If your boyfriend is far away, do you still choose to be introduced by your family?

Choose your boyfriend, a good man, whether it's the current society or the previous society. will remember his lover's dedication to him. Besides, as long as you are self-motivated, your family situation can be changed!

I'm going to go with someone close to home to see what happens.

You are now afraid of wolves and tigers, but no matter how afraid you are, you have to make a choice, you are afraid of this, you are afraid of that, and in the end you have to make a choice.

So don't break up with your boyfriend first, you first get in touch with the guy here who is close to home, and see what the character is, so that you know what to choose.

Although you have been in love with your boyfriend for 4 years, he has not considered whether he will continue to stay in the army in the future, if so, you will have a hard time, it is not easy to be a military wife.

I'm more inclined to the latter, although there is no emotion but can be cultivated, and even the parents are closer, and the parents will help you.

Let's see how it feels. If you like your current boyfriend and he's nice to you, why not be together.

In fact, you want to be close to home, a man who is good to you, the above two are not what you want, so let's look for it again.

This kind of thing is not tangled at all. When you are in a quiet environment. Listen to your inner thoughts. You'll know what to do.

I think if you say that, then your relationship shouldn't be very deep, he shouldn't be what you want, find a time to talk to him about your thoughts, and see what else he can do for you.

Society has made people become a force, hey! If you want to be separated from that man, I think you have to make it clear to the soldier first! Tell me how you're doing!

Wait, see if the introduction near your home is suitable for all aspects of your personality?

Don't think it's so complicated. If you choose a boyfriend, you don't have to be very handsome, very rich, and you don't necessarily have to be from a prestigious school, the most important thing is a good character, but I also understand you, your standard for choosing a boyfriend is still quite high, that is, people should be handsome, motivated, capable, and will coax girls to be happy, the family must be rich, and the school must be very good. But seriously, it's still rare to meet a guy like this, and it's definitely very popular with girls, and you have to be strong enough to get it.

To put it simply, finding a boyfriend is not necessarily the best, but you have to find the most suitable for yourself, so that you can be happy.

Or not, after graduating from college, they will definitely have to go their separate ways, the two of them will definitely not be together, and it is not too late to talk about it when they start working.

But if you have to talk, you can't help it, as long as the person is good, appearance and family background are secondary.

You're really 2. Falling in love depends on feelings.

Now you want the process, not the result.

Let me advise you, such a boyfriend should not be good.

Because he is too filial to his parents, and his parents don't like you, you will definitely suffer in the future.

You marry someone because you want to live with him, and you will inevitably bump and bump in your life, and his character will definitely be biased towards his parents in the future bumps and bumps, and you will have bitterness when the time comes.

Especially, now that your parents have begun to oppose it, do you think you will have a good life in the future?

However, the reason why your boyfriend hesitates is also because he doesn't have you in his heart, but his parents' position is a little higher, such a man will be a good man, but his parents are not good to you, and he is such a good man, and you can only be wronged in the end.

I have a friend who is married to a husband, and her husband does love her, but her mother-in-law doesn't like her, she used to be such a proud person, and now she can only live in a low voice, I can't bear to see it.

Another point, now it seems to you that he is so weak that he can't bear to completely confront his parents, and in the eyes of his parents, he should be the kind who is obedient, because people will always instinctively hide some bad things.

I hope you think twice.

When parents analyze their children's marital problems, they will think about their children from countless realistic perspectives, but the only thing missing is to experience the feelings between the two of you. Here's a risk, even if you value your feelings so much now, can you be sure that you will value them so much in the future? Will they run away in the face of a temporary unsolvable dilemma?

No one can help you analyze and rule out this risk, you need to judge for yourself. If your parents really love you, they will eventually compromise and respect your choice.

Your boyfriend doesn't have any financial strength, he relies on the family for everything, and the family helps deal with something when something happens, and he is not independent, of course he doesn't dare to do it against his parents, this kind of man, don't do it. My parents didn't dare to say they disagreed with my girlfriend, because they knew that it was useless for them to say it, and they didn't care who I wanted to be with. Men, stand up to the sky, although we have to be filial to our parents, but we can't do this kind of thing by ourselves, think about living in the future, what else can he help you carry in front.

If he can let it go, he will force him, but he still can't pay attention to it, so he just pulls it down. Why waste everyone's energy and emotions.

== Either leave him or make more money.

You also know that he is weak and cannot stand on the same side as you.

Even if you are tough together, there are endless troubles.

The white eyes of the mother-in-law's family and the dislike of the indiscriminate will force people to death.

The only way to subdue such a powerful family is to be stronger than them, and you can't live an inferior life forever.

Family. What era was that when the man's family was super rich? That is, the man's love for you is not enough Two schemes One is the old way to marry a son This is not explained The second is that his parents are against the family background?

There is no other reason except family background, for example, the two of you are far from each other, or other special cases, first understand the real reason for his parents' opposition, and then prescribe the right medicine, during which you must treat his parents very well, visit his parents more often, or invite them to dinner, try to contact his family more, and don't have disputes, otherwise there will be big problems, and then your boyfriend's side does ideological work, no parents in the world do not cherish their children, your boyfriend's side will say a few words better than you, of course, your boyfriend's side must be more resolute, and he hesitated proves that there are still doubts about this love, and it is not just his family's problem.

Use your sincerity to influence his family, if you really want to be with him, you have to get the recognition of her parents, look up and don't look down, use your sincerity to tell them that you really love each other, and tell them with actions that you are serious, your boyfriend should help you talk more, and also help you find opportunities to get along with them. Even if you are wronged, cook for them. Sweeping.

