Can I still keep in touch after I am separated, and should I keep in touch after a breakup?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-15
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It depends, after all, we have been together before, and we are also people who know each other.

    If you don't like it anymore, you also know your feelings, even if you contact again, you won't go back to the past, and you won't have the same feelings as before, and maybe there will be a certain estrangement. In this way, you can also contact occasionally, don't contact too much, because you have your life circle, he also has his life circle, you can meet a better one, he will also meet his other person, this is to give you a chance, you will have a new world, just be friends.

    If he no longer loves you, and you still miss your feelings, I think you still don't take the initiative to contact him, that will not only not save your feelings, but also make him feel that you are annoying, maybe even your good memories together will deteriorate, the girl should be good to herself, don't lower herself, it will make people look down on him, he doesn't know how to cherish you, you don't like him anymore, ending with him is also the beginning of your happiness, you will meet something worthy of your cherishment, he will love you, will love you, will love you. Do not close yourself to your happiness, you are worthy of his love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Yes, if you want to be friends, you can keep in touch, but if you want to be enemies, you don't have to.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Of course, you can, just treat it as a regular friend.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Now that we're separated, is there still a need to keep in touch? Or maybe you don't want to be separated...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Let the past be the past, and people should look forward.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    When we're ending a relationship, I personally don't think we should keep in touch anymore. Because I feel that if I want to keep in touch after the breakup, it will have a certain impact on the lives of both parties. What are the implications? We'll find out if we read on.

    Impact on the ego

    The first one should be the impact on your own sales. First of all, no matter who proposes to break up, there will be a certain amount of damage in our hearts, and this injury will take time to heal. But if we keep in touch with our ex during this period, it will undoubtedly be even more painful for the injured party, so that she will never be able to get out of the hurt caused by that relationship.

    Impact on life

    The second is the impact on life, because we have a lot of relatives and friends in our lives, and they should know our other half when we are in love, but if we continue to contact after the breakup, those friends and relatives will think that we are just having a conflict and not really breaking up, and will even make fun of the two of us. However, the relationship cannot be forced, and the end is the end, and the illusion created by this for friends may also make friends think that they have a problem with their character, which has a certain impact on their interpersonal communication and life.

    Impact on new relationships

    The third impact is actually a very real problem. Even if we end our last relationship, it is impossible to be immersed in the memories of the past, and if we meet our true fate in the future, will we still be in contact with our ex again and again? I don't think so, after all, no man or woman wants to accept that their partner has been in contact with their ex.

    This can make us feel that we are being unfaithful to our feelings.

    From the above points, we can fully understand how it will affect us if we keep in touch after a breakup. In fact, I am personally very opposed to contact, whether my other half is intentionally or unintentionally keeping in touch with my ex, I can't accept it, I want my feelings to be single-minded. What do you think, guys?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't want it, even if you choose to break up, don't contact again.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think it's best not to message each other again after separation.

    Because I feel that being apart is a choice for each other. Separation also means that you choose to separate because of some force majeure. If you contact each other after separation, and then send messages to the other person, it will only make the relationship awkward.

    Because you both know that this relationship will not work out. But I don't think it's necessary to repeat the mistakes of the past and hurt each other again.

    And if the other person already has his own life, your current message is to interrupt. Everyone has their own life, and everyone can live well without everyone, just as the earth turns without everyone. We are not as affectionate as we think.

    So I don't think I'm going to be able to message each other anymore since we're separated.

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