of things that we don't need, and we go crazy chasing the pleasures that money and material things bring.
But in this process, the pleasure is momentary, and the pain of not getting it is eternal. There will always be better, and there will always be something you can't get. So the idea of breaking away came into being.
The book begins with the words, "If we want to be happy, we need to let go of our obsession with happiness." "Oh, that sounds a bit difficult.
In the article, the topic starts with tidying up your home environment. The first step emphasizes the relationship between "object" and "me". It's "I" who need it, not "it" that works for me.
For example, "I" need to eat food when I am hungry and this can of discounted honey is kept for "I" to eat later, which will make a difference.
If you don't believe me, you might as well open your kitchen cabinet and see how much food has been stored for a long time. Similarly, there are face towels and paper towels that are crazy to be discounted during the holidays. The most sold items on Double 11 are household items such as paper towels, and some people even buy items that can't be used up in a year.
Second, the book emphasizes that time is made up of an infinite number of moments. The relationship between "object" and "me" should be based on the present as the timeline, not the past and the future. Many people feel that it is useless to keep old clothes, but they are reluctant to throw them away.
The exquisite tea set given by a friend when he moved is reluctant to use it now and must be kept for future use. As a result, old clothes were piled up in the wardrobe, and the delicate tea set could only be placed in the depths of the cupboard to fall into dust. Such seemingly inconspicuous little things are eroding the home environment little by little.
The house we bought with our gritted teeth and even spent our life savings became an induction box for things. Man became a slave to things.
Eiko Yamashita, the author of "Breaking Away", proposes the following theory to clean up the home environment:
1. Cut off the things you want to keep moving into your own house but don't need.
2. Discard the things that are not used everywhere.
3. Get rid of the obsession that more things are good, so that the things left behind can find their own places, and they can leave in a comfortable and natural environment.
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I don't want to, because although everyone has their own thoughts, everyone is a book, and they are their own authors, and it is impossible for everyone to live in one way, everyone has their own thoughts, and they can't be changed with a book
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Yes, because people always have to say goodbye to some people and things, after all, they have limited energy and can't take care of everything.
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Unwilling to, everything is what makes us who we are, and we should not cut off anything.
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If you are willing, some things are thrown away, which is also a relief from your past self.
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Yes, but how can a person be alive and break away.
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I do, but that doesn't mean I can live a normal life.
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I don't want to, maybe I'm more nostalgic.
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Personally, I still prefer to live in a way that is tired and tired, and the specific reasons for believing in socks are mainly as follows:
First of all, each of us will encounter a lot of involuntary things in life, or let us be powerless, for such things, if we are too persistent, too much consumption of our time and energy, in the end we will find that we are more than worth the loss, so in the encounter with such a problem, we use the way of disconnection to deal with the wheel, but it will make us more relieved.
Secondly, not all of us are worthy of our cherishing and giving, when we have the object of admiration, go all out to pursue each other, but can never get the other party's approval, then in this case, our efforts are humble, but also a meaningless, rather than continue like this, it is better to use the way of breaking away to make a complete farewell to this relationship, which will also make our life more meaningful.
As we continue to grow older, we feel the preciousness of time more and more, so in the following days, we should think about what we really care about, which is the most meaningful for our whole life, and for those things and people that will only consume time and consume too much of our energy and materials, we must give up in time and say goodbye completely in the way of abandonment.
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Is this a matter of discussion? Surely it is correct!
Detachment is the language of the Internet, which means to discard all things that are "unnecessary, inappropriate, and uncomfortable", and to cut off attachment to them.
Some people say: what you haven't used within three months, you probably won't use it in the future, and you can throw it away.
A girl in our dormitory, she thought everything was useful, and she was reluctant to throw it away. While buying it, she was reluctant to give up the old ones, so day after day, her cabinet was packed.
No matter how much we tried to persuade her, she was still like that. The clutter around me is piling up more and more, but I can't throw it away no matter how I cover the stove.
Want, a lot; Something needed, very little.
Su Jing.
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