Beat your back, you have to know that getting along with this thing will influence people, let them know that your good girls will honor their good daughters-in-law!

You should open up and talk to his family. Perhaps, your family background is not as good as theirs, but your character is completely fine. To be in love is to love each other from the bottom of your heart.

But parents have to do this. You can try to talk to his parents. Build on your strengths and avoid your weaknesses.

Let them discover your strengths. Understand that you are a person who truly loves their son. But if his parents insist on making things difficult.

It's time to let go of this relationship...

If you get married, you will suffer a big loss, what will an unhappy marriage do to him? Divide him as soon as possible, this kind of person who only listens to his mother's old Chinese words and has no thoughts of his own will only be filial piety!

Eh, I guess my boyfriend is the golden beetle's son-in-law. If you think that this family problem is not a big problem for you and your boyfriend, then cook raw rice and cook mature rice, and then you will be able to get it when you are pregnant, and they must not agree anymore when you are pregnant.

Otherwise, die early and be born early, and change to a man.

I think he really wants to marry you! Life doesn't always go smoothly! You have to work hard to perform! I guess his parents are financial mysteries, so if you have a good degree, get a good job, and slowly they will accept you! Please don't doubt his sincerity! I wish you all happiness!

Or don't be obsessed, such a weak man, he also has to listen to his parents after marriage, you have to be angry, it's better to break it now, so the parents who are greedy for money should forget it, you can't avoid being angry when you marry into his family.

The family is created by yourself, related to the future, related to the present, and has nothing to do with the past, a good family can be created by yourself, as long as you have the confidence to give each other a satisfactory affirmation, in fact, many are not a problem, as for your boyfriend, whether he really loves you, you should be able to observe it in life, not to look at his words and deeds, but to see his mind, his eyes, if you really love him, you can try to go to his parents, show your heart and determination, of course, The most important thing is to explain the family situation they care about.

You don't have a good family, you are not wealthy or a single parent. Generally, the family situation is complicated and not very good.

This man is too obscene! Speaking of which, it's still a problem with this man. If only this man had the ability to convince him.

How could such a small thing be so inky. Even if his parents are billionaires. He couldn't even handle his own business.

Wretched. What's wrong with a bad family background. Despise those powerful families.

Landlord, what did you choose later? Are you okay now?

If he really loves you, he won't care about anyone's eyes, and love has no distinction between education or appearance. If it is mixed with these loves, it will not be pure. I hope that you will grow old and treat your family together, and you can also communicate more with his parents, and please them if you find the love of his parents.

Family conflicts are not easy to solve, long pain is better than short pain, otherwise you will not have a good result when you get married, let him be a good person in the middle, or try to get his family's approval.

Grass, who will look at the family background now. Good people mean good future.

I don't know who you are chasing whom, let your family accept it is the same as you accept him, it takes time.

The experience of you and a good friend of mine is very similar.

I told her that there are only two ways to go, either you and this boy will make it clear and clear.

Either you make it clear to your family that he will not marry in this life, and the family must have an understanding.

You can't hide it from your family, something will happen sooner or later.

Moreover, parents do not favor their own children, they are all for the good of their children.

Since they don't agree, there is a reason why they don't agree.

If you think that this boy is worthy of your love and worth your everything for him, then can you not even want home?

Even if your parents say something like breaking off your relationship with you, it's angry.

There is no parent who does not want their child, even if she does something that is no longer right.

Do you understand?You love each other so much, why are you arguing?

You think it through.

I'm sorry, but I'm excited when I talk about it, because your affairs are too similar, and her affairs have not been resolved yet, and sometimes, I feel sorry for her when I think about it. In fact, the boy is not as good as she thinks, we can all see it, but she can't see it herself, maybe it's just a fan of the authorities. She won't listen to what we say, there's nothing we can do, she'll regret it sooner or later, really.

I'm not cursing her, I'm worrying about her. That man was not worthy of her love at all. ）

Two options:

One: Breaking up, although it is very painful, but it is only temporary, and you will slowly forget the past after a long time, otherwise your parents will not agree, and you will be hurt in the end

Two: Communicate with your family, let them understand your feelings, after all, it is you who really want to marry, not them, but they must also do it for your own good, and do not want you to be hurt in the future

So you better think about it carefully, and the person who really understands you is still yourself!

I guess you'd better break up.

Although my heart hurt at the time, I had to face it sooner or later!

You also have to think about the people in your family.

Let's break up! Reason, one, that boy may not be very good because your family does not accept him! Your family's eyes are much better than yours!

Second, you can't bear your family! Three, you're not very strong! Fourth, you didn't love him with all your heart, or he wasn't sincere enough for you!

Give it up!

Buy a house over your side. Me and my girlfriend too. Their home is too far away. Buy a house at their house in the future.

If you really love each other as you said, give up what you have and go to the other person, whether you or him, it's OK, provided that you really love each other!!

If you don't want to go to him, then he has to go to you, or find another city to live in.

Wait until your family is dead.

Because he didn't want to hang himself from your tree, that's all.

I'm in the same situation as you, I've been dating my boyfriend for two years, and he's graduating soon. I went to his house once, but his mother's attitude was not very good, and then we told his parents that we had broken up, and then this year it was the New Year, and it was the same explanation as your boyfriend. I was very depressed.

Give him an ultimatum directly, and the original words are that if you don't even have the courage to introduce me into his family, then everyone will leave good memories for each other. I feel like there's something that he can't do, it's that he's running away. I can't stand people who run away from me in my feelings.

And then this year, he will go back to have a showdown with his parents. If he loves you, he should take on something, so that there is no need to waste time.