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All the beauty in the world originates from the encounter, but the world is unpredictable, and not everyone's story ends in eternity and beauty. Feelings are the most beautiful and touching things, but looking back, some people are deeply in love and hurt, and they are in pain. Single men and women are not scary, but once you love the wrong person, then when the parting comes, you have to spend a lot of time coming out of the shadows.
Because the love is very deep, some people can't let go of it for a long time; In order to let go as soon as possible, some people force themselves to clear that period of reminiscence. In fact, it is not too difficult to completely forget about a person, blocking and deleting does not have much practical meaning, just ensure the following three points.
When a person enters the heart, everyone also has luxury, and sometimes, the feelings are ** in the yearning for happiness. When separation comes, many people can't let go for a long time, because they are obsessed with going and can't face reality calmly. In the middle of the night, he "visited and investigated" his circle of friends and network environment, touched the scene at the former meeting place, and longed for the next meeting ...... from beginning to endIf you still have a glimmer of hope, it's hard to really look down; If you store a trace of imagination, you can't restart your life.
It is still difficult to let go of a person, because this is equivalent to denying all the investment and "detaching" the former lover from his own life. Only by maintaining a self-restraint and having a "chic and resolute" attitude can it be possible to say goodbye to the past self completely. The heart yearns for it, the body goes, accept the objective fact of parting, and start a new life from the beginning, so that you can usher in the sun in life.
What is the antonym for love? Some people say that the opposite of love must be hatred, and if you are let down by love, you will definitely have hatred. But I think the opposite of love should be forgetting.
Love is voluntary, once loved without regrets, and without talking about debts, you can forget each other. You should know that everything that intrudes into life is actually predestined, and its departure will inevitably teach you something. Hating someone because of a broken love, completely breaking your heart because of a cold heart, in the end, is a kind of self-torture.
Those who are successful must learn to let go and face gains and losses calmly. This kind of truth is actually applicable when it comes to feelings. No matter how many unwillingness there are in your heart, no matter what hatred is accumulated in your inventory, you need to learn to let go, because this process is all about rebirth.
No one's emotional road will be smooth sailing, and every parting and separation makes us more perfect and wiser.
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You don't have to have any contact with him, live your own life, constantly improve yourself, learn more, make yourself better, and make your life happier.
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Don't think about the past, don't fantasize about being reconciled with the other person, let go of hatred, don't care too much about the other person, divert your attention, improve yourself, and focus on your career.
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Don't pay attention to the other person's dynamics, don't pay attention to the other person's life, don't ask the other person what has happened recently, just do these few points.
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The vast majority of everyone who has experienced a breakup will be alone staring at their mobile phones in the dead of night, expecting that person to send you a WeChat call, and wait until you fall asleep to find out that you are busy. Maybe you will spend days and nights scrolling through his circle of friends, its Weibo and a series of other dating software to see if he has slept and see if he is alive and well in the near future.
You may also look at your WeChat chat history, and he has been gentle for a long time in his rhetoric and vows to you. But the end result is nothing better than being in the past, in the happy time you had together.
It is important to remember that the weakening of feelings is never a momentary feeling, just as leaving a person and abandoning one thing is never a sudden certainty. It's only in the process that the affection is exhausted. Exhausted of expectations, and finally gradually chilled, a certain certainty was made.
Leave immediately, whether it's a breakup or a fit for all, don't look forward to and imagine day and night.
There are many couples who like to buy drunk after breaking up, angrily accusing them of being scumbags or money worshippers, whether it is a girl or a boy, when a relationship can't come together in the end, and the two become the most familiar strangers, it is difficult to forget, and they always like to force themselves to forget him according to buying drunk.
Some people will ask what is the antonym of the favorite. Naturally, it's disgust. So what is the antonym of love?
Maybe after the breakup, there is hatred or resentment between the two of them. As long as you think of something, you will always think of that person sooner, and the hatred and resentment in your heart will be gently blown back with the wind of hunger.
Everyone always says that it is true to endure the clear sky for a while, and take a step back to open the sea and the sky. Even if something has happened, don't dwell on the past, no matter how much resentment there is between the other party, how much unwillingness, it is long in the past. Since you have chosen to leave, forget the hatred and resentment in your heart.
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Don't look forward to it day and night, don't fantasize, and then forget the hatred in your heart, look forward and welcome a new life and friends.
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You can start to cultivate some hobbies and hobbies, and then distract yourself, you can work hard, make a lot of money, and you can spend more time with your friends to go out and play with friends.
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I think in everyday life, you can go on a trip or develop a new relationship, so that you can forget about him.
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Many people's attitude after the breakup is that they don't get along with each other for the rest of their lives, and they can't wait to remove this person from every corner of their lives. But no matter how much you don't care, you will still cry secretly in the bed in the dead of night, in fact, the real giving up is silent: I don't delete your friends, I don't drag you into the blacklist, I don't delete **, you can like it when you see you doing well, even if you meet, you can come forward and say hello with a smile.
When the relationship ends, you don't have to do a lot of rituals to empty the past, you don't care, you don't care, it's a sign of forgetting.
You have to understand that forgetting is a process, not an action. Simply deleting and blocking these actions can't break your thoughts about a person.
I remember a friend saying to me: If you want to forget a person, the way is not to delete the block, don't be stupid to think that as long as you don't see the person's dynamics, you will forget the person.
