Is a 14 year old girl crying or furious over trivial things a mental illness or a normal part of pub

Hello subject! From your description, I can understand your sadness and overwhelm, and I can also feel your desire to change the status quo. I hope my analysis can answer your questions. Then I also provide some appropriate suggestions for the subject, I hope it can help you

First, a concept that needs to be passed on to the subject first is:

Whether we have mental illness or not is not determined by ourselves or on the Internet, but by finding a professional doctor or psychological counselor for diagnosis and analysis. So don't jump to conclusions

Second, it is very normal for "crying like a dog because of a little thing, and being angry and unable to control your emotions because of a little thing".

Most adults still can't have a good control of their emotions and have a proper way to vent based on their experience or age. What's more, the subject is only a 14-year-old minor, so you don't have to force yourself to control it, but after venting it, it will be more conducive to your physical and mental development. But if the way of venting is not right, it is easy to cause irreversible damage, and here we also provide some appropriate ways to vent to the subject, such as boxing, a day trip to the amusement park, or a warm psychological counseling

3. Don't care too much about what others say

Why do you think so much about making up for other people's words that hate you, or talking about things behind your back? Is it useful to think so much? What's the use of thinking in the brain all the time?

Can anything change? It only adds to the annoyance and anxiety, doesn't it? Change your habit of overthinking within a limited range, give yourself positive hints, and believe that you will definitely be able to!

Is there any substantial interference with other people's perceptions? Or should you affect yourself because of this? Do they matter?

Empatheticly, for the people around you, will you always pay attention to some of their practices? Will you secretly look down on him? Obviously not right?

So what you think is only what you think, what's more, these people are not the important and main people in your life, even if we meet important people, then what we have to do is to take care of ourselves first, and then interact with others on the premise of ensuring ourselves!

Fourth, it is also relatively necessary to think about the value of life, or simply put, what is the purpose of living.

Without thinking, how can you understand the meaning of your life? Or where is the happiness found? We can't always be pushed forward by adults, but we have to take the initiative to think, have our own ideas, and be independent.

Then the reason why the subject will feel that he is worthless is because when you are in the mood, your weaknesses are magnified. And at the same time, your strengths will be completely ignored by yourself. Naturally, you won't be able to appreciate your own value, so don't think too much about it when you're emotional

In short, the subject always has some doubts about himself, which is also the process of discovering himself. Find the right way, actively strive for, you will definitely become a better version of yourself! Best wishes!

It is a normal phenomenon of puberty, and children are generally more irritable during adolescence and will enter a rebellious period.

I think it belongs to the normal phenomenon of adolescence, and adolescent children are not emotionally stable and moody, so they will always cry because of small things, and parents should guide them in time.

I think it's probably a mental phenomenon, for a 14-year-old girl shouldn't always be like this, crying all the time, it's very incomprehensible.