Discuss Will you be with her for the sake of commitment

I advise you that it's better to break up.

Maybe it's going to hurt her now.

But not to love and hard together.

She'll be more miserable.

Better a finger off than always aching.

Don't force yourself together, just go with the flow.

When you miss her, tell her that you miss her and want to see her.

When you don't want her, forget about her.

You used to be naïve and ignorant. Now you've all sensed that the promises of the past were naïve, so don't take them too seriously.

After a month together, it can be seen that you know and trust each other very little. It's pitiful. It simply cannot be the basis for marriage.

My husband and I have been living together for three years, and there will be difficulties in communication from time to time, and if we are separated for a week, we will feel strangers to each other... If you are separated for a month, you will be emotionally estranged...

According to my experience, whether it is a husband and wife, a boyfriend or a girlfriend, if you want to maintain a relationship, you must meet often and be together often... Otherwise, you will be like you, and you will have nothing to say when you meet.

In fact, you have feelings, two people have been separated for too long, there will be more or less coldness, but this does not mean that there is no affection between two people, separated for a period of time, in order to confirm each other's position in each other's hearts, my husband and I are classmates, after graduation we went to work in different cities, but more than a year later, we are still together, although separated, but the relationship is still there, but I want to make it clear that my husband has promised me before, but I don't, we don't have your impulse, because if you love someone, you have to respect him She will live happily ever after.

It's just a little communication between the two, if you love her, don't give up, after all, the relationship can't be turned back.

Rather than getting along with each other, it is better to forget about each other.

I think it's better to break up, if it drags on forever, it will only be the two of you who will be hurt, and not everyone can give the promise, because no one knows what will happen in the future, and no one knows what will become of them in the future. Everything is changing, and nothing is set in stone. Since you feel that you don't love her anymore, then break up with her, otherwise, it will only hurt her more.

Think about it, will you be happy if you keep your promise and take her, will she be happy, can you give her the happiness she wants, if you get a positive answer, then you will be with her, otherwise, you will share it with her, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

I may be younger than you, but I'll also share my opinion. It's a lot of confusion overall, but I like to break things down. Regardless of whether she still loves you or not, if you don't have love for her anymore, then letting go is your common happiness, love is not debt repayment or pity...The two of them are speechless together, which can only prove that you are reluctant to go over, but the past is always the past, and you both still have your own way to go.

Don't dwell on the past. I am nineteen.

A woman should be a little reserved, perhaps she is testing your loyalty and passion for him.

If you don't know what to do, then let him decide, he is a person who re-committed, cautious but love is not only about making promises, the most important point is that two people must truly love each other. Tell him that if he is only with you for a commitment, then you want him to be separated. Because in this way you will be less hurt, if he will fall in love with someone because of the change of time, then you can insist on your love, if you think this can be very little, then end it early, this will be better for yourself with filial piety.

It depends on how you feel for her.

If you love her very much, manage your relationship well.

If you are very bland about her rush and it doesn't matter if you have it or not, then it is best to discuss breaking up, which will be a relief for both parties.

I think it's your blessing to have a girl who keeps her promises to love you! After all, there are few such girls!

If she doesn't love you, how can you promise anything, you are a man, the future needs you to work hard, the question is whether you love her or not, if you love her, I think there is nothing to do,

Use your own efforts to transform commitment into love.

No, because promises are not prudent, promises are not made by many people, and if you give up your future for the sake of a joke promise, then your life will be ruined. Be realistic. Friends, don't ruin your future for the sake of impulse.

Don't give up something for a promise. Don't make impulsive choices, because there will be no regrets in life. There will be no rush to filial piety with a enter key.

I believe that your relationship will be able to withstand the test!

Who knows? In the past, I tried hard to redeem myself, but women are like this! Where her people are, her heart is there! There is no way! Women change their minds very quickly!

The woman has changed her mind and can't change it back.

Probably not. Honestly tell him that he is better and feel awkward in his heart. Hehe, promises are unreliable, it's best not to promise anything, and don't trust others too much.

There is a possibility of "changing your mind".

When the relationship begins, it is very feeling.

Later on, it will be very bland.

It feels like it can be created!

Will do its best! It depends on whether he doesn't feel for me anymore......

Will do its best. It's up to her forever.

The highest state of love is to withstand the dull passing years.

Some people swear poisonously when they promise, and they use it to curse themselves or their families if they are really ruthless, but this kind of person often says that he is good and commonplace, and he will not fulfill his promise at all, which is really incredible.

In preschool, she played with a girl and her parents came to pick her up early that day. When I was leaving, she handed me the pillow and said, "You have to regret holding our children all the time before you go home." My parents' factory was late at work, so I didn't play with the children, and I waited for a long, long time with a pillow until my dad came to pick me up.

I only meet my boyfriend on weekends, because I am in the same city but far away, and I usually only chat with WeChat. I feel that he may have been living at home, he is almost 30 years old and immature, usually in order to coax me, he will always promise a lot of nice words at a banquet, and when it comes to the key to cash, he pretends to forget.

For the goddess in my mind, Tong Lisong and my brother bragged that I wanted to lose 30 pounds in a semester, but I only ate one meal a day at noon every day for my bureau Zheng This promise is not to go to class every afternoon to run to the playground to play basketball, I am really hungry and want to eat soil, and then I succeeded in losing 35 pounds in one semester.

I have a friend, in order to get married, he promised his mother-in-law to buy a house within a year, and then he went directly to the construction company after the cherry song, went to work at 8 o'clock in the morning every day, got off work at 11 o'clock in the evening, and did not go home for a year, all worked in the company, was promoted and raised within a year, and finally bought a house in Shijiazhuang with his own efforts.

