My family is not in a hurry at all, my parents are not in a hurry, why am I in a hurry?

Well, you're too anxious, I got married on the 8th, went home on the 5th, and quarreled with the object, pay attention to this matter, there is a premarital phobia, but it won't be too serious, if the quarrel is bad, you have to think about it more, why! It's still going to be a lot of coaxing.

Child, you are too anxious, marriage is a great joy, take it easy, and everything will be fine. You're anxious, and others are anxious, so things seem messed up. Relax and have fun!

Uh··· I think there's something to be anxious about... You tell me... What do you want your parents to be anxious about?

Your parents' support is enough, isn't it!

And why are you arguing with your partner... I think you're weird too!

When I get married, my family is not in a hurry, they just say, it is you who get married, not us who get married, I run the wedding banquet by myself, the master of ceremonies, wedding photos, and furniture, I think they are all what I should do, I paid half of the money for the house, I am a man, I have been educated in my family since I was a child, I do my own things, I think I can cope with it, I can't let my parents worry about it. And don't quarrel with your partner, everyone has a fear of marriage.

Are you a little panicked and irritable... You have to believe that the people in the family will handle their own affairs well, even if they don't handle it well, it doesn't matter, many things are more downplayed. Life is just a game.,There's no need to take it too seriously.。。 Just make yourself happy every day.

Hello friends, as parents and elders, they are also very anxious to see that you are single as them, and they have done some very irrational and even excessive things.

There are leftover men and women in the family, parents are anxious, and children are not anxious. These parents, as soon as they get in touch with them, can't say a few words, they will mention the headache for them, that is, the children's marriage, talk for a long time, ask someone to help introduce the words, people only verbally agree. In this regard, the children unanimously believe that what they introduced is unreliable and is a waste of their precious time, in other words, they are not in a hurry, and their parents' help is purely adding to the chaos.

A man is 34 years old, returnee, master's degree, height, just came to Shanghai to work, post computer software development, all aspects of the conditions are good, suffering from no house in Shanghai, plus the salary is not high, only 300,000, like this income, want to quickly take Liang Su to buy a house in Shanghai, the pressure is indeed relatively large, he knows very well that it is difficult for him to get out of this predicament in a short time. This boy, his parents secretly chose the real person for him on the marriage platform, and he actively cooperated at the beginning, took the initiative to add other people's WeChat, and chatted happily with the girl. But I always felt that I had no house, no car, and couldn't give the girl the life she wanted, so I chatted, chatted, and stopped contacting the girl.

Later, his father helped him contact a girl in Shanghai who had a house and a car, with a poor education, only a bachelor's degree, and explained that her own house could be used as a wedding house, and there was no need to buy a house for the time being. But he thinks that he is doing a good job of living in other people's houses, he feels uncomfortable and can't hold his head up, he must buy a house first, and then find a wife to marry. Since then, no matter what information resources come from, all the girls have disappeared, and all their free time is spent on studying, preparing to change jobs in a few months, go to a bigger company, strive for a salary increase, make themselves more confident, and attract better debate resources in the marriage market.

In this regard, the parents were speechless and had nothing to say. In the final analysis, parents are anxious, but children are not anxious. In real life, many boys and girls, after experiencing one or two blind dates, will summarize the reasons for their unsuccess, think that their conditions are not good enough, give up the idea of continuing to go on a blind date, and strive silently, let themselves get a raise, be promoted, constantly improve their worth, buy a house, buy a car, and then fall in love and solve lifelong events.

Actually, this is a misunderstanding. As the age grows year by year, whether it is a boy or a girl, their own advantages are gradually declining, and the initiative is gradually lost, now is you choose life, and when everything is ready, you can only let life choose you.

Parents who do not urge marriage may be anxious, but they do not show it in front of their children. The older generation and the younger generation have agreed on how strong the hearts of parents who do not urge marriage are.

Smart parents don't urge marriage anymore, after all, meeting the wrong person is too long in a lifetime, and it is far more terrible than loneliness. Parents who don't urge marriage should be more rational and understand the meaning of marriage. Lao Xiangna Every parent loves their children, and they attach great importance to the marriage of their school-age children, and they all hope that their children can find the person who is worthy of entrusting them for life, rather than being proud of their children in front of relatives and friends because their children have completed the marriage.

No. Parents who do not urge marriage know how to respect their children's view of mate selection, and understand the truth that they would rather be lacking than excessive, rather than forcing marriage and letting the child hastily decide a lifelong event, it is better to silently wait for the advice of the elders when the child needs advice, so that the child can listen to his inner voice and find the most suitable person for himself. No matter what age you are, don't because of other people's gossip, don't because everyone else is married, don't choose a person hastily because of the expectations of the people around you, and hastily enter into marriage with him.

A low-quality marriage is never as good as a person's high-quality singleness. In the matter of marriage, there is never an age to get married, and there are only feelings that should be married.