I picked up a cat and my husband said let me throw it away, and if I didn t lose it, he would divorc

Throw it away, it's not worth losing a man for a cat, you can use a man as a cat, you can use the fur as a man???

However, since your husband threatens you with divorce, you can punish him!

You can keep it outside, you can throw it away, it's okay if the cat is outside. If you don't want to talk to your husband or give it away, go and see it often.

This man divorces you for a cat, which means that he doesn't love you, leave and find a good one, if you don't want to leave, it's best to give the cat away or send it to a pet store, don't throw it away, the kitten will be very pitiful.

This is my own understanding: it is impossible for anyone to be without compassion, and I think that if this cat can please him, then he will definitely not be hard-hearted! You can also think of another way, such as giving it to relatives and friends who are closer, and if you want a kitten, you can come and see it.

This is purely personal advice

Love is very good It is estimated that your husband is also afraid of bacteria on the cats outside In case it brings disease to the family It is not good I think you should talk to your husband calmly If you really want to raise it, you can take it to the pet club to do a thorough cleaning.

However, I warn you that cats are not easy to keep and can easily run away.

In short, it's not worth it to quarrel over a cat.

Let's leave, it's too to say that you want to divorce for this reason.

If it is for other reasons, it should be well convinced, and couples are not doing this.

Then give it to a buddy (or foster) there!

Your husband was a mouse in his last life, so let's leave.

Now there are a lot of stray cats, life is very miserable, the subject has the conditions to raise, just take it as a good thing, and most of the stray cats are well-behaved, as long as you are sincere to it, it is very easy to raise.

It shouldn't be if you want to throw it away, why did you pick it up in the first place? This cat is related to you.

You don't leave it off, see if it stays or goes.

It depends on whether you can afford to take care of it, and if you are sure that you can make it live a more comfortable life than before, please leave it.

I once had a crisis in my marriage like you, my husband insisted on divorcing me, the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was bad, and I often quarreled with my husband, coldly indifferent to myself, and lived an extremely tormented life every day. Later, through his unremitting efforts, he successfully repaired the marriage. Now I am here to share my experience of marriage recovery and management, I hope it can help you.

Couples should keep a certain distance appropriately

Helps keep married life fresh. As the saying goes: a little don't win a newlywed.

Family members, especially couples, should not take for granted that everything should be together. No matter how close the relationship is, two people need to give each other some space. Therefore, we can start with small things, such as taking advantage of weekends and short vacations to go out with our friends, or taking advantage of opportunities such as group activities at work to travel separately.

These are all very good opportunities for us to make our relationships better, and we will not become bored with married life, but on the contrary, we will value each other more.

Take the initiative to communicate and quarrel overnight

In marriage, communication and communication are a compulsory course, after all, men and women sometimes think very differently, obviously out of good intentions, but often misunderstandings due to subjective ideas. Friction and contradictions between husband and wife, quarrels are not terrible, the scary thing is that no one wants to take the initiative to solve the problem, always waiting for the other party to apologize and compromise. Communication is a kind of ability to deal with problems, if men and women do not learn to communicate in time, a small misunderstanding will often ferment slowly, and even affect the emotional foundation of two people.

Instead of making themselves uncomfortable and embarrassing each other with negative emotions, two people should learn to communicate in a timely manner and solve problems quickly. After all, most of the conflicts in marriage are not a big deal. After a quarrel, don't solve the conflict overnight, otherwise when the conflict accumulates, it will be like a snowball, rolling bigger and bigger until you are overwhelmed.

Let you have more common topics and hobbies

He is the man who is now I only see the newcomer laughing and I don't see the newcomer crying Even if he has suffered He won't use his brain to think about it now Because he doesn't want to be with you anymore Let alone love What he said is really an excuse Just find yourself a very smooth excuse! Either divorce or drag the mistress to death! Decide for yourself, sisters, I support you、!!

Since I don't love you anymore, why are you still there, what you have to do now is to take care of your children, and strive for the best interests for yourself and your children when you divorce, people always have to live.

He fell in love with another woman. The heart is not in you. What do you need to do with a marriage without feelings?

