Good people are about to collapse, and what happened to good people in the end

When there is time, a person calms down and feels the anger in the body, knowing that suppressing emotions cannot be dissolved, only by facing them, to fully feel the emotions in the heart. Feel where they are in your body. Send your love to this place.

Yes, it is the emotional energy of love in you at this time ... Slowly, try to put yourself in the shoes of a bystander and try to understand why things are happening. This method of regulating emotions taught by a master of psychoregulation hopes to help you.

It's because you're angry that people will scold you... If you calm down, you'll get better and better.

As long as you let go of the measurements, let the bombardment and scolding, ignore them, and do what you have to do... To be a man, you must be assertive, in order to become a Buddha on the ground... When you are in trouble, think about Dong Cunrui sacrificing himself to blow up the dark castle and burn Qiu Shaoyun.

Sanmao often went hungry. Let yourself be strong before you can cope with it ...

Also, it would be very beneficial to have time to take a look at the vernacular version of the four precepts and the modern Cause and Effect Record...

You always say that you are kind, kind people will not be angry all the time, kind people love to suffer small losses... It is a blessing to suffer a small loss...

If you can't bear it, you will make a big plan, and you need to talk openly and honestly with your colleagues to see what the problem is.

Now, many people ask what kindness is. Can good people still live in this world full of shadows? A lot of people gave the answer. Kindness is a good quality, but those who insist on being kind pay the price in the end.

How so? Everyone has three realms of self, self and superego, and the people who have the most in society are self-people. It is profit-seeking.

People are all for their own sake, you can't deny it, but there are a few people who can be noble enough to give up wanton lack of their own interests, which cannot be denied, but this is certainly very rare, otherwise it is impossible to move the Chinese people to choose out. Therefore, we are creatures who think about ourselves, and the quality of kindness cannot exist for a long time. Say what has always been kind, pure kindness.

Unless you die young, how can you guarantee that you will not change?

Because there are many people who do bad things, kindness is commendable. If you help others out of good intentions, others will slander you, and your kindness becomes evidence that you are harming others. The source of your lawsuit.

You kindly helped others and later found out that you had been deceived and cheated. So you have to tighten your belt and live, but others still look down on you. You face the world with the cleanest and most frank heart, but you are framed by unkindness and lose all innocence, start to guard against everyone, and finally become an indifferent person.

Who doesn't want to be a kind person, but if others don't give it, the world doesn't give it. How can you survive if you are too kind? We just hitchhike home, but we can also be victimized.

Pai Hail talks that we are all so young, and we don't understand that we have been hurt by the greatest malice in this world when we encounter good and evil in the world, can we continue to be kind?

We do our best not to be the person we hate, not to be a member of the evil people, but we can't make ourselves good people. Because we're going to live. Therefore, good is rewarded with good, and evil is rewarded with evil, and sometimes it is not true.

You are so small, who can really understand you. So I had to give up kindness and start being indifferent. There are many kind people, but the people who die good are long gone.

Hello, I think your kindness must have a sharp edge, and you can't be too kind to some people and some people, otherwise, you will put yourself in a very embarrassing situation and be easily hurt.

Specifically, to be a man, in the following three aspects, I advise you Liang Sheng not to be too "kind", otherwise, it will be easy to be let down! When taking a step back is a cliff, don't be too "kind" As the saying goes, take a step back and open the sky, this sentence is naturally full of wisdom and makes sense, but everything can not be generalized, sometimes, you will be forced to have no way back, a step back is behind the cliff, not the sea and the sky, at this time, will you be kind enough to sacrifice yourself to fulfill others? For example, take a step back, your bottom line will be broken, and for example, take a step back, your own struggle and efforts will be wasted, and there is no possibility of turning over, will you choose to retreat kindly?

Definitely not! If your interests are calculated and violated, but you don't know how to resist, and you are treated as a weak and bullying "soft persimmon" by others, then, no matter how kind you are, others will not necessarily appreciate it, but may hurt you doubly, and your kindness will be let down. You must know that many times, you only have to fight, as long as you show your toughness, then, your kindness will be more valuable and will be more recognized, because, in this highly competitive society, kindness also needs capital and strength. As a person, you should understand that not many people will put themselves in your shoes to feel your kindness, so when you realize that if you take a step back is not the sea and the sky, but is likely to be a cliff, I advise you not to be too "kind".

Hope mine is helpful to you.

Summary. 1。Too many facts are proving that people who are too kind often end badly.

People have bad roots, and the more you treat them, the more dissatisfied they will be, and they will feel that you have not given enough. Therefore, people can't be kind, but kindness must be limited, don't be too kind.

What happened to those who were too kind in the end?

1。Too many facts are proving that people who are too kind often end badly. People have bad roots, and the more you treat them, the more dissatisfied they will be, and they will feel that you have not given enough. Therefore, people can't be kind, but kindness must be limited, don't be too kind.

2。Some people have some things that they don't mix if they can, and don't mix them if they can. Being a good person may get a momentary gratitude, but after a long time, you will find that it is very unworthy.

When you are full of joy and want to find the friends you have helped, you find that they have long avoided you and forgotten you. Originally, you wanted to pass on your love to everyone, but all you got was neglect and neglect, which was really not worth it. To be a man, you should have a little temper, and it's actually good to be selfish, at least you won't suffer.

Hope mine is helpful to you.

I think it should!

Because kindness is not without a bottom line, but has its own principles! Perhaps in the eyes of many people, kindness is a kind of unprincipled and bottom-line, who does not know how to refuse other people's requests, and even if they can't do it sometimes, they agree to it.

This is actually not real kindness, this kind of kindness is a kind of flattering disease, it is the fear that one's own rejection will make the relationship stiff, to put it bluntly, it is the bottom line of unconfidence, and it is the embodiment of self-cheapness. And true kindness is based on self-knowledge, which is responsible for oneself and others.

True kindness is based on self-knowledge, and we may need to remember that kindness is never a principled way to help others. Our goodness is based on self-knowledge. Just like if someone falls into the water, if you are not accustomed to water, your best way must not be to jump into the water to save people, but to find someone who can swim or call the police for police assistance.

Each of us may need to weigh our own weight. For example, when we don't have much strength, the best way to do it is not to please others everywhere, but to strengthen ourselves. When we are strong ourselves, we will have more strength to help others.

When we are weak, remember that it is more important to learn to be obscure than to be deliberately kind, because you must first learn to take care of yourself.

Kindness is actually a very noble thing, it comes from our inner cultivation and conscience, but also from our self-understanding and our principle of helping others. Kindness is the most cherished part of the world, so don't let your kindness become cheap, but first learn to be yourself, bloom yourself, and let yourself have more ability to help others, which may be the attitude and principle we need the most. There is nothing wrong with being kind, but being excessively kind is a kind of connivance, which goes against the original intention of being a kind person!