How to educate an excellent child

1 Spend half an hour a day talking to your child.

2 Also use civilized language at home with children, such as "good morning, please, thank you, good night", etc.

3. Let children develop good habits of hygiene.

4 Listen to your child's voice! ——With patience, love, and happiness, the heart has eyes!

5 Don't always reveal your child's scars in order to remind them.

6 Seriously point out your child's mistakes!

7 Don't always be serious with your children, but laugh with them more: because laughter can make children love life more; Guide your child to look at things positively, easily and happily.

8 Be patient when telling stories to your children, as they have educational significance.

9 Don't impose on your children the ideals that you didn't realize in the past, and want them to achieve them.

10 Care for the child, but appropriate punishment at the right time is also needed, do not protect the child's shortcomings.

11 Education does not have to be just reasoning, and sometimes it is appropriate to take some strong measures.

12 Think about at least one question about your child's development every day in light of your child's performance.

13. It is very beneficial to carry out art education for children, cultivate children's elegant aesthetic taste, pay attention to guide and enrich children's perceptual understanding, and deepen children's emotional experience in nature.

14 For children in early childhood, do not allow them to live with their parents for long periods of time, as it is not conducive to education. Maybe there is no scientific reason, but it definitely applies.

15 Pay attention to nurturing kindness in your children. The ancients said: Don't take evil as small, don't take good as small.

16 Teach your children to smile, to smile at everything in life, to smile at life.

17 Do not make random wishes to your children, and do everything you can to fulfill your promises.

18 Always put yourself in their shoes! Parents should always empathize with what their children do and think, if I were a child, what would happen to me?

19 Give your child a certain amount of space and freedom, and at the same time give a certain amount of pressure and responsibility!

20 Explain to your child that he is already lovely and that he does not need to express himself.

21 Never say that a child is worse than another child.

22 Never punish a child with verbal abuse.

23 In what your child does, keep looking for something to be praised.

24 Don't scare your child. So as not to cause the child to be too timid and afraid.

25 Do not criticize and ridicule your child in public, so as not to cause psychological deformities, loss of self-confidence, etc.

26 Don't be overly your children. lest children be afraid and shy to express their own opinions, and develop a character of good and evil.

27 Don't praise your child too much. lest children develop the bad habit of "selling fame and reputation".

28 Don't suggest that your child is doing something undesirable. For example, you must fight back, don't give your own things to eat, don't buy tickets for the bus, etc.

In order to make their children better, parents will use a variety of educational methods, but in fact, the most scientific method is for parents to give their babies more company. In the process of accompanying children to grow up, children can learn more skills and knowledge, and have a better personality and are happier.

Therefore, even if you are busy every day, parents should take time to spend time with their children and participate in their children's growth, which is a better way to educate children. So, how to give your baby better companionship? Let's start with the following points.

1. Play with your child.

It is the nature of children to love to play, and preschool children, in addition to eating and sleeping every day, is playing. When playing, children can master a lot of skills, but this does not mean that children can buy enough toys, but also need parents to participate in children's games, guide children to learn skills, and develop children's brains.

2. Read with your child.

Reading plays a vital role in the all-round development of children, and by cultivating children's reading habits from an early age, children will grow up to love learning more, and have stronger learning ability and more comprehensive knowledge. For children who are not yet illiterate, picture books are the most suitable. Reading a picture book with your baby every day before bed can also enhance the parent-child relationship.

3. Exercise with children.

Life lies in sports, and children who love sports are healthier and smarter. Accompany your child to participate in outdoor sports, running, playing football, ......As long as mom and dad are around, children are particularly motivated no matter what they do. However, exercise should also be moderate, and it is important to ensure the safety of your child.

4. Watch movies with your children.

Children live in the age of electronics, and it is impossible for children to completely stay away from electronic products, and through these electronic products, children can also get in touch with new worlds that they usually can't touch, and expand their knowledge. Therefore, since it is inevitable, it is better to watch it with your child and choose more meaningful programs so that your child can acquire more beneficial knowledge. However, the time of watching the movie must be controlled, and the child's eyes must not be harmed.

