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It's just that you feel lonely, and a lot of people live more and more exciting. Because of motivation, because of optimism, and so on.
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A person's life is the process of escaping loneliness, but loneliness is not loneliness, but a feeling formed by the outside world, which does not come from the heart, because loneliness is not loneliness. He is an opposition, an aversion to the noise, an emotionless word, because there is no other distraction, so we feel lonely. Loneliness:
It is such an invisible thing, lingering, calling will not come, but when your mind is unobstructed, it quietly comes, invades your heart, you can't hide from it, you can't avoid it, when it comes, it repeatedly occupies your heart, and you must deal with it with all your heart. Loneliness is a kind of poison, and there is no antidote to the poison Loneliness is an individual's internal feelings, which cannot be judged by the person's external performance. Loneliness is the loneliness of a person.
Loneliness is the loneliness of a group of people. If you are lonely, it is easier to do, but if you can't do it, find someone else, so that you can get rid of loneliness. But loneliness is troublesome, and you still feel the emptiness of your heart in a group of people?
So let's take a different approach. For example, read more books, listen more, and go to the mountains to bask in the sun. Don't laugh, these are helpful.
Everyone is lonely inside, but most of the time we don't think about it, or we can't think about it. If you feel that nothing is working, then you might as well see more nature and become a friend of nature. With heaven and earth as your companion, you will not be so lonely.
But the most important thing is to understand that we are our best friends. Learn to be with yourself and loneliness, and your life will be more exciting! The more you grow up, the more lonely you become, and the smaller the world becomes, which is the reason why your own thinking and experience are getting wider and wider!!
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It is to lose its goal, it is the increasingly busy life that makes itself confused, so that you gradually lose yourself in life, when your ability to deal with problems is lower than the ability of friends around you, you will feel that you are not social, you will feel more and more lonely, only by constantly enriching yourself will you not have the idea of living more and more lonely!
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It is to lose its goal, it is the increasingly busy life that makes itself confused, so that you gradually lose yourself in life, when your ability to deal with problems is lower than the ability of friends around you, you will feel that you are not social, you will feel more and more lonely, only by constantly enriching yourself will you not have the idea of living more and more lonely!
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It's just that you feel lonely, and a lot of people live more and more exciting. Because of motivation, because of optimism, and so on.
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Being is lonely, don't be afraid of being alone, this is the pure enlightenment that life gives us, it doesn't carry any meaning. If you mend the relationship with yourself, learn tolerance, and know how to respect each other's freedom, there is not much difference between two people and one person, and one person can live better than two people. If you believe it, it will be a little better, and understand that the biggest knot in the heart of a self-sufficient person is to only see the fault of others and identify himself as a victim, but the unfortunate poor person cannot see through, the victim is often self-harming, using the existence of others to harm himself, crankily thinking about the relationship is ruined, I don't know what to do.
Can you take love seriously? Let go of yourself a little bit and love yourself a little more? A person who loves himself does not allow himself to live in the shadow of self-pity and hurt is a sign of cowardice.
It is necessary to distinguish the difference between love and harm. This is true for loved ones, for lovers, and even more so for self. When you are still you and I am still me, you know how to respect and love each other, and we walk together for a period of care, which is the gift of fate, and it is too late to thank you.
When there is no fear of loneliness, there is no need to divide one person and two people, women and men, tenderness and violence, loyalty and betrayal, love and hate. The human energy is such that when you internalize the feelings and emotions that have gone bad and let yourself bear and bear it alone, sooner or later you will break down. Theoretically, people are bound to be lonely, and no one can live for you, but emotionally, if you can't find a point to rely on, you will easily collapse if you are helpless.
When the energy is exhausted, the strongest man in the world will fall. When we are tired, our energy falls to the bottom, our emotions are traumatic, we encourage negative imagination, and everything suddenly becomes gray and meaningless. You have to remind yourself:
This feeling is just an inertial circulatory circuit of cranial nerves that tend to negative reactions, not a reflection of life, don't identify with it. When the energy declines, don't hold on to it, people are lonely animals, but don't be attached to loneliness. Find an emotional point to rely on, such as a lover, such as a pet, such as yourself, like God, put it in your heart, love him, and then smile at yourself and say thank you.
Don't care whether this reliance point is real or not, people are people, and you have to rely on emotional pillars that are stronger than yourself to live. Don't mind relying on it, don't care about saving face or anything, people are originally group animals, and there is no reason and need to be lonely and clinging. Grasp a point of reliance that allows you to be centered, calm yourself, and then surpass yourself, and if you can improve, you can realize the meaning of life.
Remember.
I feel that the more and more worries are because you are carrying too many things, so why not try to lighten the burden on yourself? Throw away all your previous worries, all the things that make you unpleasant. We should smile and greet every new morning with ease, and try to change ourselves to make ourselves relaxed and happy every day!!
Really, except for the people in the mental hospital, there is really no one who is not tired alive!
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