Really putting down a person, not deleting, not blocking, what is that?

The real letting go is not to block and delete, but to ignore everything that has to do with him. First of all, in real life, once they break up with each other, many girls will choose to block and delete, posing as if I have let go, but in fact, they can't give up in their hearts. When you decide to block your ex, your heart is biased towards the other party at that moment.

The real letting go is not to say that I let you go with great fanfare, but to really let go is that even if he appears in your circle of friends, you can still ignore everything related to him.

1.The real letting go is to silently bless and then live your life well.

The real letting go is not the memories that come out of your heart when you think of him, but when you think of him, you know that it is this person, but you will not be moved by him anymore. Really let go of a person, there is no sadness or loss in her life, but more of a beautiful vision of life. It may be difficult to really let go, but after going through the process of letting go, you will grow.

2.To really let go is not to pay attention to the other person's life anymore.

After a breakup, many people will choose to be entangled, and some people will choose to let go calmly. When a man is still deeply in love with a man, he will inquire about him through various channels and want to know how he is doing recently. But once a girl figures it out, she won't be overly addicted to a relationship, and if she is too addicted to a relationship, not only will she not get the results she wants, but she will hurt herself deeply.

A sentence in "Wild Horse Mane": "There will be a day when you will let go of today's attachment and reluctance, with a little regret; It is to recognize, to let go, to let go, and to be powerless. ”In just one sentence, the helplessness of the world is exhausted, and the process of letting go must be painful, but even so, we must learn to let go, because letting go is to face up to our hearts, no longer going all out for things that are not worth it, but to let ourselves understand the meaning of pursuing a better life.

I think that really letting go of a person is completely not what this person does, not caring about his every move, completely erasing it from your world, and when it comes to your past, it will be very light-hearted.

I don't have any thoughts about this person anymore, and even if I think of the other person, my mood doesn't fluctuate at all, and I can greet each other calmly.

If you let go of a person, you should work hard to adjust your bad state, read more, and devote yourself to the career you are interested in, so as to improve your personal ability and improve your quality of life.

You don't need to delete the block when you really let go, but it doesn't matter to him after you meet, it's like meeting a stranger, and you don't feel anything.

This is an attitude of self-deception and evasion, the real letting go, is really letting go, putting it in a dispensable position, even if you meet again, you can not be shocked! Deleting and blocking means that you are angry or unhappy in your heart, and it does not mean that you have really let go of this person, and you don't care if you really let go, and you don't have to think about it at all, so you don't need to block and delete. If you really let go, you will delete others from your heart, not from your phone!

The real letting go is not deleting or blocking, the real letting go is putting this person down in your heart, and when you see him again, you are calm and fearless.

No! Deleting and blocking is just a kind of behavior that is afraid that you can't let go, so you give yourself behavioral instructions!

The real letting go should be that the other party appears in your sight every day (including the mobile phone circle), but you treat the other party as a "passerby"!

The real letting go is not to blacken or delete her, then even if you let it go, really let it go, from your heart from your thoughts, from the mind to put him down, don't be a husband and wife, don't be friends, you can be friends, you can't be a friend, you won't just block it, block everything, there's no need.

I think the real letting go is not blacking, but when mentioning him in any situation, there are no emotions and complaints, all kinds of hatred, unwillingness, very plain like ordinary friends, it is not easy to completely let go in my heart!

If you can put it down, you can put it down without deleting the block, which means that you have deleted the block in your heart. If you can't put it down, you can't let it go even if you delete it, because the other party has occupied a certain position in your heart, and you can't pull it out, so that you can't touch him unconsciously, and it's shallow.

The real letting go has nothing to do with blocking, the real letting go is really letting go of this matter from the heart, or this person, in fact, it's completely okay not to block it.

The real letting go is not to delete all the information about him, not to block him, not to stay away from him, if you want to really let go of a person, it is to exclude her from the heart, even if you know his news, even if you are face to face, you will not have a little more heart for him, you will not have a little memory of him, even if you eat with him, you will not feel awkward or sad when you party together, that is really letting go.

Really letting go is not deleting the block, the real letting go is letting go from the heart, whether you are blacking out or not is just a form, so it doesn't matter if you don't delete or block.

To truly let go is that everything he has is insignificant to you. If you really put it down, don't be obsessed with deleting or blocking.

Friends delete and block is just a form, the form is not important, it doesn't matter whether you delete the block or not, the important key is to really delete the other party from the bottom of your heart, and really let go is not to interfere with each other anymore, so that both parties can work and live with peace of mind in their respective life circles, and find their own happiness.

I think the real letting go is not to delete or block, but to let him lie in the address book, that is, not to contact and not to disturb. From now on, it doesn't matter to you whether his sky is windy, rainy, or clear.

I don't think so, deleting the block is just to be able to forget, it just shows the importance and profundity in the heart, to the point where it seems that there is no silver three hundred taels here, the real let go is me in front of me in front of you, but you turn a blind eye and are indifferent, the deletion of the block may be just to dodge, in order to calm the injured heart, it may really not be in contact but not necessarily let go.

The real letting go is when you see him or mention him, and there are no waves in your heart! Just removing the block doesn't mean anything! But since the two people are separated, there is no need to contact each other again!

Whether you delete or block just to prove that the knot in your heart is still not really let go, existence can't let go or unwilling, and there is hate, if you really let go, you will be extremely relaxed.

The real letting go is to really let go from the heart, no longer missing, no longer bothering, no longer paying attention to anything about him, everything about him will no longer affect you, this is considered to be let go.