Sometimes, the more deliberately you forget yourself in form, the more you can't completely let go. So, don't be stupid, to forget someone, don't delete the block.
The best way to forget someone is to invest in a new relationship and cover all the old memories. It's actually easy to rent a sedan chair, but it's really difficult to do.
You need to empty yourself and not keep an eye on that person's dynamics, and you can't sleep when you think about that person in the middle of the night, or block the other person, but you always think about the verification message that the other person might send. You have to understand that forgetting a person means that you don't care about this person, you don't care about this person, you don't have a nostalgia for this person, and you can show a light breeze about the past between you, which is called really letting go.
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When everyone partes with a love, they will be reluctant to give up, how long have two people been together. Even if there have been unpleasantness, the love between the two will not be put down. Some people still can't forget their previous term after breaking up, so they want to find the last one to get back together, but they are afraid that they are wishful thinking and will be rejected when they say it.
Actually, there is nothing to worry about, assuming that this love is not real and cannot last, can you come to the point of breaking up?
We all think that it is difficult to forget one person, just because after a quarrel, we will still miss the other party's kindness to us, but if two people are really good together, then there will be no such thing as breaking up. In fact, two people will come to the step of breaking up, which can only mean that they are not suitable for each other, so you can try to think more about what the other party is not good for you, emotions are not wishful thinking, you should correct yourself in time, and gradually learn to let go.
After a breakup, many people will always ask themselves if they are not good enough, so the other party chooses to give up the breakup, in fact, this is not the case, the relationship is a love agreement, as long as one party does not love, the other party does not need to insist. It's not that you're not good enough, it's that he doesn't deserve it, some things are destined, some people will love you, and some people will hurt you, so you shouldn't question yourself because of the breakup, you must regain yourself, create good self-confidence, and quickly get out of the haze.
After two people break up, one party will definitely be immersed in sadness and can't extricate themselves, but it doesn't mean that you will definitely not meet the right person in the future. You can try to imagine that it is very possible for everyone to get back together, but when everyone is together, whether they make mistakes again and again, they can still change for each other, and even if you can make changes, is he willing to make changes for you, if not, then you have to look forward.
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The best way to forget a person is not to delete the block and cut off the contact, but to make yourself better, until that person is completely unworthy of the current self, find a new love who is better than the ex, and be so happy that you don't want to remember the previous relationship to entangle, feel the indifference and desperation of the other party, and let yourself completely die.
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Ability to keep in touch with each other without taking the initiative to do so. Don't treat the other person like a stranger. Able to care about everything about the other person.
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It's about improving yourself, making yourself better and better, getting better and better, strengthening yourself, making yourself very attractive, finding something for yourself, keeping yourself busy, and slowly over time, you will let him go and you will forget about him.
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I rarely block my former lovers or friends, because I have a clear conscience about every relationship, every friendship. I don't need to block someone to prove my presence.
And for him in the past, I just want them to see my daily life, let him see how happy I am without him, don't let him feel good about himself, and think how much I can't live without him.
There is no one in this world who cannot live without it. The best way to treat your ex is to tell him that I'm doing well, better than when I was with you.
Qiu Yingying in "Ode to Joy", after being hurt by Ying Diligence, the two broke up. Qiu Yingying still kept a close eye on Ying Qin, focusing on analyzing every one of his movements.
Later, after Guan Guan helped her block Yingqin, she became even more restless, and even had the urge to add him back a hundred times in her heart, even thinking about what he was doing when she went to work, and even thought of "blocking him, in case he wants to find me, there will be no chance." ”
However, the other party had already gone home on a blind date and got engaged.
On the contrary, when comparing his fiancée and Qiu Yingying at the end, he thought about adding Qiu Yingying. But if you add it back again, it will be a secondary injury to the girl.
Therefore, it is futile to try to forget a person in such a way as blocking. Don't use the way of blackmailing, let the person who hasn't let go of his heart torture you repeatedly.
My friend said to me that blocking is a stupid thing, blocking a person you love for a day, you have to think about him adding you 10,000 times in your mind, but if he doesn't add it, it will be even more frustrating than if he doesn't send messages.
If you are not careful, you block a drama spirit, then you will jump into the Yellow River and you will not be able to wash it. Don't try to test love by blacking out, it's very likely that you won't be able to pull it back.
Is there anything that can't be solved by communication or even quarreling? Do you have to block it at every turn? Just to prove your presence?
If you really put it down, it doesn't matter if you block it or not.
Do you block someone or let him lie quietly in your circle of friends, let him pay attention to your dynamics in private, and let him find out that he is no longer important one day, and he will be sad.
As for those who blocked me, it doesn't matter anymore. Whether it's love or friendship, it doesn't matter what gets lost.
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Do your own thing, don't pay attention to each other's dynamics, don't pay attention to each other's lives, don't go to each other, don't give each other **.
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I don't care, I don't connect, I don't care, I really let go of someone is that I won't think of you anymore, even if I occasionally hear others mention you, there is no wave in my heart.
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Get used to a person's life, don't pay attention to everything about the other person, cultivate your own interests and hobbies, constantly improve yourself, and make yourself strong.
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No, if there is still this person in your heart, no matter how you block and delete it, it is impossible to forget it, because this person's smile is still echoing in my mind.
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Not necessarily. If you really love someone, even if you block and delete him, you will remember him in your heart, you will think about him from time to time, occasionally come to see your dynamics, understand your recent situation, and miss you more and more, this feeling is uncontrollable.
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