When you are physiologically mature, will you be pushed into the blind date market by your parents?

No, it's just that some parents are in a hurry. Finding a husband and marrying a wife is a lifelong thing, and you can't be sloppy!

Then be more mature in behavior, isn't it OK

This has to do with many aspects, such as the family environment, parents' ideology, etc. Personally, I don't think the way to go on a blind date is very good, if you can, expand your social circle and meet some excellent people of the opposite sex. But make sure you want to be screened and know what you want.

If you don't plan to fall in love yet, focus on your career or some meaningful things, and build your life first. If you have been struggling with this issue, it means that it is not yet time to go on a blind date, because the psychology is not yet mature.

Probably not, right? Unless some parents are particularly eager to hold their grandchildren.

Then be more mature in behavior, isn't it OK

No, it's just that some parents are in a hurry. Finding a husband and marrying a wife is a lifelong thing, and you can't be sloppy!

You and I face the same problem, the same 8 years older, his parents also let him go on a blind date, and now I am also struggling with what to do, I plan to break up, but I always can't make up my mind, see what the man does!

23 can't get married yet, then it's not kind for you to drag the other party to 31, not everyone has the capital to talk about a fruitless love at every stage of life, you can't give others what they want, just let it go, this is love or tolerance or Shenma, you can slowly make up for yourself after breaking up.

I'm 24, my boyfriend is 31, and we're ready to get married. Yes, we feel that we are still young, there is no need to get married so early, but those over 30 years old can't afford to hurt, and it is very insecure to fall in love with girls who are so much younger than themselves, because we are not as qualitatively mature as them, if we don't really decide it, or divide it, we have been talking for almost two years, and in the process of getting along, you will find that your values are still different, if you want to get married, you have to accept each other's shortcomings, living habits, etc., I hope you will think clearly.

Let it be, it's you who can't grab it, it's not that you can't run, let time decide, if he really loves you, even if he is forced by his parents to go on a blind date, it's useless, just happy parents, otherwise, you leave him quickly!

This is possible to turn out, blind date is such a humiliating thing, you have to believe in yourself, you have to believe that love can overcome everything, but human nature is good, age is not a problem, marriage for love is not important sooner or later, most men have to be over 25 years old to start sensible, do you like unreliable little boys?

There is no age limit for love. Break the feudal mentality. Decide your own fate.

As long as it is true love, I believe that through your efforts, your parents will agree. Don't go to extremes. Because you are given by your parents, you also have to consider the feelings of your parents!

Wishing you all happiness!

This is understandable, there is a place to get married is very late, if we are 23 it is normal, you should be a place to get married very late, but men are 31 really can't wait, if it is true love, why do you care about the eyes of the world, for love willful once, otherwise you will regret it for a lifetime.

Happy New Year, love is selfless and great, if it is fate, you should wish your loved ones peace and happiness, and know how to let go. If he also cherishes you, he will be with you without hesitation, instead of being forced to go on a blind date, and finally wish you to find your Prince Charming as soon as possible, a happy life, a happy life.

This matter must be understood by each other, you are still young and can be delayed, but the man is not young anymore, and he can't afford to wait!When you have too many variables in the past two years, no one knows what will happen!Do you calculate that he can afford his time?

It's more normal for parents to be anxious!So you can't think about yourself, either separate or get married.

It's not just love, marriage is not a matter of two people, it is a matter of two families, let it go, you will meet better.

If he really loves you, he will wait for you, and if you love him, it's not a matter of principle, you can compromise for him, right?

He will still be able to have children by 33, so the key is whether you are suitable or not, and whether you can get along with it.

Life is between trade-offs, let it be.

You're too young to love until you die, so let it go!If he doesn't fit it, find a shoe that fits and talk about love!

First of all, we need to know what kind of attitude he has.

Love is not possession, it is making the other person happy.

The age gap is not a scar of love, only your feelings can make the relationship complete or shatter.

You're only 23, so look for a 31 admiration.

If your boyfriend loves you, he won't go on a blind date.

Your love is up to you, but face it.

Judging by his attitude, if it is true love, these are not problems.

You are not suitable to get married now, even if the two of you go on a successful blind date. You are also not of legal age to get married. When anything happens, it's you who suffers. This is related to your future work life and love. No compromises.

Antipathy to arranged marriages is one thing. You're also not suitable for a blind date right now.

You're in college right now, and you're a promising person. There is knowledge and youth. It's time to work hard.

In the future, you may find a very good job, find a lover with a city hukou, and live the life of a city person. And if you go home and get married now, your future will be ruined. The man is from your hometown.

Do you think you'll be able to stay in the city after you graduate?

It's clear that your parents are very rural-minded people, so they won't listen to you. They may think that it is normal to get married at this age, and women just change the bride price money and marry out. The man can have a little money. without thinking about your well-being.

One way to say you have a boyfriend at school. The other party has a city hukou, a company at home, and an only child, and plans to go directly to their company for an internship after you graduate. The other person's parents don't want you to go home.

If you go home, you're going to break up with the other person. Let them think for themselves. A man from the countryside, a rich second generation with education.

Which will they choose?

If they want to meet the man. Do you say that rich people can go to the countryside? People don't mind that your daughter is rural, it's already good. They plan to stay in the city after graduation. Not going back. What else can they say?

If you really can't do it, let your classmates pretend to be. Just dodge this one time. It's a big deal that you break up later. You're already doing an internship at that time.

You just have to let them know that if you stay in school, you have the capital to find a better man. They don't have to find you those rural people anymore to delay your future. That's the purpose.

