Isn t it too tough for girls to be popular??? What kind of girls are popular???

Men generally have a desire to protect girls, no matter what the way it is, men like their girlfriends to rely on themselves more, but if you are too tough, it will hit the self-esteem of ordinary men! It's a little afraid to approach, so don't show it if you're really tough, it's good to pretend to be stupid! I think gentle, kind, and cute girls are the most popular! ~

Tough girls aren't unpopular.

Tough is just another explanation for the pungent personality.

Popular girls are actually just as popular as popular people.

Empathetic, caring for others, knowing how to consider other people's feelings are the most popular people.

It has nothing to do with personality.

It doesn't matter what kind of person, what matters is the cultivation of personal connotation, and the self of individuality must be lived.

A gentle woman is the best, but don't be too gentle, like Lin Daiyu.

Men will appreciate smart women, like gentle women, cherish lovely women, and avoid aggressive women, and don't know what kind of tough you are talking about.

Most guys like petite and cute type girls.

That kind of tough girl doesn't have a femininity, it depends on your appreciative eyes and angles.

Tough is not the same as being spicy, nor is it the same as being unreasonable.

Do what you are.

Only a woman with characteristics can attract the attention of others.

Not necessarily, what kind of man likes what kind of woman.

No, there are people who specifically like tough women.

Keep your own character and be your true self!

Maybe our life is in an environment of struggling with difficulties and hardships, and maybe life needs our understanding and rationality, rather than passively doing self-righteous things.

From another point of view, sometimes it can be a little feminine!

Everyone has a beautiful side, just look at whether there is an eye to find beauty. As long as you have a good side, you will be appreciated by others.

No. This type of girl is relatively cold, difficult to approach, and there are fewer friends in reality.

Popular, in fact, those girls who are more tsundere are either more beautiful or very capable, so even if they don't do anything, they can be welcomed by others because of her highlights.

It is not popular in reality, because such girls will give people bad feelings when they get along with other people.

It is very unpopular in real life, because people hate such girls and prefer girls who are easier to contact.

These girls are still relatively unpopular, because these girls are not the kind of people they like, and most people don't like such people.

It's not popular in reality.,It makes people feel particularly aggressive.,Generally speaking, popularity is not particularly good.。

They are very unpopular in reality because their personalities are very annoying and they don't fit in.

I think it depends on the reaction of the people around you, if you are not particularly tsundere, maybe others will think you are still a little cute, if others can't stand your tsundere, then it is not very popular.

Not popular, because these tsundere girls are always very ungrounded. It's like a fairy who doesn't eat the fireworks of the world.

Those more tsundere girls will not be popular in real life, because most of us prefer the kind of humble and polite girls to this kind of tsundere goddess.

Some people are too high-minded and arrogant, which can make people feel very unsociable, so such people are not really welcome in reality.

Many girls must have set a small goal in their hearts, that is, to be an independent and strong woman in the future. In this way, you can protect yourself from harm. However, the strength mentioned here is often experienced at work, and strong women at work are generally not popular with boys.

Because men's self-esteem is often relatively strong, a woman who is too strong in his ability to work will give him a sense of oppression, and naturally he will not be too popular. When I was working as an intern before, there was a female colleague who was very strong at work, of course, we girls would dislike her a little bit for most reasons, but she was still a little jealous because she was a celebrity in front of her boss. But male colleagues of the same generation don't like her very much, and they can't say that they don't like her, anyway, they just feel a sense of distance from her.

This is probably because of the other party's strong limbs at work.

Another aspect of strength is the strength of character. This situation is relatively common, because many women are strong at work, but they feel very comfortable in personality, so they will also be very popular. And this kind of strong woman in personality doesn't matter how big or small you are.

Whether in life, the relationship is very strong. Just like the colleague I mentioned above, part of the reason why she is not popular is that she is too strong in personality. Yu Shout may be because of her good performance, so usually when she is in a meeting, she always speaks impulsively.

Even when the company had a party, she said that she was going to have a dinner party, and if someone said that it was not good, she would ask very strongly about it. Anyway, people in the company don't like to talk to her very much!

So girls can be more aggressive at work, but in life, I still think they should be gentler in terms of getting along with people.

Usually in people's understanding, men in society are usually strong, they have the ability to have a sense of responsibility and responsibility, and can bear the burden on their shoulders, while women are husbands and children at home, have a relatively stable job, and have a very gentle temperament. But gradually there are some strong women in society, they either have the pressure at work or life experience, which causes them to become very strong, but gradually find that strong women are not popular with people.

The reason why strong women are not popular may be due to the traditional perception that men are stronger, while women are usually more gentle, and if you ask everyone to listen to a male leader in a team, then everyone may take it for granted, and Fan Shu will naturally obey him. However, if you are a very strong woman in a team, you may feel very uncomfortable and even hate the woman by pointing fingers at what you do.

Sometimes a girl with a cute appearance is a well-behaved and gentle girl in the eyes of anyone, but if you know that she is very strong and has a tough personality, then you may be disappointed, and we will gradually stay away from such women. I think another reason is that there are still relatively few strong women in society, and if 80% of women in society are very strong, just like 80% of strong men, then maybe people will not reject them.

