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Just thinking about staying at home comfortably, not wanting to go out to work, this kind of behavior is extremely lazy, and this person is particularly unmotivated.
If you just want to stay at home and enjoy yourself without thinking about the future, then this person will definitely have no future. You can find a friend or two to go out and work with. This will also overcome your laziness, and after all, you won't feel bored with friends. <>
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In fact, everyone can understand that after being comfortable at home for too long, we don't want to go out to work in other places, which is normal, but we must face ourselves, as a person, we must work hard, and we must create our own world, so as not to be in vain. First of all, you must have this kind of awareness in your own mind, and I think you can overcome this mentality. <>
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If you want to overcome the comfort at home for too long, you don't want to go to work in the field, so the emotion has to start from the root, once you graduate from college, you have to go to work, you can't stay at home, so you will develop inertia, parents feel that their children are also hard, after all, they are also young, there is no need to go to work in the field, in fact, this approach is wrong, so parents should also face up to this concept of employment.
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If you always want to stay at home and don't work outside, I suggest you do micro-business, because the profession of micro-business can only be done at home through a computer or mobile phone, and you don't need to go out of town, and you don't need to contact people you don't like, you only need to control the keyboard to complete the work, and you can also make money, which is a very good choice.
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In fact, I also have this mentality, because it is very comfortable to stay at home, my parents cook, and no one cares, I can play with my mobile phone by myself. It's like you don't want to go to school. But you also have to think about it, on the other hand, you can go out to meet more new people and broaden your horizons, which is also a very good way to make friends.
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You have to think about your parents, your parents worked hard for you to go to college, and now that you graduate, you have to go out and find a job to repay them, if you stay at home and only know how to be comfortable and happy, then their expectations of you will be disappointed, which will only make them more disappointed in you.
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My brother used to be like this, he stayed at home after graduating from college, and he felt so comfortable at home that he didn't want to work in other places. There are two reasons, the first is that it is too far away, and sometimes I feel that the second reason is that he feels that he has the protection of his family, so it is okay for him not to go out to work, and then under my mother's coercive policy, he went out to work in other places, and now he finally let his life go on a regular basis.
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Actually, I was like this before, and I went home shortly after I quit my job. It was very comfortable to stay at home for a while, and I didn't have to face so much pressure every day, and I didn't have to face so many colleagues and leaders, which was quite comfortable, but over time, I found that I didn't want to work in the field anymore, and I felt terrible with such thoughts, and then I forced myself to pack my bags and go to the field to find a job.
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You should tell yourself that now that you have stepped into society, you should have this income of your own, so that you can live the life you want.
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Go out and see the outside world more often, but also look at other people's lives, so that you will not be so negative, and you can also find a fresh number to learn. In this way, you can adjust yourself.
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At this time, you can choose to study, exercise, and the most important thing is to adjust your state and mood, you should get in touch with nature, and you can also choose to travel.
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Disperse the pressure.
If possible, the work is divided or delegated to reduce the intensity of the work. Don't get bogged down in a terrible quagmire of thinking you're the only one who can do the job.
If so, your colleagues and boss will feel the same way, and they will add as much work as they can to you. In this way, the intensity of your work will be greatly increased.
Don't take your work as everything.
When your brain thinks about work all day long, work stress is formed. Be sure to balance your life. Set aside some time for family, friends, hobbies, etc., and most importantly, entertainment, which is a great way to deal with stress.
Put the pressure aside for a while.
Take a break and get some fresh air. Taking a few short breaks throughout the day, taking deep breaths and getting some fresh air can relax your brain and prevent stressful emotions from forming. Don't let stress develop, don't let this emotion escalate into overwhelming work pressure at the end of the day, do it from time to time to take a deep breath to relieve stress.
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Fall more with friends and colleagues, and go out to play with your heart.
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Relax and don't take it too seriously.
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Take a deep breath and imagine wonderful things.
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