Although this method is a bit extreme, is it useful for your parents' thinking that you and they put forward ideals and ambitions? And you don't have to worry that they won't give you living expenses, because you are talking about internships before you can join their company.

Don't think about going home to deal with a blind date. Since your parents have communicated with the man in advance, can your parents know about your tricks?

It's useless for you to hide outside, the men have been to your house several times. How do you know if your parents have received a bride price?Maybe the family has a banquet and waits for you to get home. What will happen to your parents if you don't come home?

Communicate more with your parents, reason with them, and tell them that you are still a student, in fact, your parents are also kind. You don't have to worry so much about marrying you off, don't say that you're still young or something, in that case, they will have n more than one example to tell you, our hometown is the same, no way, the times are different, the ideas are different, I got married once at the age of 19, and then I divorced within half a year, because I really can't communicate with each other. In the end, I didn't even see the certificate.

If you really can't do it, go for it, perfunctory. And then when you ask for your opinion, you jump into a whole bunch of other people's faults.

You can reason with your parents, you just say that I don't have a job yet, and making friends is not good for me, and after I join the work, it's not bad to find friends when I have the capital, and if they just don't agree, you can meet and deal with them.

Okay, I mean no, but I understand that my parents' orders are hard to disobey, but I can't lose my life's happiness like this, right?Remember, it's 2012, you should try to convince them, there may be that kind of tangled time, after all, parents, especially people in rural areas, will tend to get married on a blind date, as far as my family is like that, matchmaking and then ordering matchmaking, this is all a traditional concept;I don't think I'm going to do that, not going to do that. By the way, I forgot to say, I'm 17 years old, from Henan.

Anyway, I think it's certain that you don't accept it, but as for how not to accept it, you have to use the method well, hehe, right?

If you can't change the meaning of your parents, you can change the meaning of the man...It's the old routine. Or directly have a showdown with your woman and tell your thoughts, and no one can say for sure what will happen in the future.

It is your obligation to give birth to me, it is also your obligation to raise me to grow up, I am in charge of my love, I don't need to be arranged by others, my feelings are my own business, better than bad, my choice has no regrets, resolutely disagree, choose your own ideas, express my suggestions, and it depends on yourself.

Don't go home!After graduation, I will work outside and break out of the world!You are also a young man of knowledge, so don't be trapped by the shackles of the world!Think.

Marriage is your own business, and parents can only give advice. It's up to you to decide!This is not antiquity.

Resolutely talk to your parents about this, and say that some twisted melons are not sweet, do you want me to be unhappy for the rest of my life?Something like that, people now are not as simple as the people of the past, they can't be believed casually, and don't talk to anyone outside, don't talk about family affairs, be resolute, and use delaying tactics if they don't work.

。。In fact, blind dates are not a bad thing, in the rhythm of modern society, blind dates have basically become a part of our lives. (Some people may think I'm talking nonsense.,What era is it and still blind date.。。。

Then I can only say that you don't know about society) The face must be met, and both sides must save face. But blind dates are not arranged, don't mess with that. Let time dilute everything, your studies, age, plans for the future, etc. can be a reason, now is a time of peace, everything must be resolved peacefully, and do not have conflicts with your parents for this one thing.

Of course、The man is the key in this issue.。 Do you know that man???If you don't know each other, go get acquainted, if you really don't want to, communicate with the man, be reasonable, go on a blind date, it's not a big deal, that's it.

If the man really thinks that you are very good and stalking、、、 then you must understand the connection between your two families, and the situation can be judged...

I'm sure your parents won't hurt you.

Your parents are also ruthless, and they are still studying, and your family affairs are **, I have never heard of such ruthlessness in my hometown.

Find an excuse to say that you want to go to graduate school in two years, let's go back and do it Well, do it well, do it practically, I guess it's useless to say anything when you go back, "It's better not to go home".

You can go on a blind date first to meet your parents' wishesPeople have made an appointment for you, don't go, it hurts your parents' face, the elderly, you value your own face very much, you can go to have a meal with someone first, have an afternoon tea, a blind date does not mean that you have to be together, go to see each other first, and meet each other.

After that, I made it clear to my parents that I didn't want to get married so early, and I wanted to struggle for a few more years, and I wasn't in a hurryWhat you have is talent, no one wants it, you don't have to worry, you can solve your own life's problems, there is no problem, you don't need to worry, let your parents rest assured, your parents will not worry about your affairs.

Or you find something to do for your parents, so that they don't have to be idle, once they are busy, they won't care about you so much, the focus is not on you, and they won't care so much about your blind date, when they just graduated and worked for a year, my parents are like this, life is leisurely, there is nothing to do in a day, watch TV every day, play with mobile phones, very happy time, feel bored and lonely, and start looking for things.

I found out that I was not married, and now I am starting to urge marriage, and I am talking about my marriage every day, when will I bring my boyfriend back to show me, Uncle Li's child is not bad, do you want to go and see it together, I happened to come back this week, I look handsome, you can come back together in the future, I was told by my parents all day long, living in a world of broken thoughts.

I started to find things for them, opened a flower shop, and let the two of them take care of and run it, and now I care about the flowers and plants, and I don't have to worry about me, and I am much more relaxed.

See if you are old enough to get married, if you are still young, you can communicate with your parents well, if you are not young, you should consider considering the mood of your parents! But the hearts of parents all over the world, parents are like this, working hard for their children, so they have so much responsibility and hope for their children because of love, if you don't have a suitable reason, then you should be a filial child!