How do you feel about keeping in touch with your ex after a breakup?

I think it's really, really bad, so if you try not to touch it, don't do it again.

I don't think it should be, since we've broken up, it's impossible to be real friends, so it's better not to get in touch.

I think that after the breakup, you should stop contacting your ex, and after the breakup, you should be a qualified ex, don't appear in each other's lives anymore, and don't affect each other.

After the breakup, he still keeps in touch with his ex, which can only say that these two people are still in their relationship, and if these two people continue to contact, they may be reconciled.

Can I keep in touch with my ex after breaking up? If you still can't let go of your ex in your heart, you must be clear about this matter.

I don't think you should have any contact with your ex if you don't have any contact with your ex, because I feel that since we are separated, we shouldn't have any contact with each other, and there is no need for it.

I think the reason why I still keep in touch with my ex after a breakup is very simple, one is because I haven't let go of my ex yet, and the other is that I want to use my ex when I need to, but I think it should be neat and tidy.

I don't believe in pure friendship between men and women, I don't believe that I can still be friends with my ex, and if I still keep in touch, I have to think of whether he is deliberately hanging and looking for someone else, or simply wants to get back together.

This approach is completely wrong, because since there is no need to contact each other after breaking up, why contact two people again, it should be good to get together and disperse and not to the other party, I hope this is the right thing.

I don't think it's right to do this, not only for your current partner, but also for your ex.

I don't think you should keep in touch with your ex after a breakup, because after all, the two of you have had a relationship, and now that you have separated, you should break it off completely, otherwise your current boyfriend and girlfriend will also mind very much.

No. The two of you have no relationship anymore, so you shouldn't contact each other anymore, don't break the connection, and be sure to respect the feelings.

Of course not. The two of you are no longer related, so you shouldn't be in touch, which is the minimum respect for the incumbent.

In fact, you shouldn't keep in touch with your ex, because it doesn't respect your next relationship.

Personally, I think it must be possible to keep in touch, because now there are many people who are actually broken up or can be friends in the same way, since they can be friends, then keep in touch, this must be the way it should be, between two individuals, there is a certain sense of distance.

When we're ending a relationship, I personally don't think we should keep in touch anymore. Because I feel that if I want to keep in touch after the breakup, it will have a certain impact on the lives of both parties. What are the implications? We'll find out if we read on.

Impact on the ego

The first one should be the impact on yourself. First of all, no matter who proposes to break up, there will be a certain amount of damage in our hearts, and this hurt will take time to heal. But if we keep in touch with our ex during this period, it will undoubtedly be even more painful for the injured party, so that she will never be able to get out of the hurt caused by that relationship.

Impact on life

The second is the impact on life, because we have a lot of relatives and friends in our lives, and they should know our other half when we are in love, but if we continue to contact after the breakup, those friends and relatives will think that we are just having a conflict and not really breaking up, and will even make fun of the two of us. But the relationship cannot be forced, the end is the end, and the illusion created by this to the friend may also make the friend think that he has a problem with his character, which has a certain impact on his interpersonal communication and life.

Impact on new relationships

The third impact is actually a very real problem. Even if we end our last relationship, it is impossible to be immersed in the memories of the past, and if we meet our true fate in the future, will we still be in contact with our ex again and again? I don't think so, after all, no man or woman wants to accept that their partner has been in contact with their ex.

This can make us feel that we are being unfaithful to our feelings.

From the above points, we can fully understand how it will affect us if we keep in touch after a breakup. In fact, I am personally very opposed to contact, whether my other half is intentionally or unintentionally keeping in touch with my ex, I can't accept it, I want my feelings to be single-minded. What do you think, guys?

Either they really can't let go of each other and still want to get back together. Either they are not suitable for marriage, but the relationship is very good, so they want to become friends of the opposite sex.

I think generally such a person actually has a glimmer of hope for his ex, maybe he thinks there is still hope, so he will keep in touch with his ex.

It's the mentality of having seen this matter openly. Just treat each other as friends, and there will not be too many feelings, but there is a feeling of family and want to contact.

There are also feelings, the breakup is just because of impulse, and neither of the two sides is willing to open their mouths and reconcile.

I think either the two of them actually have each other in their hearts and can't let go. Either you really see it and treat your ex as an ordinary friend.

Or I've never loved it, I don't care, and I keep it as a spare tire.

Otherwise, there is another one who is still in love.

How can someone who has truly loved be forgotten?

It's just an excuse to deceive yourself.

On a certain sunny day, you see.

In some scenes, the milk tea she likes to drink, the things she likes, the songs she likes, in the middle of the night, your mind is blank, quietly in a daze, and you suddenly think of her again.

I remembered what you had known each other, and the heartbeat at the beginning, missing, worrying, and you had conflicts. The way she was coquettish, the way she was cute, the way she lost her temper, you still remember.

But what can you do, these painful memories suddenly appear like this, and your heart hurts so much that you can't extricate yourself.

But she doesn't belong to you anymore, and you can't go back.

That's it, keep your good memories and leave it to time.

After a breakup, you may think about having to contact your ex, but not everyone does. It may be that it is unnecessary, or that this kind of behavior is meaningless, or that it is a disservice to yourself. Then you can't think like that.

