In order to rebel against his parents, marry a poor boy

<> his family is poor and can't afford to buy a wedding house, he and I can only rent a 50-square-meter house. At the beginning, I just wanted to explain to the elders so that they would stop nagging. But it wasn't until we actually lived together that I realized how wrong my decision was.

He doesn't have a job, he doesn't want to do heavy work, and he doesn't have the ability to do technical work. We lived almost off the money my mom left me when we got married, and sometimes we would go to his aunt's house for dinner.

In order to take revenge on my parents, I put my future in the hands of such a responsible man, and I regret it. But now that I'm pregnant, I certainly don't want my child to be born without a father. Can anyone give me some advice on how to improve my married life?

<>I once had a beautiful love affair that lasted for seven years, but was finally broken up by my parents. Later, in order to be angry with my parents, I married my current husband. back then, willfully pushed happiness out of the door, and now there is no chance to redeem the mistake.

I had a boyfriend in college who was my classmate. We often organized class activities together, so we grew acquainted with each other, and then we came together naturally. When we first started in love, we were together almost every day, sometimes we would quarrel, and we would break up, and in the end we would get along as before.

At that time, we said that we would get a license to get married as soon as we graduated, but later my mother found out and firmly disagreed, thinking that we were too ignorant and too impulsive. Later, when my boyfriend found out, his self-esteem couldn't stand it and he insisted on breaking up with me.

I haven't been home since, and I haven't even forgiven my mom for a long time. Since then, I have never talked about my boyfriend again, and when I reached the marriageable age, my parents were anxious, and they never stopped me from emotionally speaking. Later, a friend happened to be chasing me, and I didn't hate it, so I impulsively dragged him to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get the marriage certificate.

Both parents want their children to live happily, but if your daughter sees poor children and is ready to talk about the theory of marriage, will you disagree and prevent them from getting married? Or what do you think of this kind of problem?

Poverty doesn't matter. The key depends on the causes of poverty. If you are lazy and complain all day long, your family has no vitality, you better not agree to your daughter marrying him. If the other parent's parents love each other, the family is harmonious, and the young person is self-motivated.

That's a lot of support too. Give young people a chance, or your daughter will miss out on her husband once. Poverty has three characteristics, the first is low IQ, self-righteousness, the most feared is not to make progress, the second is laziness, and finally disease. Poor couple Pepsi.

Alas, this time it must be ugly. Otherwise you will hurt your daughter for the rest of your life.

of immersion. She'll regret it then. Of course, it is not absolute, but marrying someone who has no money in love will also be happy in the end, but it is really too little.

Don't say it, I'm too tired. It is my advice to you as someone who has come before. I now pamper my daughter like a jewel in my palm and I don't want her to marry into a poor family in the future.

At least go from house to house in any case. Otherwise, if you are not on the same channel, life will not be good. I didn't expect my daughter to cry every day and run to her parents' house to complain about how much her mother-in-law's family suffered.

A lot of people have double standards.

If you have a daughter and a son, when your daughter gets married, you want someone else to have a car and a house, and ask for a high bride price.

Also, when your son marries a daughter-in-law, he hopes that people will not be so powerful, that they will not be so high, that they will not ask for their own houses, cars, and bride prices. I'm sure a lot of people are like that.

I'm also a dad and I have a daughter. I think a father's love is like a mountain, and for a father, the son-in-law is personally selected by the daughter, and the daughter is happy. Don't interfere too much, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, and many people are blindly worried.

As long as the other party loves my daughter, I can give it to you if I don't have money.

I want my daughter to marry love. But I will try to teach her to love those who deserve to be loved and to love the right people. Of course, from a mother's point of view, the best is the Wen family, who has good character, literacy, enterprising, good temper, and a good outlook.

But I've done it. I want my kids to do the same.

My daughter is only 12 years old now, but she is already very good-looking, and she is a standard beauty. Of course, I hope that she will marry a rich man who is good to her in the future. But if she insists on choosing the poor, I'm afraid I won't be able to stop her.

Now she won't listen to her if she doesn't eat sugar, let alone later. My parents now regret wanting to hit the wall. It won't try to stop me, and it will get me married to a poor child.

Thinking that he would get a bonus, his family was not only poor, but also poorer in thought, and he did not progress at all, and wanted my parents to support his son's investment career all day long. My parents now regret their death, saying that if it had stopped desperately, it wouldn't be where it is now.

In fact, in my opinion, it is not necessary to try to stop it, because the daughter has her own ideas, has what she wants to pursue, and the duty of parents is to patiently tell the consequences to the daughter.

It should be stopped, because this poor boy may not give his daughter happiness, and in the process of life, he may also let his daughter be wronged.

