Marriage and Family Problems 5, Marriage and Family Problems

You always say, you don't love your husband, so does your husband love you?

If your husband loves you, even though you don't love her, but he is good to you and the baby, then why not try and see if you can accept them?

If your husband doesn't love you anymore, then you have nothing to be nostalgic about, this marriage will definitely divorce, if you don't leave, your husband will also want to start a new life, and he will call you a divorce.

The problem is the child, you are afraid that the child will stay with her husband, and the stepmother will not be good for the child, then you can only take it yourself, no matter how bad the conditions are, you have to bring it yourself, after all, it is your own child, and staying with others is also a thought, and I don't feel at ease.

Try to fight for the custody of your child Try to create good conditions for your child.

As for the issue of getting divorced and finding another man, I want to say that no matter whether this man is married or not, as long as he truly loves you and you love him, he will not dislike you because you are divorced and have children.

If you know a man who gives up on being with you because of that, it proves that this man doesn't belong to you, and you don't have to feel sorry for a man who doesn't belong to you.

It's like getting divorced, you can go ahead and start over and find a guy who really loves you.

I wish you happiness.

If you have children, don't think about divorce easily, don't make a decision if you are angry, let it go, and think twice.

Eight months old, even if you don't want to bring it, the court will award it to the mother, and it's still a girl.

<>First of all, excessive freedom has led to a high divorce rate. According to incomplete statistics from the civil affairs department, last year there were 10,000 couples divorced across the country, and the divorce rate surpassed that of Japan to become the highest in the world, while Shanghai's divorce rate ranked second in the country for two consecutive years. The increase in the divorce rate will be an important hidden danger to social stability.

Many people receive education that is mostly to pursue careers, and there is a serious lack of education on the ability to maintain harmony in marriage and family life. In the course of 30 years of reform and opening up, the re-division of labor between men and women in the family has not really been completed, the balance between family and career has been problematic, the obligations of love and family have been confused, and the personal self-consciousness has been highly inflated, all of which have led to the deterioration of marital relations. And the current chaos in the relationship between men and women is also a reef for marriage and family.

Secondly, the materialization trend of love is getting stronger and stronger, and the foundation of marriage has become sour. The first marriage law, implemented in 1950, explicitly prohibited the bride price, the sale and purchase of marriages, and the state confiscated the dowry if there was a dowry. In 1981, the new Marriage Law came into effect, and if you accept a dowry, you can return it after divorce.

In 2001, the new Marriage Law was amended, continuing the previous policy. "However, now, marriage has changed from being 'based on feelings' to being 'based on property', and the premise of marriage has changed to material demand. A large number of marriage cases accepted by the courts are inseparable from the division of property.

The phenomenon of divorce leading to poverty occurs from time to time, and it is not sensational to divorce a marriage and take off a layer of skin. ”

Third, the problem of "snatching love" between two parents or one parent and interfering in children's marriage is becoming more and more prominent. In the divorce cases accepted by the First Intermediate People's Court, more than a quarter of the parties are "post-80s". The "post-80s" have just started their marriage journey, and they have encountered a crisis of trust between husband and wife, family members cannot get along, money and housework management is chaotic, various contradictions and frictions are constantly there, and the parents' overprotection of their children has piled up all the problems into two words in the end

Divorce. It is often seen that the divorce case is **, the six parties appear in court, the children are all here to 'enjoy the coolness', and the two fathers are mostly silent, but the two mothers will always chatter and accuse each other. Zhou xx said.

Fourth, there is a lack of social responsibility. The rise in the divorce rate is a huge hidden danger to social stability. The stability of the country needs the stability of tens of millions of families as support, and the cultivation of national talents is premised on the assumption of family responsibilities.

Nowadays, the family continues to organize and integrate, there are a large number of identities such as legitimate children, illegitimate children, step-siblings, left-behind children, etc., and the personalities of children growing up in different environments have obvious differences, and this generation will be the builders of the country and society, and their character and ability will affect the development of the future society.

Emotional contact, rational love, and confused marriage, these 12 words are given to all those who have entered marriage and are about to enter marriage. In fact, life is very short, just be simple, plain, and happy.

Summary. Well, it means that he senses that you actually have a higher need.

He said that I like to chew words and always like to let go of one thing Asked over and over again He was annoyed The last time they separated, in fact, the two people didn't say to break up I said something not very good, "You can't give me anything except to do splitting love" He was busy replying to me, "You are right, what you said is right, stay away from me" and we haven't been in touch for more than a month, and then his friend invited us to dinner, and we sat together again, and he didn't speak the whole time, and his friend called me after the meal, and said that his friend knew everything between me and him At that time, when we were still together, he said to his friend, "She seems to be separating with me," and she meant me.

Well, it means that he senses that you actually have a higher need.

You need to have a love that is unique, not shared.

This thing is deep in your heart, even if you don't admit it, he can still feel it.

So, he also thinks that you don't want to go on like this with him.

In his opinion, if you don't let go now, you can't let go of it for the time being.

You've been together for so long, and he really didn't give you anything, right?

No name, no points, no integrity, no children, no family.

I feel like you're telling the truth, and he's messing up.

I feel that you are particularly uncomfortable today, and a real sense of broken love has come out.

Isn't it? Before he broke up with me the year before last, he was very good to me, and I could see that he was obsessed with me, and a person who likes to be hungry and happy doesn't like to feel it, and I have been wondering what I did wrong, and he was going to break up with me, until a few days ago, he admitted that because the child came, I hated the child and his wife.

My dear, the angle of his wife and children is very normal.

Right. Yes, I said, if I had known him earlier, I probably wouldn't have been like this, and he said that if he hadn't gotten married, I might have been with him, but the truth was in front of him, he couldn't get married, and he said that if he didn't have a family, he would be responsible for the child.

Well, yes. So after all, there is no way to really be responsible for you.

During the period before and after pregnancy, I sent him a WeChat message every day, and there were two people, left and right, and often quarreled and talked excitedly, I always threatened him, and I also did radical behavior, and it has become like this now.

We don't need to blame ourselves.

You are inherently insecure in this relationship.

This feeling of yours will lead you to some radical actions and words.

When we clearly realize that he can't give the emotion we want, and we don't want to share it with others, let's just let it go, and only then will we have the opportunity to meet you in the future.

Summary. Good morning, sister, did he reply to you yesterday? <>

Good morning, sister, did he reply to you yesterday? <>

Hello Teacher! Yesterday the time was up, and then there was no reply! Yesterday, my boyfriend hadn't been to the hotel yet.,When I got to the hotel, I came back with a message.,Send the hotel location.,I sent him some letters to be cautious.,Take a screenshot of the teacher to help me see.,I haven't replied to him this morning.,I haven't replied to him this morning.......

Okay, I'll take a look.

Sister, he should be such a matchmaker, not hot and cold, but with such a personality, when he is free, he likes to say a few more words, and when he is not free, he can not even say a word, and there are many men who are such a pie town.

Teacher! I accidentally deleted a ** just now.,I don't know if you can see it.,If you don't have it there.,I'm sending it.。

What women want is to be accompanied all the time, but men generally meet more casually and take a little bit back, how to come, he doesn't love you, he just doesn't understand you enough, he thinks love is just simple sweet words and send something from time to time, and girls usually care more about companionship, even if they are not around, they can often chat and accompany.

You sent three **s, right? I've received them all.