Everyone has their own opinions, perceptions, and ideas about feelings, and you can't deny that everything has a reason for its existence. Of course, you can also try to keep in touch with your ex. But you should still put yourself in a positive position to look at it.

Loving for your ex.

You can talk to each other once in a while, but not too often. Keeping in touch with your ex may just be trying to get them to know you better and like you more so they can get to know you better. You can also do something with the other person that the other person likes but no one likes.

But don't forget to say that you are a person who loves each other a lot.

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After a breakup, if you want to be friends with the other person, then you can continue to keep in touch with your ex, but remember that the old man must keep in touch. Once you're aware of this and want to learn something new from your friend, you should keep in touch with them. If you're completely sure that you're no longer in contact with your ex, it's best not to do so until you start over.

Don't care too much about what others say is good or bad. It's important to keep in touch with people who don't know you well and haven't really determined what the relationship will do for your future.

Try to communicate with your ex.

Reaching out to your ex is not a person who runs away from problems. There may be some form of connection and communication between the two of you. You want to try talking to your ex.

But don't rush to reply to the other person's message. Communicating with your ex can help improve your awareness of relationships after a breakup. However, you should not worry too much either.

99% of those who still contact their exes after the breakup are people who have not let go and still hold on to the hope of reuniting.

There is no such thing as "getting together and breaking up" in this world, two people who have been in love cannot become friends after breaking up, but the one who loves more continues to love the other party as a friend. At the same time, the loved party also ensures in this way that you will always be his prey.

Keeping in touch is what you do in order not to let the relationship get cold, or to keep the last trace of connection, not to let the other person completely disappear from your world, because as long as you are still in touch with your ex, you feel that there is still a chance to get back together. Many people turn themselves into each other's spare tires. Your ex occasionally replies to your messages, and then no matter what you say, he doesn't reply as if he never showed up.

Slowly, your unwillingness will turn into gains and losses. You appear to Him right away when He needs you; When he doesn't need you, you can't find his shadow; His every look and every movement touches your heart, and in the end you will only fall deeper and deeper.

Although it is generally believed that there is no need for two people to continue to contact each other after breaking up, they should each have their own lives, and do not try to affect each other's lives, especially in the relationship should not be entangled, since the two people broke up because they could not run in emotionally well, they brought a lot of pain to each other, so they should completely let go after the breakup, and should not pursue it hard. But in essence, the person who continues to keep in touch with his ex after the breakup is essentially a very emotional person, although the two have broken up, but he is still reluctant to give up on the beautiful love he had before.

In the actual love life, people are not grass and trees, who can be ruthless, although they have broken up, but after all, there have been mountain alliances and sea vows, and there have been many happy times together. Although this person is no longer his other half, he is still a very important person in his heart. I can't continue to be a lover anymore, but I can be a good friend and take the initiative to help my friend when he needs it.

Therefore, after the breakup, if you can still keep in touch with your ex, such a person must be a very affectionate person.

From another point of view, if two people have a new partner after breaking up, it is very inappropriate to continue to keep in touch at this time, because this connection is essentially a kind of broken thread, and they want to continue to maintain an ambiguous relationship with their ex, which is undoubtedly a harm to their existing girlfriend or boyfriend.

1.After the breakup, still keeping in touch belongs to not completely withdrawing from the relationship, obviously not managing the relationship efficiently, but it is a normal emotion. At this time, you should make a quick decision, cut off contact with the other person, and forget about the other person, otherwise the new relationship will be endangered.

2.It is necessary to learn to balance all kinds of feelings, withdraw from feelings cleanly, and devote yourself to a new life.

To do more and better than others, efficiency and focus are essential. For example, if you want to be separated from the past, you should completely forget about it. And if you want to maintain your current relationship, you should enjoy your current life, because this is the life we have been looking forward to.

When doing one thing, be highly focused and devoted, follow a steady stream of input to get the maximum experience, don't drag the mud and water at the end, and withdraw the feelings in time, so that you can devote yourself to the next thing without distraction in a good state. This is the principle of efficiency.

3.Most people are unable to manage their feelings effectively because of fear and anxiety.

Most people are either unable to fully engage: because concentration is a state of high integration, the anxiety and fear of integration in the early years may jump out to prevent concentration from being swallowed up by integration; Either it can't be over: the subconscious separation anxiety that makes it impossible to completely detach people from things and is filled with thoughts, thoughts or emotions.

Not daring to start or finish, not being able to switch freely, this lack of refreshment is the main culprit that hinders efficiency, and naturally cannot balance various interests and hobbies.

4.Therefore, after the breakup, still keeping in touch belongs to not completely withdrawing from the relationship, and obviously will not manage the relationship efficiently, but it is a normal emotion. At this time, you should make a quick decision, cut off contact with the other person, and forget about the other person, otherwise the new relationship will be endangered.

Actually, it's nothing, can't others have their own social circle when they are with you? As long as it is not introduced, then each ex is a person who is relatively close in life, or will not become an ex, and although they are separated later, it does not affect the normal interaction between the two people. If you can't accept it, you can find a girl who doesn't have an ex, otherwise you have to support her normal interpersonal interactions, not suspicion.

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