The married woman does not accompany anything, and asks for too much 15

That's it for 10,000 yuan, are you a man? What face is not face? Childish.

What's wrong with the woman not accompanying things, people have raised so many daughters, what is it to order something?The feelings are in place, whoever has the money will pay, and if it is powerful, it will contribute, this is a matter of weight, cut!

I am also married, and my home is given to his parents. Let's just say that my family doesn't have any conditions, and I don't want anything. My parents doted on me (my husband and I bought the house with a mortgage, and the down payment was helped by both parents, but we asked our family for it because we had only worked for 2 years).

His parents said they should have some of this kind of etiquette. Although my husband and I are both from Sichuan, our home is far away. His parents work in a city, but his relatives and his grandparents are in their hometown, and his hometown is rural, so it takes 3 days to do the work, which is more troublesome, so his parents unanimously decided not to do it at his side (he is an only child).

My family has to do it, and his relatives have to come to my house. All the money is borne by our family, and his parents originally said that they were going to give my parents red envelopes, but my parents felt that they were not selling women, (this idea may not be right, but my parents will feel uncomfortable receiving money) think that as long as the two children are good, it will be fine.

In the end, his parents gave me and my husband a big red envelope (basically the money for the bride price).

But I think it's very good to do this, first of all, my parents won't be embarrassed, and then his parents feel better. And I'm very impressed. I think his parents are treating me like their own child.

Your matter, my opinion is, I know that you may feel uncomfortable in your heart, after all, in this era, it is not the profession and tradition of the past, you may think that marriage is a matter of two families, not a matter of your family. But I think the woman's family conditions are not good, maybe she will value this 10,000. Otherwise, I wouldn't have said the exact number.

First of all, you have to respect her parents' practices, after all, you have to get along for a lifetime, don't make your wife and her parents uncomfortable because of this 10,000 yuan, and then in order to consider your parents, this money will be paid by you. And you put it in the hands of her parents, and then your parents will find out, and you just say it's your idea. In this way, everyone will not be hurt and angry.

I've been to Xi'an, I still have a better understanding of the current wedding customs in your local countryside, this kind of thing must have your own opinions, now social money and feelings are often not on the same starting line, I think a total of 10,000 quick money you will be happy to admit it, if the other party is insatiable, break up, remember, the last walk together is the two of you.

What they said is right, I am also from Xi'an, when our classmates got married, his husband gave them 10,000 yuan, and he didn't accompany anything, hehe.

10,000 talents, big brother, you don't want to marry me! I'm ready for this RV, and I'm still 88,000! Three golds are outside!

That's right, your girlfriend doesn't fancy your money, right?

Support what was said upstairs!! And the harmony and the marriage tie are better than anything else.

Square peg. In modern times, many people compare having a boy to China Construction Bank, and giving birth to a girl to China Merchants Bank. In traditional Chinese thought, the man should bear most of the monetary responsibilities when he gets married in the future, so the parents of the boy should work hard to make money for his son to marry a wife from the time he was born, while the girl can sit and wait for marriage, and it is inappropriate for the woman to marry nothing.

The main things that the woman paid for are:

On the day of the wedding, the woman and her bridesmaids, the sisters' dresses, wedding shoes, styling and other expenses, some women even need to prepare the man's wedding outfit and the wedding ring for the man, the dowry prepared by the woman's parents for their daughter: quilt, meaning happy for a lifetime, dowry boxes, daily necessities, jewelry, household appliances, etc., if the woman's family conditions are good, the cost of buying a dowry is not inferior to or even more than the bride price of the man's bright travel.

If the woman doesn't do anything when she gets married, it is not appropriate to be reasonable, but these should also be decided according to their respective family circumstances. <>