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You have a bit of a psychological disorder, and you have a lot of psychological commitment, but in fact, there is nothing, you think too much about yourself, why do you make yourself so uncomfortable! I said, "If you like something (clothes, shoes, or someone of the opposite sex, or your family) that others don't like, don't you like it either?"
When others say what you are, you think you are, and let him say what others say, as long as you think it's good, right, and not too much. Send you a famous quote: go your own way and let others say go!
Do you even have to care about your own style? Be confident. There are too many things to say, I used to have lower self-esteem than you, and I wanted that, but now I have figured it out myself, and it is much better.
Nothing, don't be cranky. Hopefully you'll come out of it soon.
I don't know if I'm off topic, think about it yourself).
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I care too much about other people's opinions, and I want to be perfect in everything I do, but I don't have friends. This is why you hide your personality too much for the sake of other people's opinions, causing others to see you as having no personality. Some people will even think that you are hypocritical and do not want to be friends with you.
You always feel like someone is watching you all the time, right? Actually, that's a little psychological barrier for you. No one is looking at you.
You're in trouble with this, you can talk to me privately.
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Why do you care what other people think? They can't give you money, what do they care? It's a big deal, you think of yourself as a prince, they are all girls who adore you, you have to show your charm and make them worship you even more!!
Don't care too much about what other people think, or you. Life won't be going too well!! Be relaxed and confident in yourself!!
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Caring too much about the perception of others is a kind of psychology of inherent uncertainty in the judgment of one's own value.
People who care too much about what others think of themselves, like people who have to take out their own mirror to examine themselves no matter what the occasion, can see the extreme lack of self-confidence and their eagerness to soothe their restless hearts through the good impression of others. But in fact, there will not be so many people who pay attention to you in life, and there will not be so many people who will have an "opinion" of you because of one side.
No one can imitate others to such an extent, we are all passing by in each other's lives, the difference is only the length of stay. If you care too much, you will lose the distinction between priority and priority, and it is easy to blind your eyes. If you care too much about what others think of you, it is easy to ignore your own feelings and wronged yourself.
In life, in order to make others satisfied with what they think of you, you will "deliberately" speculate on what others think, and from time to time consider whether your words, deeds and emotions are appropriate, and you will not be able to say a "no" to everyone.
Ways to improve that care about other people's opinions
1. See yourself.
Many people's inner emotions and feelings have never been seen, including themselves. So the first step is to learn to see ourselves. This step is not easy, it requires us to do nothing when the emotions come, just take a deep breath, calm down, and then try to discern our emotions, to discern our inner voice.
2. Know yourself.
Ask yourself a few more whys, and ask yourself more about what you are pursuing now means to you. After a period of training like this, we can see ourselves more clearly. When we have an objective understanding of ourselves, we will not be so blind and excited when facing the evaluation of others.
3. Accept yourself.
To put it simply, when we get to know ourselves, we will find that we have good things and bad things. If we fall into our own shortcomings and cannot extricate ourselves, then it becomes inferiority, which is not conducive to the subsequent personal growth and development.
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Summary. Hello dear, according to what you said about this situation. In the process of communicating with others, I care a lot about other people's opinions, this is because this person does not have so much recognition of himself in his heart, and at the same time, he has a little inferiority, so he always cares about what others think, and tries to make himself affirmed by those around him.
Caring too much about what other people think is the psychology.
Hello dear, according to what you said about this situation. In the process of communicating with others, I care a lot about other people's opinions, this is because this person does not have so much recognition of himself in his heart, and at the same time, he has a little inferiority, so he always cares about what others think, and tries to make himself affirmed by those around him.
In his opinion, caring about the opinions of others is not only an understanding and satisfaction of others, but also an opportunity for him to integrate into others.
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You have a good character, first of all; I like it.
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