Is there something mentally wrong with my son who often quarrels with his parents after returning ho

It's not a mental problem, it's a communication problem, it's the child who has received a new education, and is not adapting to the concept of parents, so there will be a gap, communicate well, and there will be no generation gap. Finish.

The son often quarrels with his parents, and he has to see why, because of some substantive problems, such as seeing that the son is more rebellious, such a problem, then it is not a mental illness, if there is a hallucination, or something inconsequential, then you have to pay attention.

No, this needs to look at the content of the quarrel, if the quarrel is mental illness, then there are more people who quarrel, and it is impossible for them to be all mentally ill, it is possible that the lifestyle is different, and the parents want to take care of it, always saying that the child can't stand it, and it becomes a quarrel.

I think that the child was originally a very well-behaved child and always listened to his parents. However, due to the high learning pressure in primary and secondary schools, parents always only focus on their children's learning, resulting in children hardly playing with other children, let alone deeper interactions. As a result, children do not know how to interact with others.

Although the child also racked his brains to get along with his classmates, the difficulties in interpersonal communication have never been resolved, and there is even a possibility that he may be isolated by his classmates. This makes the child feel helpless, and he can't help but become hostile when he interacts with anyone. Over time, it becomes this state of anxiety, and the emotion becomes more and more serious.

This is indeed a mental problem, and you should find a better psychologist to help the child solve this problem.

Children, have you heard the mantra of "two people don't need to be persuaded to fight, put down the table and eat", in fact, parents quarrel is really like this, you don't need to persuade, fight at night, the next day will be fine, do you believe it? If you get involved, "try your best" and "can't persuade you" This is inevitable, the more you persuade, the more "escalate", so, your parents quarrel, you go back to your own house, do whatever you have to do, just ignore it, don't ask, don't look, don't mix.

The old man told you that there is no husband and wife who live together without quarreling, quarrels are common, but the quarrel is over, and no one holds a grudge against anyone. From a scientific point of view, husband and wife quarrels are the release of depression in the heart, the natural adjustment of psychology, and the way to sublimate the relationship between husband and wife, that is, husband and wife quarrels make the relationship between husband and wife more harmonious and more loving, maybe you don't believe it, but as long as you carefully observe the performance of your parents after quarrelling, you will understand.

It should make sense that an elderly couple in a platinum wedding (70 years of marriage) said something shocking when they introduced their experience of longevity, and the reason why they lived a long life was to be noisy and noisy all their lives. I hope you don't get upset by your parents' quarrels and put your mind to studying, okay?

Children, I wish you a happy Chinese New Year!

Home, in our hearts, there is always a knot that has never been spoken. In the face of emotion, maybe you are used to going to the left, and he is used to going to the right, so you never meet. And all we can do with each other is listen to each other!

I don't know when I started, I can't be spoiled by my dad like I did when I was a child. Every time I came back from school, the regular greetings between us had been frozen, and it was really like a copy on the computer, and I was a little sad, why did it become like this? I began to blame him in my heart, whether it was too serious.

That day, chatting with my classmates, I unknowingly went to my house, and one of them suddenly said, "Xiaoman, your father is amazing!" "I was stunned, since I was a child, my father's image in my heart is very ordinary, but there is more silence than other people's parents, and the others are the same as all parents in the world, giving what they should pay, this is their responsibility.

But at this time, I feel how selfish and shameful this thought of mine is. My mother used to say, "If it weren't for you studying, I would be able to sit at home and enjoy myself now."

Every time my mom said that, I would look at the look on my dad's face, and he was silent, but I knew that if he did, it would be "as long as they were promising." It will be so, I am sure. This Spring Festival.

I came back a little earlier than my dad. I was sitting in my room watching TV, and when I heard my dad coming back, I went out to say hello to him. When I saw him, I felt a little sour in my nose.

The way he looked - pushing a bicycle that had been with him for 20 years, wearing liberation shoes that I only wore when I was a kid, no socks, and a little long hair without ,..

If you can't persuade you, and you can't mediate, then don't talk too much, lest they quarrel with you, good luck!

If you can't persuade it, forget it, my parents often quarrel, I can't persuade it, every time it's my father's fault, my mother forgives every time, because there are still two underage children, but my father doesn't care at all, every time he thinks he's right, every time my father makes a fuss about leaving, my mother keeps him, and after a few days it's okay, it's okay again, it's okay again, now I don't want to care, live one day at a time, live to be happy.

Right. It's really frustrating for us, yes

We try to be tolerant and tolerant

With all due respect、What religion are you looking for、Hehe、

Play a mediating role in the middle as much as possible, if it's not very serious, let them go, maybe this is a way for them to get along.