The more you care, the more you pretend not to care, and really let go, not to block or delete, what

It has been said that the more you care, the more you pretend not to care. The more you can't put it down, the more you pretend to let it go.

That's right. We adults do have countless pretenses, and we can't escape our feelings.

The people who were placed, replied to messages in seconds, and stayed up late chatting, together with the people who were once enthusiastic, the joy of not being able to sleep late at night and the little joy of being valued, are now lying quietly on the blacklist.

Whether it's getting angry and impulsive over a trivial matter that doesn't matter, wanting to be noticeable when a dispute arises because of a conflict, or breaking off a relationship in despair because of a broken heart, it seems clear that you block or delete, it shows care and placement.

Leaving with a bang is an experiment, testing whether the other party cares as much as you do, pretending to be free to let go is just deceiving yourself, and deceiving yourself is not afraid to leave him.

In fact, you care about him very much, and you are afraid to leave him.

Blocking or deleting is just the fear of being in contact again, not wanting to humbly get into the dust, wanting to maintain the last of his dignity, resorting to powerless coercive means, or expecting positive contact from the other person, wanting to prove that he still cares about you, that he can't do without you, implementing small means.

To really let go of a person is never to block or delete, but to care but pretend not to care, and pretend to let go if you don't care.

Really let go, don't listen, be silent, be indifferent.

Whoever said it, 90% of the compounds are all domineering.

Although I know that everyone has their own beauty, and every relationship has a unique tacit understanding.

However, at the moment when the relationship ends, the person who loved you and loved you in the past no longer exists.

His beauty, the tacit understanding of your feelings, is just what you remember. Your memories are often filtered, like the fraud of a blind date to open a beautiful face, beautiful but not real.

This beauty, which is worth remembering and collecting, belongs only to the past, never to the present.

You know, stubbornly insisting on what should not be insisted on is not affectionate, but stupid stories that are free to black, delete, not because they can't give up.

However, not being able to let go is definitely not an excuse for you to repeat your domineering now. What you can't let go of is the memories of the past, the regret of breaking up and the regret of not being able to protect it, not the current him.

Whether angry or broken, desperate, you have to admit your intersection and end it at the moment when the relationship ends.

Even if you block him, delete that person, and throw away things related to him, the more you want to clarify the relationship with him in a high-profile manner, the more you care, and the more you can't give up.

True letting go is apathy.

The real letting go is indifference, blocking and deleting, but can't let go of the memories of the past, and the regret of breaking up, the more you care, the more you can't give up, the feelings are not there, that is, silent and indifferent, even if you hear about him, it doesn't matter, it's not about yourself.

I think it's really put down, it's an attitude of indifference, even if you don't block or delete, it doesn't mean anything, it just means that there is still this person in the address book.

The person who really lets go is the one who laughs even if he accidentally hears the other person's name occasionally. People who are truly relieved in their hearts look at each other and smile even if they meet each other

What really doesn't care is that you send any message, her heart will not have waves in anything, like a stranger, even if you walk in front of him, she will not look at you again.

After putting it down, he didn't have any interest in his affairs, even though he walked in front of him, there was no change in his mood. will treat everything about him very normally.

It is to show an indifferent attitude after seeing each other. I will no longer feel nervous because of any of the other party's actions.

Ignore it, really let go of doing nothing, because you feel that the other party is nothing to you, so you don't have to spend extra time and energy on the other party.

The real direction is not to delete, nor is it right to block, the real deletion is to leave this person in a small corner in my heart, and I usually don't touch it very much, and when someone encounters it occasionally, that is, I laugh at it, it's all my own past and history, and there is no other meaning.

Hello! Friend, the real letting go is indeed not deleting, nor is it blocking, but I don't care about it in my heart, and I really let go.

I think the real letting go is not to think about these things. Even if you delete and block them yourself, you have to really face some realities.

In fact, the real letting go is not deleting, nor blocking, but looking at him every day without feeling at all, this is the real direction.

Really really let go, even if you see this person, you won't have any other thoughts, it's very bland, that's giving up.

It's quiet, no greetings, no talking, you can't see or touch.

Many people's stories are like this, starting with hello and ending with goodbye!

The real letting go is not deleting, nor blocking, but not caring at all.