If you don't get divorced like the friend above said, drag it out. Then in the end, it's yourself who hurts the most. And children.

It's not a good thing to get together and disperse. There is no mother who does not love her child. If I could have had nothing but no children ...

But it's up to you to decide how to choose... Reluctant.,You can try to redeem it first.,If you can, that's better.。。 If you can't, then let's let it go chic.。。

Bless you.

Love can't be forced, since you don't love it, then you can also choose your love, don't let this love that shouldn't be cherished take away your happiness.

You must leave, you have to take the child with you, the child can't be without maternal love, and you can discuss the other details with your family.

It's just an excuse that he doesn't love you anymore, so he can get together and disperse, just for the love that was once possible.

Don't bother, for the sake of the children. Patience.

beat the junior, beat the lover.

If you can't leave, you won't leave, alas, it's hard for the child to create evil.

People go to tea cooling. It's good to gather and disperse.

If you don't leave, you will be angry with the junior and drag him to death!

This statement is not true, your mother is worried about unhygiene, and most importantly, don't forget to clean up the cat, so that the cat will have a happy life.

It shouldn't be thrown away, it's all said that cats are good, but don't believe this, it's a small life.

As the saying goes, pigs come to be poor, dogs come to bless, cats come to open pawnshops, cats are good, it is estimated that your mother does not like to raise small animals.

Maybe you are a more rigorous character, and he may not be so careful, or he just has some things he doesn't think about it, there's no need to do it, in fact, you won't get divorced, just do it according to each other, if you're strict, then you can, you do it according to your own ideas, as long as he doesn't say bad things about you, everyone has everyone's ideas and practices, the worst thing is that there is nothing wrong with the two of them, but they just don't agree with each other, In fact, there is nothing wrong with the two people, it's just that the two people have different ideas and habits, but as long as the general direction is good, it's okay, for children, be strict when they should be strict, and be loose when they should be loose.

If you properly handle the joint property of husband and wife and protect your own rights and interests, you will have no worries.

No matter how big it is, you can't get a divorce.

The yellow raccoon cat you picked up, there are two kinds of cats in the south that are generally ignored, white cats and black cats, yellow cats come to the door or are quite good, symbolizing prosperity and wealth into the house, yellow domestic cats are very homely, generally rarely wander out, only in certain circumstances will leave the house, such as a bad family situation, etc., this is the reason why you can leave the cat.

Cats, superstitious people will believe that cats will attract evil spirits.

Tell you the story of your mother's beckoning cat, and Ma Yun raised a cat and became the richest man. Your mom doesn't think money is inauspicious, does she?

The kitten is very cute, keep it, as the old saying goes, come to the cat and go to the dog, the more you go!!

Tell her that driving the cat away will drive away the fortune, well, I'm making it up.

If he doesn't usually say that, and suddenly says he doesn't want you, then it could be.

You said he was joking, this is really too much, don't think about these things that haven't changed.

If you are joking, it means that he likes you very much and is teasing you, not a joke, how can he say such things for no reason.

This only your own feeling is the most real, depending on what kind of person your husband is, if he usually likes to joke and like to talk about trouble, it is a joke,

Only you can consider this, think back to what your relationship has been like, whether it is really a joke or a joke to cover your heart, I believe you will feel it.

Just kidding, you must be thinking too much.

Just kidding! Don't think too much about it

This eldest sister, you said it was a joke, why take it seriously, besides, how could he divorce you?

It's possible that there is something to say, think for yourself.

Have a joke and relieve the stress of life.

It's all a joke.

That's right! There is no trust together, just leave! It mainly depends on whether you do something that is sorry for others.

If there is no trust, divorce is divorce, trust is the foundation of being together.

Communicate more, if it still doesn't work, then leave, there is no happiness when you are strong!

You don't say that no one knows to doubt you, have you ever thought about whether you are doing well or not, have you ever thought about why you doubt you.

It's possible that something happened to him, and you have to pay more attention to him.

Then you prove to him that you don't.

That's how your other half is so hypocritical.

I don't know what the situation is, it is recommended to communicate more.