It was only in the society that I found that it is difficult to be a good person, what should I do i

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1. I think it's really not difficult to be a good person in today's society, and there are many good people. The problem is that there are conflicts of interest between different groups of people in society, which creates contradictions. Some interest groups are powerful and occupy an advantageous position in social competition, so other interest groups that conflict with them will feel oppressed.

Some people can't stand this kind of oppression and try their best to join the dominant group, so they become the "enemy" of the group they belonged to before, and become the "bad guys". Some people suffer from this oppression and feel that they are the pitiful party and the "good people".

2. As the saying goes, "Good people have good rewards, bad people have bad rewards, it's not that they don't report it, the time has not come".

However, many wicked people are still living in style, but there are many good people, but good people have been punished.

I myself am very entangled in whether people are inherently evil or inherently good.

My parents taught me from a young age to be kind to others, and to suffer from others. However, my good ones will always be bullied and deceived. Being bullied by a good friend and cheated on by a man you like.

I want to be a bad guy. However, the mind that has been taught since childhood has been imprisoned into a specific pattern and way of thinking, and it eats soft rather than hard.

It's really tiring to be a good person and be a good person who can think about others.

3. In recent years, things like porcelain touching and moral kidnapping have emerged in an endless stream. In fact, it reflects a common problem, a large part of the elderly group has become impetuous after a long time in society because of the lack of education they received in the past, and they have begun to use their status as elderly people to seek improper benefits for themselves. It's just a generational phenomenon.

With the popularization of nine-year compulsory education and the increasingly prosperous scientific, educational, and cultural undertakings after the reform, there will be more and more high-quality people in the future, and these pathological phenomena will become less and less.

One day, after eating from a restaurant with my friends, I saw a stroller falling to the ground at the door, and my friend and I turned a blind eye and didn't dare to help it! In case the owner of the car sees it and says that we knocked it down, we are afraid that we will not have the money to pay.

4. I have a scooter, and I usually drive it less, and my friends often use it to drive, and I don't care. But one incident made me realize that I can't borrow a car at will. I remember that at noon that day, she called me and said in frustration that there was a car accident, and she was fully responsible for crippling an old lady, and I was stunned.

My colleague's family was not in a good financial situation, so I ended up adding a lot of money to buy another car. Helping others is fun to polish your eyes, sometimes it's asking for trouble, I saw a ** female college student Xiao Yuan riding a bicycle and encountering an old man falling to the ground, Xiao Yuan immediately helped the old man up, and the old man then pointed out that Xiao Yuan hit himself. In the end, it was brought to court.

5. In fact, everyone is making decisions, and there is a very important dimension behind decision-making, which is the ethical dimension, that is, ethical decision-making. The reason why ethical decision-making is difficult is because there is an ethical dilemma behind ethical decision-making, which is a dilemma. What's more, no ethical approach is absolute, and no decision is unique.

It is the law of nature. It is also a social law. This law has been practiced since there were living things on earth.

No one can change him. The natural world has always been a matter of natural selection, selecting the fittest. This law guarantees the evolution and development of human society and natural organisms.

This law has been applied in the past, and it will continue to be applied in the future. In other words, it is reasonable for this law to exist. This law promotes the strong in nature to become stronger, and the weak to constantly abandon their own backwardness and pursue the advanced in order to survive.

Regardless of the species, the fittest is actively selected, thus ensuring the evolution of nature. Promote the natural world and human society to continuously improve their own quality.

Do you mean that the weak should be bullied? It's a grievance for the weak. This grievance has existed since the advent of private ownership.

In Chinese history, from Chen Sheng and Wu Guang to the Yellow Turban Uprising and the May Fourth Movement, they are all shouting loudly and trying to eradicate injustice. With the development of society to the present day, China's socialist system marks China's leading position in the social system. The Chinese people enjoy extensive freedom.

But the phenomenon of the weak being bullied, as you mentioned, still exists. The difference will always be there and will always be there.

This is true of a person, and so is it of a people. If you want not to be bullied, you have to make yourself strong. Only when we are strong can we have the ability to change the phenomenon of the jungle.

The three moments that make me feel that it is difficult for a good person to do are:

1. When you take the initiative to help others, but you take it for granted, you will feel that it is difficult to be a good person.

Under normal circumstances, when you take the initiative to help others, you should get kind thanks from them. But sometimes, when you take the initiative to help others, you will take it for granted, and even think that it is wrong for you not to help him, which will surprise you inexplicably, and then you will have the feeling that it is difficult for a good person to do.

2. When you are excessively asked to help others, it will make you feel that it is difficult to be a good person.

Generally speaking, when a person has received help from others and his or her own difficulties have been solved, he will express his gratitude to the other person and will no longer accept the help of the other person. However, some people ask for too much when they accept the help of others, and turn the help of others into their own improper profits, which will make people feel that it is difficult for good people to do it.

3. Originally, I was kind enough to help others, but I was accused for no reason, and I felt that it was difficult to be a good person.

Sometimes, when we help others with good intentions, we get unwarranted accusations instead of gratitude, and the other party ignores our help and pesters and blames them for what they are not satisfied with. This situation can be very chilling and lead to the idea that it is difficult for good people to do it.

The above situations are not uncommon in interpersonal communication, so when we want to help others, we must first think about how to protect ourselves, so that we can be a really good person.

will be calculated by some scheming people and think that you have another purpose, but just be yourself, don't care what others think and how to evaluate.

There are several main reasons why it is difficult to be a good person now:

1.Confusion of social values. The pluralism of values in modern society, and different people have different pursuits and standards, which leads to inconsistent definitions and cognitions of the concept of "good person", making the standard of being a good person blurred and confusing.

2.Social competitive pressure and profit driven. In modern society, competition is fierce, and people tend to pursue short-term and personal interests in order to survive and profit, while ignoring moral and ethical issues. This profit-driven behavior makes it harder to be a good person.

3.The complexity of the nature of human nature. Human nature is complex, there are good and evil, people are often affected by their own interests, social environment, family background and other factors, it is difficult to achieve complete goodness and purity.

4.Information** and values shock. In modern society, people are affected by a variety of information and values, and sometimes it is difficult to distinguish between truth and falsehood and judge good and bad, and they are easily misled by some wrong remarks and opinions, thus deviating from the direction of being a good person.

The above are some of the main reasons why it is difficult to be a good person nowadays. However, being a good person is a kind of personality cultivation, which is worthy of our constant pursuit. We can gradually cultivate our awareness and behavior habits of being a good person by learning positive values, following moral principles, respecting others, and being helpful, so as to become a good person with moral character and responsibility.

Now the society is not what it used to be, and it is really difficult to be a good person, but we should not be a bad person, or be a good person and do good deeds, and there will be good results.