Why am I not trusting others now?

Because I am afraid of being hurt, I can't come out in self-protection! You know he loves you and treats you well. But in your heart, the more he does this, the more worried you are about the outcome.

So you will hurt him, in fact, in your heart you think about him. But when you see that he is truly in love, you feel a warmth in your heart, but you still don't feel at ease, right? In fact, you have a bit of a vicious circle in your heart now, if you don't adjust your thoughts and mentality, be careful that you will really fail your happy love now!

Don't push yourself, don't put too much pressure on yourself, people should always look forward, the road they have walked, the people they have loved, they will not come back after the past, and coming back is no longer the original scenery of the original mood, why be so persistent? People are always wonderful, when you have loved someone with your heart but have to break up with him, you will feel that life has lost all its color all at once, and even have the idea of ending your life, but when you stubbornly survive, you will find that in fact, the so-called unforgettable love turned out to be just a beautiful and illusory dream. Don't worry too much about everything, let the past pass, let go of the burden, relax, live happily every minute and second of the present, live every day full and happy, maybe in the near future you will meet more beautiful scenery and better lover at the next intersection of life.

Time will tell, and maybe one day you will discover what a wise choice it was to leave him. Time will tell, maybe one day you just want to think about him again, but find that you can't remember anything! You may even wonder if the story of the past belongs to you.

People really have to talk about fate, fate is gathered, fate is dispersed, since you break up, no matter what the reason, it can only mean that your fate is over. In that case, why can't you let go? To be a man, you should be able to afford to put it down!

Whether it's for people or things, I hope you can understand the truth ... Finally, I wish you health, happiness, happiness and luck, I believe that you will be able to adjust your mentality, live, work and study well, and I also believe that the god of luck will come knocking on your door at any time to wish you happiness.

People who never trust others are more selfish in their personalities, because they feel that they have received less love in the process of growing up, and they have not been recognized by others.

First of all, some people lack a caring upbringing. If such people grow up, they will be indifferent to others, and then sometimes their mentality and emotions are not very stable, and they will seem to be irritable and irritable when they encounter some things.

Second, there are some people who are more repulsive to the environment. They are reluctant to fit in, they feel that their surroundings are full of danger, or they feel anxious and uncomfortable. I am also due to my own mentality, which is related to the environment in which I grew up when I was a child.

Third, they never want to trust others, they feel that they are the most reliable. Because after experiencing some things or dangers, they feel that others are always lucky to know that they are not able to think about themselves, especially the relatives around them, and do not think about themselves, then they are not willing to trust their relatives and friends.

Like my upbringing, it's still relatively friendly, and your relatives are willing to think about you and make some concessions for you. Therefore, it is necessary to have a good growth environment, and if there is no good growth environment, you can also adjust your own state.

It has a lot to do with the environment in which you were raised, and if you don't feel safe or hurt in your childhood, you will be less likely to trust others.