The real letting go is that the heart no longer has any emotional fluctuations for him. Even when we meet, we say hello and laugh like ordinary friends.

The real letting go is not to delete the block, but to be honest with him when facing him, and there will be no waves in his heart, just like a passerby. Deleting the block is just a feeling in your heart, a manifestation of self-comfort. It is an act of escaping and not daring to face.

This kind of behavior can only show that you haven't really let go, but you just don't dare to really face it. The real letting go is that he is there, in and out of the same way, and you can live happily without him. A good life is behind, don't affect you because of a little thing, it's not a big deal, come on.

The real letting go is not to delete the block, but to be honest with him when facing him, and there will be no waves in his heart, just like a passerby. Deleting the block is just a feeling in your heart, a manifestation of self-comfort. It is an act of escaping and not daring to face.

This kind of behavior can only show that you haven't really let go, but you just don't dare to really face it. The real letting go is that he is there, in and out of the same way, and you can live happily without him. A good life is behind, don't affect you because of a little thing, it's not a big deal, come on.

If you delete it, it's really broken, and you can't pick it up again. Blocking is not necessarily, indicating that there is still room for maneuver. Neither delete nor block, it doesn't mean that there will be further development, maybe people don't want to pay attention to you, just want to be friends! ٩(o^๑)

If you want to really let go, it doesn't matter if you block or delete, you will do it. Let it be, and so will we. Treat it calmly, not pay attention to her movements and tracks, and have no feelings for her anymore.

Some people say that the more you care, the more you pretend not to care; The more you can't put it down, the more you pretend to be able to put it down.

That's right. As adults, we do have countless pretenses, and even our feelings are not escapable.

The person who was once pinned, replied to messages in seconds, and stayed up late to chat, along with those who used to be hotly liked, the joy of sleepless talks late at night, and the little joy of being spoiled and valued, are now lying quietly in the blacklist.

Whether it is angry and impulsive because of indifferent trivial things, or hypocritically trying to get attention when there is a conflict and awkwardness, or breaking off the relationship in despair because of heartbreak, the seemingly neat blocking and deletion all reveal that you care and can't let go.

Leaving with great fanfare is a temptation to test whether the other party cares as much as you do; Pretending to let go freely is just self-deception, deceiving myself, and I'm not afraid to leave him anyway.

Actually, you care about him very much, and you are afraid to leave him.

Blocking or deleting is just a helpless coercive measure taken by you who are afraid of being contacted again, unwilling to humble yourself to the dust, and wanting to retain your last dignity; Or maybe you are looking forward to the other party's active contact, and want to prove that he still cares about you, and he can't do without you, and implement small means.

And really letting go of a person is never about blocking and deleting, not pretending not to care when you care about it, and pretending to let go of it when you can't let it go.

To truly let go is to turn a blind eye, to be silent, to be indifferent.

I don't know who said that 90% of the compounds are repeats the mistakes of the past.

Although I know that everyone has their own beauty, and every relationship has a unique tacit understanding.

But the moment the relationship ends, the person you loved and loved you deeply in the past no longer exists.

His beauty, the tacit understanding of your feelings, are just what you remember. And your memories are often filtered by you, just like the blind date has opened a "photo fraud" of beauty, beautiful but not real.

And this beauty worth remembering and cherishing only belongs to the past, never to the present.

You must know that stubbornly insisting on what you shouldn't insist on is not affectionate, it is stupid; And pretending to be free and easy to block and delete, why not because you can't let go.

But not being able to let go is never an excuse for you to repeat the mistakes of the past now. What you can't let go of is just the memories of the past, the regret of separation, and the unwillingness to stay together, not the current him.

There is a saying: "Where your concentration is, your love is in", when you use too many thoughts on him, you can only be disturbed by it, the more you don't want to forget him, the more you will indulge in it, which will only make yourself more painful. When you want to let go of a person, don't care about his news anymore, no matter what he sends, what does it have to do with you, even if he has emotional progress, it is his business.

It's hard to do that, but if you don't try, how can you tell if you can't? You may say, then I can delete the block, and he will never bother you again. It's just that if you can't really let go in your heart, you can only deceive yourself, even if you delete the contact**, you can also learn about him through other people.

The most important thing is that if you forget about this person from the depths of your heart, only then will you not be disturbed again.

In fact, you can't let go of a person, most of it is because you have expectations in your heart, you look forward to his heart and you, and you look forward to the two of them being able to return to the beginning. But there are some things that are hard to force, especially emotional things, if you miss it, you miss it, and you will never go home, even if I feel uncomfortable, I have to accept this fact.

If you want to forget from the bottom of your heart, the most important thing is that you no longer expect him to love you, and with this expectation, you will want to contact him again, and you will want to see him again. If you keep thinking like this, how can you let him go? In addition to not being able to learn to let go, it will also make you uneasy, you will have no spiritual substance in what you do, and you will firmly believe that this is not the result you want.

In the final analysis, if you want to let go of a person, you still rely on yourself, first of all, you have to accept in your heart, the objective fact that the two of you are separated, and then work hard to enrich yourself in the future, don't let yourself fall into memory. You can do your own work or do what you love, and when you are brave enough to be kind to yourself and immerse yourself in love, your mind will migrate.

When you devote more and more attention to yourself, only focus on one's growth, and no longer pay attention to the things in the past, you will also feel quieter inside. Many can't forget, it's your own obsession to blame, not so much this love, but your unwillingness, not as calm down, try to do your own thing, you will be happier.