When I was in my third year of high school, I promised my parents that my mock score would pass a line, so I got up at 6 o'clock every day and studied until I went to bed at night.

When I was chasing the imitation sail or the female ticket, I promised her that I must take her to see the sunrise once, and then we got together, I asked for leave to take him to a beach to watch the sunrise, and she didn't know about it before.

When I went to work in the field for the first time, I promised him that I would pick you up at the station whenever you came back! Now, whether he comes back in the middle of the night or the scorching sun or torrential rain, I have been picking him up at the station rain or shine for so many years. What makes me incredible myself is:

It turned out that for this little thing, I could count how long I could hold on to this potato hunger.

A few years ago, I promised to find a classmate who worked in a bank to pretend to be a credit card (she needed it for her performance), but I didn't do it for various reasons, and I'm ashamed to think about it now. A few days ago, I happened to see a news that an old man was scavenging for more than a dozen brigades shouting about the New Year, in order to keep his promise and pay off his debts. Thinking about the atmosphere of the lord who owes debts nowadays, the sentiment of the old man is even more valuable.

Whatever the reason, people who keep their word are worthy of respect.

One day, the man clicked on his photo album to show me, and the album recorded my daily life bit by bit, because he promised me to remember the process of being together forever.

"Why You Made a Promise to Me".

You told me to break up.

Have been in love with him for a long time.

Hide it from me, just don't want to see me cry.

You say you have to keep striving for a better life.

That day has been gentle for a long time.

It's all up to you.

I remember when you said you would love me forever.

Spend this life with me.

In the end, I was left with this result.

What should I say.

Why did you make a promise to me?

Let me give so much for you.

Thought I would be your only sustenance.

Only I can give you happiness forever.

Why did you make a promise to me?

At this moment, he left me ruthlessly.

Thousands of pounds of memories weighed me down.

Losing you is what life is.

You told me to break up.

Have been in love with him for a long time.

Hide it from me, just don't want to see me cry.

You say you have to keep striving for a better life.

That day has been gentle for a long time.

It's all up to you.

I remember when you said you would love me forever.

Spend this life with me.

In the end, I was left with this result.

What should I say.

Why did you make a promise to me?

Let me give so much for you.

Thought I would be your only sustenance.

Only I can give you happiness forever.

Why did you make a promise to me?

At this moment, he left me ruthlessly.

Thousands of pounds of memories weighed me down.

Losing you is what life is.

Why did you make a promise to me?

Let me give so much for you.

Thought I would be your only sustenance.

Only I can give you happiness forever.

Why did you make a promise to me?

At this moment, he left me ruthlessly.

Thousands of pounds of memories weighed me down.

Losing you is what life is.

There is a type of person who swears poisonously when he makes a promise, and he uses it to curse himself or his family if he is really ruthless, but this kind of person often says it casually, and it is common to say that he will not fulfill his promise at all, which is really incredible.

In high school, in order to be the goddess in my mind, my brother and I bragged that I wanted to lose 30 pounds a semester, but I only ate one meal a day at noon every day for this promise and ran to the playground to play basketball without class every afternoon, I was really hungry and wanted to eat soil, and then I succeeded in losing 35 pounds in one semester, but now I often have stomach aches in addition to stomach problems.

I have a friend, in order to be able to win the consent of his future mother-in-law, he promised to buy a house within a year, and then he went directly to the construction company, went to work at 8 o'clock in the morning and got off work at 11 o'clock in the evening, and did not go home much for a year.

There are many accidents in life that always come quietly and catch people off guard. Don't be sad when others ignore you, everyone has their own life, and it is a great mercy to be able to accompany you through a short journey. Perhaps, there are many things that we don't want to believe in our hearts, but there is no other way for us to do it but accept it.

Life is long, and it's a pity.

When I was in preschool, I played with a girl, and her parents came to pick her up early that day. As we were leaving, she handed me the pillow and said, "You should always hold our children until you go home." My parents' factory was late for work, so I didn't play with the children, and I waited for a long, long time with a pillow until my dad came to pick me up.

A few years ago, I promised to find a classmate who worked in a bank to apply for a credit card (which she needed for her performance), but she didn't do it for various reasons, and now I am ashamed to think about it. A few days ago, I happened to see a news that an old man had been scavenging for more than ten years, in order to keep his promise and pay off his debts. Thinking about the atmosphere of the lord who owes debts nowadays, the sentiment of the old man is even more valuable.

Whatever the reason, people who keep their word are worthy of respect.

The long-distance relationship was very painful, I couldn't bear it, and I broke up twice. I don't even know why. broke her heart and broke up. The words that were said turned out to be really just impulses. I was wrong, and I really regret it. My mind is full of you.

I feel that sane people will do their best to promise, but people who lose their minds and even want to save face will ruin their families and wives.

It's not worth it, it's not an absolute commitment, and there's no need to give up your life's happiness for a promise.

It's not worth it, because human life is finite, and it's a shame to waste all your time waiting!

The promise itself is not important, the important thing is the mood of the person when he commits to it, grasp it well, so that his mood does not change with everything that is changing all the time, take 10,000 steps back and say, even if all the promises are credible, we should not live by the promise, what do you say...

There is no worthiness in the world, only whether you will do it or not, if you do anything, you will ask yourself if it is worth it, wait for a lifetime for a commitment, if you do it, then it is not worth it, it is too late to regret it, anyway, it has been done, and there is nothing that is not worth it.