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You have to ask yourself what you really need in your love before you can make a decision.
You and his cousin have their first time, and you don't feel right about your first boyfriend, so you don't have to break up. I think the point is that you don't know what kind of relationship you want yet. Feelings are not something that can be broken up because you feel sorry, nor is it because it is the first time so you must be together.
My suggestion is:
First, since you gave your first boyfriend's cousin, it's not okay to reconcile with your first boyfriend in the future, because once he knows the truth, he will definitely have some scruples. Sooner or later, this matter will be exposed.
Second, if you have feelings for his cousin, then develop them well, and don't have any guilt, after all, feelings are selfish, and there is nothing to be sorry for.
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Aren't you too emotional
Think about it. Don't be impulsive
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That's right. If not, I think all three of you will be sad.
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But if you can both accept the past and both love each other, then it's a different story.
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If you love each other, what distance can you separate two people
If he doesn't care, what else can't you let go?
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It's all divided, ask a fart? But if you can both accept the past and both love each other, then it's a different story.
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Unforgettable first love. It's not your fault that you broke up with your ex-friend, and you fell on the rails during the relationship, assuming you were married for many years. It can well be imagined.
Have no regrets. And the current boyfriend, you should think more carefully, it is he who takes the initiative to chase you, and he also knows that he is the second, when he chases you or maybe the goal is achieved, the product begins to turn over the old account. As a man, I don't know how to care for and tolerate my beloved, and it will be common for you to quarrel with him after marriage.
You are now letting his strengths cover up his weaknesses, and the road is far away. At that point, the pain will be with you. It is recommended that you choose a partner who loves you as the main thing and loves him as the second.
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Erase all the previous memories, delete, delete, **delete! Erase everything about her!
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This has to be considered comprehensively.
He didn't have a job because he didn't want to look for it; Or is he looking for it, picking and choosing in the process; I'm still trying to find it, but I haven't found the right one yet.
To what extent you listen to your mother's words, everyone will listen to your parents' words to a certain extent, depending on whether this degree is too much and you have lost yourself.
Marriage needs to be carefully considered, not only considering the feelings of the two people, but also considering the situation of the two families, and even the longer-term plans must be considered first, and it is best for the two people to go through the small things in the family in the future. Because those small things may become conflicts in the future and affect the marriage.
If you've broken up, let it go. Find your new life. A man who will only urge you to get married, but doesn't know how to manage a marriage, is not a good partner.
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In fact, you are an insecure person, there is no stable job, and there is a lack of material basis for love and marriage, in fact, your idea is also right, in order to have a better life in the future, you must first find a job. On the issue of marriage, as a man, he should be responsible, and he should not force you so much.
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I don't have a job, but I'm still looking for a jobStill not looking for a job. This is clear, you didn't agree when you got married, it's hard to think about it, you don't want to marry her, just play!
You explain to him that our income is not stable now, and it is not enough to support a family, and I don't want to get married and live and ask for money to spend at home. Hope you understand.
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You first have to understand why he and his parents are in such a hurry to get married, try to understand them. Then let them know what you really think, and worry about. Love is mutual understanding, and the basis of understanding is communication, try to communicate with him and his family. Come on.
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In fact, your own decision is right, love and marriage are two different things.
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If you can't see the future of love, why force yourself, thank you for adopting.
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Is the rich second generation, thinking about getting married without anything, so what kind of life and what do you use to support you? Too immature.
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Don't think about it clearly, he listens to his parents so much now, and when he gets married in the future, there is a quarrel between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, maybe he will still look at his mother, because he listens to his parents too much, and you will suffer in the end.
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Don't get tangled, it's not necessary!
I think your boyfriend is ignoring your feelings.
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Don't want such a man, such a man is a scumbag, after breaking up with you, there will be another woman, and after breaking up with another woman, you will pursue you after the breakup, you say that such a man is a scumbag.
Maybe he thinks it's to satisfy your curiosity, and in his subconscious he thinks that girls should want to see what their boyfriend's ex is like, especially their first love, but it seems that he didn't think it through and didn't take into account your feelings.