The company of parents is to give children the best love and the most scientific education, and children's growth is inseparable from the company of parents.

How to educate an excellent child, for us parents, we need to observe and discover the development and changes of the child in the process of accompanying the child before school, and adopt the education method of teaching according to aptitude and adapting measures to local conditions, so as to promote the better growth of the child. It is recommended that parents start from the following aspects to carry out all-round education and training for preschool children.

1. Grasp the education of children's sensitive periods. For example, the critical period of language sensitivity, the critical period of action sensitivity, and so on.

2. Cultivate children's good habits. For example, good living habits, good behavior habits, good study habits, and so on.

3. Help children build character, character, personality and physique.

4. Cultivate children's various interests and hobbies, especially reading hobbies. A child who truly loves to read will have an advantage in learning that most of his peers cannot match.

5. Create various opportunities for children to express themselves and build strong self-confidence.

6. Cultivate children's awareness of rules and avoid slipping into the ranks of "bear children" that everyone hates.

7. Cultivate children's awareness of self-protection. The reverence for life must be cultivated from an early age in order to protect children for a lifetime of happiness.

8. Cultivate children's hands-on ability. Children with strong hands-on skills are more likely to have a desire to explore new things.

9. Cultivate children's sense of independence. In order for preschool children to go far in their future learning careers, it is necessary to cultivate children's sense of independence and autonomy from an early age.

As every parent, I hope that my children can be independent, self-reliant, can make a difference, take responsibility, be kind and responsible, be caring, hardworking and confident, healthy and happy, and have a grateful heart.

Parents will have certain responsibilities for what kind of person their children will become in the future. The growth of children is inseparable from the words and deeds of their parents. How to teach children to have a correct understanding of life outlook and values.

Teach children how to behave, how to behave in principle, and how to be a capable, responsible, ambitious, and upright hot-blooded man.

What will happen to the child in the future depends on his own personality, on the habits he has developed since childhood, and the education he has received is inextricably linked.

As a parent, I will definitely hope that my children will be happy ordinary people, have their own ideals, and do the work they like to do. Let the child become the person he wants to be, and he can have a healthy and happy life.

In fact, for every parent, they want to be able to educate their children very well in life, because this is also a successful aspect for themselves. So for yourself, if you want to raise your child to be an excellent child, you need to lead by example in life. There are many parents who usually don't notice this themselves, and they think that what kind of person their children should raise is just strict discipline for their children.

You need to communicate with your child.

And in life, they themselves will not let themselves be a role model for their children, but this will cause children to be very unbalanced. They will feel that their parents have not done it, so why should they do it themselves? Therefore, when encountering such situations, I need to fully understand what kind of mentality the child is in in his heart, which is also an aspect that can help me and the child communicate and communicate effectively.

Set an example for your child.

There are some parents who are always busy with work, so they can't take care of their children, and there will be some gaps in their children's hearts at this time. We need to take some time out to help the child, and have an effective communication and conversation with the child, and try to take the child for a walk outside, so as to enhance the relationship between parents and children。If we blindly work ourselves, it will only make the child feel that he is a meaningless existence at home, which will hurt the child's self-esteem.

And it is also undesirable for the development process of the child's growth. Every parent hopes that their child can grow up to be a very powerful person, and can have some plans in their own life, but for such children, their own minds are not mature at all. It is necessary to get along with the child as a friend, to understand what kind of state the child is in, and this will also help shape some of the child's own personality.

If you want to cultivate an excellent child, you must combine some actual situations at that time, and then you must respect the child, and then cultivate the child's brain, and cultivate some principles of the child's behavior, so that you can cultivate an excellent child.

Parents should lead by example, and their children's every move will imitate their parents, so parents are the first teachers of their children, as long as the parents are particularly good, the children will also become very good.

Give more affirmation, not necessarily material rewards, verbal praise is the strongest. Don't criticize and blame children when they do wrong things, just don't affirm the wrong things.