As a parent, you should stop it, if your daughter marries a poor boy, her daughter's life will become worse and worse in the future, and her parents will be distressed.

I think parents should have a comprehensive understanding of this man, character is the most important thing, followed by self-motivation. In short, it is still necessary to respect the daughter's decision, and the parents can only give advice.

Tell your parents why you chose him! Being poor now doesn't mean you'll be poor in the future, because you see his potential!

What is the key to the so-called poor standard? How much is the difference between the socks and your family?

The main thing is character, whether the two of you have a positive outlook and are physically and mentally healthy.

Filial piety to parents, hard work and family. This is the main thing. It's dry.

Why did you marry yourself so hastily, what I told her at the time was that I recognized him as a person, as long as the person can, it doesn't matter if he has money or not.

Such a girl, although her life is usually difficult, she feels very happy, and after the efforts of two people, her life will generally become better.

It is most appropriate to describe the poor couple Pepsi mourning, because he is poor, so the girl has to follow him to boil, although it will be very affectionate, but desolation is unavoidable.

It feels very bleak, many girls regret it, it's really unrealistic to have love and no material life, life is too difficult.

It's okay. Although life is relatively poor, there is love. No matter how poor that poor boy is, he will not be poor for his daughter-in-law.

What else can I do! Complaining when you are poor may not be bad for you, after all, it is not easy to find a woman to accompany you to live a poor life! If you are lucky enough to become rich, hehe, just wait to be abandoned, and when you have money, you will have more choices! You're just the only option he had when he ran out of money!

My neighbor is such a young couple, they got married despite the opposition of their parents, and the boy's family is very poor, and now they quarrel every day because of all kinds of trivial matters.

First of all, there are no regrets about marrying the person you like, but poor people are also human beings, and as long as they have the opportunity, they will make mistakes. And the poor boy suffers"Poor constraints, just few choices, maybe his love is not pure.

It's a very bad life, because my parents are from the past, he doesn't want us to worry about firewood, rice, oil and salt every day like them, everything my parents do is for our good, we should be considerate of her feelings.

It's been a tiring time! After all, the poor boy finally counterattacked through hard work to become rich and handsome, which only exists on TV, and in reality, most of them are still maintaining the status quo, or slightly better than the beginning, and the girl has to work hard together after she gets married.

I really think that marrying him is what I call a poverty alleviation marriage, I thought he was a potential stock at the beginning, but it turned out that he was a garbage stock, his ability was not long, his temper was long, and I regretted it after seven years of marriage, and endured it for the sake of the child, so I persuaded the sisters to keep their eyes open when marrying a poor boy, and there is still a certain reason for the door.

When I got married, I had no house or car, more than 200,000 foreign debts (only after marriage) my father-in-law had Alzheimer's disease, my mother-in-law had a stroke, I thought he was a potential stock, the basic salary was 10,000 plus commission, I knew him on a blind date, I didn't feel anything about him, I was forced to marry by my family when I was older, and now it's a nightmare, filial piety is foolishness, I insist on going my own way, I don't consider the feelings of others, I am too tired to live with this kind of person, and I am like a thief in the economy, and I am patriarchal and disgusted with my daughter. Sometimes I want to chop him.

I lived a good life, and it turned out that my choice was right, and people around me said that I had found a dark horse, and I was also approved by my parents. I think that as long as a person has a good character, is good enough, and is willing to struggle and endure hardships, then he will not be poor all the time!

My daughter is married far away, the man's family conditions are not good, the family was against it at the beginning, and now I regret it, the two children said that they want to divorce, I said that you paid the price for the original impulse, and it was a piece of for me to swallow.

It's not good, I have repaid foreign debts for eight years, if a family wants to live a good life by their own efforts, it is not very realistic, I meet a mother-in-law who swears to gamble, I feel very unlucky, I will only keep begging for money here in us, from marriage to having children never help, only bragging outside, my father-in-law got cancer after less than two years of marriage, I spent all my savings not to mention that I still owe foreign debts, my mother-in-law and father-in-law never saved a penny, after my father-in-law died, my mother-in-law begged for money in us for various reasons, If you don't give it, you will cry and make trouble and hang yourself, the family is not restless, the rest of the money for the past three years is basically finished by her, last year I quarreled and felt too tired, I used to have a husband who could bear the face, I wanted to divorce, the family didn't feel like home at all, I didn't look dirty everywhere, and the child's growth environment was not good, I went out to rent a house, regretted not listening to the family, sometimes the family was poor for no reason, and the husband didn't give power, as long as the mother-in-law reached out to ask for money, no matter what way to give the root not to consider for our family, The work on the construction site is already hard, and we have to rely on ourselves to buy a house or anything. I regret my choice