With the development of society and the acceleration of the pace of life, there are more and more leftover women. It's not that they don't want to get married, it's just that they haven't met the right person yet, or someone who wants to marry them.

There are many reasons for older leftover women, the main ones are the following:

One is highly educated, most of the time is spent on studying, concentrating on the pursuit of high education. Age.

At this time, the highly educated men were already married, and the low-educated men had no interest in them and ended up leaving themselves at home.

The second is a high-paid white-collar worker with a strong ability to work and a salary that is not cheap. Successful men like to find a little woman who can take care of the family. Ordinary men are afraid to move forward because of the imbalance in economic income. Put them in the middle, no one cares.

Third, they are good-looking, but not talented. They are good-looking on the outside, but they have no substance. Good-looking people don't look down on them, and ordinary-looking people don't want to get married. There is only one pair left to enjoy alone.

There are many other reasons, it's just that they didn't meet the right person at the right time to be single.

There are more and more older women, aren't you afraid that you won't be able to marry children?

Leftover women generally refer to single women over the age of 27. Many "leftover women" have high education, high income, and good looks. But there are also many leftover women with average conditions.

Marriage is very important in our daily lives, and having children is also a top priority. However, with the development of science and technology and the progress of society, people's minds have gradually broadened, and having children is no longer the only way for women, so they are not afraid that they will not be able to marry and have children. And looking around, marriage is full of struggling souls, and the loneliness of two people is no more than the loneliness of one person, which makes many people afraid of love and marriage.

Some parents put a lot of pressure on their children, believing that if a woman cannot get married at the age of 30, she will never marry again. Actually, this is a wrong view. Leftover women do not mean being eliminated, but pursuing high standards of achievement.

They just want to find a more suitable partner and have children, instead of rushing to get married and have children, bringing unhappiness to their lives and making them regret it for the rest of their lives. I've been single for a long time, I don't want to fall in love anymore, and I don't want to get married!

More and more people choose to be single, in addition to not having an ideal marital status around them, they keep hearing about the difficulties in marriage. An unhappy marriage has become something they hate, and some people think that marriage is no longer a necessity in life. The attitude towards marriage is stricter and more cautious.

I often hear people around me say, "You can do whatever you want." The implication is that you should go to school, and you should get married when you get a job after graduation.

In fact, age is not an absolute boundary. A high-quality single is far better than a low-quality marriage. Instead of torturing each other in marriage, it is better to live happily alone.

You should never get married just because you're of marriageable age. You have to believe that you are not afraid of being late for a good meal, and there will always be someone who understands all your bluffs and waits for all your hesitation to stop!

What kind of girl is the least popular? Obviously, girls who are unscrupulous, lack respect for others, and are unkind to others are the least welcome. Such girls speak contemptuously and insultingly, ask sarcastic questions, behave purposefully, have no tolerance or compassion, no self-restraint, and no respect for others.

In addition, girls who lack family education, lack moral cultivation, do not control their emotions, and have unscrupulous behavior are also the least welcome.

The most considered argument in love should be whether the other party loves you, whether the two of you have a good mode of getting along, about career, this is a balance of life and lack of security, as long as the man is down-to-earth, he can do it. In de facto love, you should not intersperse too many things into it, be innocent, be honest, pure, preferably, you love her and she loves you, you can meet the necessary expenses of life, such as rent, food, commuting, communication, etc., and it is best to have a part of the balance, which can be used relatively freely, or stored to deal with various unexpected problems.

In general, a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen, a monthly salary of more than 7,000 yuan in second-tier cities, and a monthly salary of more than 4,000 yuan in third- and fourth-tier cities can almost meet the above requirements.

Indeed, with the basic living guarantee, there are conditions to talk about comfort.

For example, if you earn tens of thousands of yuan a month, but you have a salary of 996 yuan, and you have a goal of buying a big house in Beijing, then most of you will not be comfortable, but will easily become angry and complain.

Another example is that you earn a few thousand dollars a month, and in a second-tier city, although you live in a tight position, you are optimistic by nature and do not have much ambition, and at the same time, your work is very easy, you have a lot of leisure time, and you may be able to live a quiet life.

It is difficult to satisfy people's hearts, when you first work and share a house with others, you feel comfortable in a small room, and after a few years, the salary goes up, and you don't want to live in a house without a bedroom and a large living room.

The income is high, and the eyes are also picked. The poor have their suffering, and so do the rich.

Therefore, the key to comfort or not lies in the mentality.

In this life, it is inevitable that people will encounter times when they are not satisfied. If you have a good attitude and live a relaxed life, you will be more comfortable.

Everyone understands this.

What really makes people happier and healthier comes from good relationships.

And in all relationships, it is the quality of intimacy that plays a decisive role.

It turns out that a marriage full of conflict and emotionless is bad for health, and can even be worse than divorce.

And living in a good, warm relationship is protective.

People in relationships who really feel like they can rely on another person when they need to have a clear memory for longer.

People who feel that they really can't rely on another person in a relationship will have memory loss earlier.

This shows that the quality of intimate relationships has a direct impact on a person's mental state.

If the relationship between husband and wife is not strong, no matter how good the mentality is, it will collapse one day.

Therefore, the quality of intimate relationships determines a person's state of mind to a certain extent.